Do I look like a successful person to you?

How to be a successful person -2 1 the belief that determines one's achievements in life

1, I am the best, I will succeed! Someone once did an experiment: he put a flea in a glass and found that it jumped out easily. Repeated several times, the result is still the same. According to the test, the flea can jump about twice as high as its body, so it can be called the high jump champion in the animal kingdom. Next, the experimenter put the flea in the cup again, but this time, at&; amp； amp； A glass cover was added to the cup. uotboom & uot； With a loud noise, fleas hit the glass cover heavily. The flea is confused, but it won't stop, because the flea's lifestyle is&; uot& uot。 Being hit again and again, the flea began to get smarter, and it began to adjust its jumping height according to the height of the lid. After a while, I found that the flea never touched the lid again, but jumped under it. A day later, the experimenter began to gently remove the cover. The flea didn't know that the cover had been taken off, and continued to jump at the original height. Three days later, he found fleas still jumping there. A week later, I found the poor flea still jumping in this glass-in fact, it can't jump out of this glass. In real life, do many people live like this &; Uot Flea Life uot When they were young, they were in high spirits and tried to succeed many times, but they often backfired. After repeated failures, they began to either complain about the unfairness of the world or doubt their abilities. Instead of pursuing success at all costs, they have lowered the standard of success again and again-even if all the original restrictions are cancelled. In this way&; Uot glass cover &; Although uot took off, it was too scared to jump again by the collision, or it was used to it and didn't want to jump again. People are often willing to accept the life of losers because they are afraid to pursue success. Can a flea really not jump out of this cup? Absolutely not. Only its heart has acquiesced that the height of this cup is insurmountable. The way to make this flea jump out of this glass cup again is very simple, just take a small stick and suddenly knock on the cup heavily; Or take a bottle of wine and heat it under the cup. When the flea is too hot to stand, it will &; uotboom & uot； I jumped out. People are like this sometimes. Many people dare not pursue success, not because they can't pursue success, but because they also have a&; Uot height and size; This height often implies a person's subconscious mind that success is impossible and there is no way to do it. & uot psychological height &; Uot is one of the fundamental reasons why people can't achieve great achievements. Do you want to jump? Can you jump this height? Can I succeed? How successful can it be? The answers to all these questions don't need to wait until the actual results appear. Just look at how you think about these questions at the beginning and you will already know the answers. Don't set limits for yourself. Tell yourself loudly every day: I am the best and I will succeed! 2. I am the root of everything. UotABC emotional theory &; Uot Our emotions are mainly rooted in our beliefs and our evaluation and interpretation of life situations. Schopenhauer has a famous saying: things themselves do not affect people, but people are only influenced by their own views on things. We may not be able to control things, but at least we can adjust our mood. Countless facts tell us that the root of all results is often not the thing itself, but ourselves who have the right to make different comments and explanations on it-I am the root of everything! Let's stop complaining, because I am the root of everything. 3. I am what I think I have, and what kind of belief I will naturally choose; What kind of beliefs you have, what kind of attitude you choose; What kind of attitude you have, what kind of behavior you will have; What kind of behavior will have what kind of results. Therefore, in order to make the result better, let the behavior get better first; If you want to get better behavior, let your attitude get better first; If you want to get a better attitude, let your beliefs get better first; If you want to have better faith, let yourself choose better self-expectation. In your mind, you will become what you think you are. Because, as the core conclusion of self-intention psychology: I am what I think, and we are what we think! 