How important is it to have an enlightened parent?

I think it is very important to have a pair of enlightened parents, because they can directly affect their children's life and study. When a child encounters any problems in life, parents can always help the child find the direction, which will not only bring any negative energy to the child, but also directly help the child find the direction of struggle and life. Therefore, having a pair of enlightened parents is also very good for children.

That's what my parents do. An enlightened pair of parents, whenever they encounter any problems, will always come up with solutions for themselves, and will also consider the problems from their own perspective, so that they can feel that their parents have given them great help. When they chose to start a business, their parents not only did not object, but gave them a lot of support. When they suffered a series of blows from the failure of starting a business, their parents always had something to comfort their ears and make their sad hearts a little more practical.

Because the warmth of family is irreplaceable and incomparable, many times, after we encounter difficulties and blows, parents can always stand by and help us solve problems and guide our lives. Therefore, enlightened parents are very important for a person's growth and education.

Of course, there are some enlightened parents in our life, and my friend Sun Xiao is such an example. When Sun Xiao went to college, he got good grades, got his favorite major and liked English very much. However, Sun Xiao's father was very opposed to Sun Xiao's learning English. He thought that English was worthless in the future and learning English was a waste of time. Therefore, whenever Sun Xiao learns English, Sun Xiao's father always stands out against it and makes a long speech. As a result, Sun Xiao hated his father very much, while Sun Xiao's mother stood by and kept silent, without making any suggestions or even comforting words. As a result, Sun Xiao and his father were hurt after each quarrel, and Sun Xiao was full of complaints about his father for a long time.

After graduating from college, Sun Xiao went to Beijing, which is far away from home, for three years. During these three years, Xiao Sheng never came home. When I saw Sun Xiao's father's white-haired sideburns, I felt the vicissitudes of time, and also let me see that the contradiction between Sun Xiao and his father has entered an irreconcilable state.

Each of us wants to live in harmony with our parents, but there are many realistic situations in front of us, but we can't make a breakthrough. This is also a difficult problem for many of us, so in order to make a real family harmonious, everyone must make changes.