Is there a custom of treating children as heterosexual when they are difficult to raise?

We also have this saying here, but it's not a custom. Personally, I think it should be called superstition For example, when infants and young children are sickly, what is missing from the five elements of fortune telling should be included in the name. Just worship a godmother or change your name or something. I have two godfathers since I was a child. . . . .