4. Success comes from attitude &; Uot influence training &; Uot The organization has conducted tens of thousands of surveys. The results show that 80% of the key factors that determine a person's success are positive personal self-worth tendencies. Uot attitude and action; Class factors, such as various abilities; 7% belongs to so-called objective factors such as luck, opportunity, environment, time, talent and background. Whether we can control objective factors depends on your attitude, because it is rooted in our attitude towards objective factors and our grasp skills of objective factors. Success% is due to attitude! Let us remember this fascinating conclusion, let us think about success in this way of thinking, walk through the past in this way of thinking, grasp today and prepare for the future. The past is not equal to the future, just like today is decided. Uot skills and techniques; Not today, but yesterday's attitude towards skills; Decide tomorrow &; Uot skills and techniques; Not tomorrow is good or bad, but today's attitude towards skills. Our today is determined by the past. Our tomorrow is decided by today. The past is not equal to the future. The success or failure of the past only represents the past and the future depends on the present. Past success does not mean future success, and past failure does not mean future failure. Success or failure is not a result, but an event in the course of life. The most important thing in life is not where you come from, but where you are going. No matter how unfortunate the past is, it doesn't matter. The important thing is that you must be full of hope for the future. As long as you keep hope for the future, you will be full of strength now. Decide now: What kind of person do I want to be tomorrow? 6. People are great because they have dreams. The great man is great because he realized a great dream. The great man is great because he is living a great dream. A great man is great because he has a great dream. There is a philosopher cloud; People are great because they have dreams. The greatness of American black leaders Martin, Luther and King lies in his dream of equality between blacks and whites. Sun Yat-sen is great because he spent his whole life practicing the dream of imprisoning China for thousands of years. The reason why he is great is that his dream of becoming a powerful country has really made more than one billion people in China stronger. People are great because of their dreams! Thousands of years of feudal civilization once created glory for the Chinese nation, but at the same time, many negative thoughts and behaviors in traditional culture unfortunately imprisoned people's hearts. Passivity is also an ignorance; Ignorance leads to poverty; Poverty will lag behind, and backwardness will be beaten. The humiliation in modern history means that we have to accept the brand of others. We changed from blind arrogance to blind inferiority. Today, pessimism and negative thoughts are still imprisoning countless China. I have a dream that 65.438+200 million people in China can live a positive life without being negative or pessimistic. Stop complaining. Design a great dream for ourselves, and our life will begin to become extraordinary. We can become great people, and use our life to practice that great and glorious mission. 7. It's not impossible, but those who can't find a way for the time being must think about it&; Uot water cannot flow backwards &; Uot: We know this is because they haven't found a way to invent pumping. People nowadays must think that &; Uot The sun can't rise in the west &; People in the future of uot may say that it's because we haven't found a way for human beings to live in another world. Uot, the sun has just risen in the west. Uot has only one method on the planet. It's not impossible, but I haven't found a way yet. Let's not give ourselves too many rules, and don't always &; Uot self-limitation &; uot。 if &； Uot can't be a person or an enterprise &; Uot is a mantra & uot They are used to saying to themselves &; Uot This is impossible, that is impossible &; The atmosphere of uot may be doomed that it is difficult for them to shine in the tide of competition and eventually be defeated by those who do not say&; Uot can't be. uot only focuses on people who find ways. There must be a reason for failure, and there must be a way for success. Let's adjust our focus and put,&; Uot can't be the negative word uot comes from our&; Uot Private Dictionary &; Uot or&; uot； Enterprise dictionary &; Uot will be deleted forever, because even if we really encounter a problem, we can at least say: it's not impossible, but we haven't found a solution yet. 8. There must be a successful way&; Uot Creativity uot In training, there is a famous training case: How many uses do paper clips have? Your first reaction may only be to say: edit the file. Open your mind, you may have more uses: making ropes, nails, wires, buttons, jewelry, hairpins, fishhooks, toothpicks ... A Japanese scientist claims to have listed the uses of paper clips. There is a scholar in Nanjing who claims to be able to list 30 thousand kinds! How many uses do