A 72-year-old aunt lives a fortune _ Does a 72-year-old aunt live a fortune?

What are people most worried about when they live to seventy?

Foreword With the growth of age and rich experience, our thoughts will become more and more mature, we will understand the truth more and more, and our attitude towards life will become more and more transparent. There are old people in the family, and the treasure is worth it. This is the truth.

In our eyes, the older the old man, the more fearless he is. Nothing seems to make their mood fluctuate, even death.

But in fact, as long as people are still alive and care about things, there will be things to be afraid of.

Let's listen to the voices of three old people and see what they are most afraid of after 70 years old.

Aunt Zhang, 72, "I am not afraid of death, but I am afraid of getting sick, not only torturing myself, but also bringing trouble to my children."

I am 72 years old and my wife has been gone for eight years. He walked peacefully, but he suffered me and lived alone for so many years.

My wife and I have a pair of children. They are very filial. They repeatedly advised me to move in with them, but I refused. It's not that I don't want to live with them, but I'm afraid that living with them will cause friction with them. After all, they are two generations, and I am very different from them in terms of ideas and living habits. It is difficult to live with them for a long time, and nine times out of ten it will be unpleasant. At that time, some messy things affected my feelings with them, which was not cost-effective.

But then again, the taste of living alone is really hard. It's nothing for a short time, but day after day, year after year, I feel particularly lonely in my heart.

These are actually good. What I fear most now is getting sick, not dying. For people my age, I have long looked down on life and death. I am mainly worried that I can't take care of myself after being troubled by the disease.

If I can't take care of myself, I can only trouble my children to take care of me. They are tired enough to worry about their small families, and I am such a burden that they will be overwhelmed.

My biggest wish now is to leave happily and early, as long as it doesn't drag down the children.

Uncle Li, 73, "What I am most afraid of now is to leave before my wife, who is in poor health. What can she do if I leave first! "

I am 73 years old and my wife is three years younger than me. My wife has been in poor health and has been ill all the year round.

I have a good relationship with my wife. Over the years, no matter how hard life is, we have never thought about being apart. We have supported each other all the way, which has long been an inseparable part of each other's lives.

In the past two years, I can clearly feel that my health is failing. I'm a little scared that I'll leave before my wife. My wife is in poor health, and now I can take care of her. But what can she do if I leave?

Although there are children to take care of her, I am not at ease. Not that children are unfilial. It is that they have too many things to do and it is impossible to separate too much attention from their wives.

However, I am afraid and worried. What should happen will still happen. The only thing I can do is to keep exercising and keep healthy. As for what will happen tomorrow, I can only resign myself to fate.

Aunt Hu, 70, "I am most afraid that my children's grandchildren will be left unattended after I leave."

I am 70 years old and my wife has been gone for five years. After she left, I was sad but not lonely, because I had a grandson with me.

My wife and I have two sons. They and my two daughters-in-law work outside the home all the year round and will come back all the year round for the Spring Festival.

I have two grandchildren and two granddaughters. When they were very young, they were thrown to me by my two sons.

It has been more than ten years in this area. Now the eldest granddaughter is in college and the second grandson is in high school.

I don't have to worry about either of them. I'm worried about two small ones. The third grandson has just entered the sixth grade this year, and the little granddaughter is only in the fourth grade.

What I fear most now is that no one will take care of them after I leave. My two sons and daughters-in-law are both working outside to earn money, and they can't get away from it at all.

I just hope my old bones can last until my little granddaughter goes to high school. In this case, if several grandchildren have the ability to take care of themselves, they don't need to be taken care of by others, and their sons and daughters-in-law don't have to worry.

Conclusion What do people fear most in their later years?

The biggest fear is that illness drags down children; What I am most afraid of is that my wife is not doing well after I leave; The biggest fear is that after I leave, no one will help the children share the pressure.

We will find that people care most about their children and partners in their later years.

For the elderly, death is not terrible, because there are things more precious than life, such as family ties.