I have thought about divorce countless times, but what should I do if I can't bear to have children?

I have thought about divorce countless times, but what should I do if I can't bear to have children?

Don't use children as an excuse, in fact, you are trying to escape.

Whether you plan to repair your feelings or choose divorce, it is best not to delay, but to make a choice as soon as possible; Because your painful marriage with your partner will seriously affect your children.

The children around you will also feel the pain of you and your partner. When they feel your emotions, they will blame themselves even more. He will blame himself for many failures in your marriage and this family, and they will think that their parents will quarrel because they are not good enough. It may even be influenced by the negative emotions of you and your partner and become moody.

These will seriously affect children's personality and outlook on life. After a long time, children will become sensitive, inferior, irritable, even autistic, no longer believe in feelings and so on. It can be said that an unhappy family environment is more harmful to children than divorce itself.

I can't bear to part with my children, so I can actively fight for their custody.

The relationship between parents and children is not eliminated by parents' divorce. After the divorce, the child is still the child of both parents, whether or not the parents directly raise him.

After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise and educate their children.

After divorce, the nursing children shall be raised by foster mothers. If the two parties fail to reach an agreement because of a dispute over the upbringing of a child after lactation, the people's court shall make a judgment according to the rights and interests of the child and the specific circumstances of both parties.

An agreement or judgment on the child's living expenses and education expenses shall not prevent the child from making a reasonable request to either parent for more than the original amount of the agreement or judgment when necessary.