paper clips have? As long as you are willing to look for it, do you agree that the answer is: countless kinds! Since a small paper clip can have countless uses, how to solve a difficult problem? Numerous kinds of uot&; What about the uot method? Break the box of thinking and never set limits for yourself. There must be a reason for failure, and there must be a way for success. There is a Guinness World Record in Shanghai: Memorize a random number from 0 to 9 within 90 seconds. Include forward and backward, backward and backward at any position. If you see a live performance, you will definitely be a performer &; Uot is extraordinary. uot is impressed by skill. After systematic research, I found that the method is extremely simple and almost everyone can do it. In order to prove this point, I often perform for students in training classes, and let my teaching assistants and even students do it. At present, I am preparing to apply for a new Guinness record: memorizing random numbers in 5~ 10 minutes. The method is equally simple, and I believe everyone can do it. The specific method is right brain memory, that is, graphic memory. For example, Will &; uot 1。 Uot is recorded as&; Uot A forest tree &; Uot,&UOT 2&UOT is & uot； A goose &; uot，& ampuot 15 & amp； Uot is&; uot； A moon &; Uot,&UOT 79&UOT is&; uot； A string of balloons &; Uot, wait a minute. These are called &; Uot digital label &; Uot, and then treat every two numbers as a corresponding fixed & for a specific number or number string; Uot digital label &; Uot, and then put these labels in order &; Uot, put it on You are familiar with preset &; Uot is in position &&; Uot, for example, in your room, in your office, or somewhere on you. At this point, you only need to remember these numbers, and you are equivalent to remembering this string of numbers. 3 4 2 4 1 6 4 1 3 5 4 6 5 1 1 3 5 1 3 0 4 6 8 4 6 1 7 9 8 7 5 4 3 2 1 4 8 6 4 0 1 3 4 7 3 3 2 3 65438+ 0 3 2 4 6 4 3 1 3 1 1 3 4 6 6 9 4 3 2 3 1 6 4 1 3 1 3 4 7 1 0 0 3 5 7 2 5 8 7 9 1 2 0 0 0 3 1 654 38+0 3 5 4 5 4 3 2 1 8 7 5 6 4 2 4 3 1 4 6 9 5 3 4 8 7 8 9 7 4 1 32215416541212365438 All seemingly complicated things or seemingly intractable problems can find simple and easy solutions. There must be a successful method, just as there must be a method of memory. 9. Winners find ways, while losers find excuses to succeed. There is absolutely an excuse; If you have an excuse, you will never succeed. Only losers will look around for excuses to whitewash their failed behavior. Winners are always focused on finding ways. 10, fate is in your own hands, not others' mouths. I had a very interesting experience, which also influenced my life. Once, I visited a friend who had a successful career and chatted about my fate. The second time, I asked: Is there a fate in this world? He said: Of course. Let me ask you one more question: What is fate? Since destiny takes a hand, what's the use of struggle? He didn't answer my question, just smiled and grabbed my left hand and said, I'd better read my palm first. I am a fortune teller. He told me a life line, a love line, a career line and so on. Suddenly, he said to me, reach out and do an action like me. His action is to raise his left hand and slowly grasp his fist more tightly. He asked: Did you catch it? I replied in confusion: Hold on tight. He asked again: Where are those fate line? I answered mechanically: in my hand. He asked again: Excuse me, where is fate? I was shocked and suddenly realized that my destiny was in my own hands! He continued quietly: No matter what others tell you, no matter &; Uot fortune teller &; How can uot calculate it for you? Remember, fate is in your own hands, not someone else's mouth! This is destiny. Of course, if you look at your fist again, you will find that part of your lifeline is still outside and has not been caught. What inspiration can it give you? Most of our destiny is in our own hands, but some of it is in&; Uot Paradise uot is in the hands of ... Throughout the ages, who has become a big enterprise,&; Uot struggle and action; The significance is that Tian has earned it with his life's efforts &; Uot Heaven uot That part of your hand &; Uot fate & uot. I sat quietly for a long time, only to feel like a spring ... fate is in my own hands, not in others' mouths! Later, a student came to talk to me about her love problem and asked me for help. She is over 30 years old and has no boyfriend. However, it is not that she has never had a boyfriend, but when she was 23, a well-rumored fortune teller once told her that she would not get married until she was 33. After that, I had several opportunities to talk about friends, but every time I talked about marriage, she would think of the fortune teller's words, so she would say to herself: I won't get married until I am 33 years old, and I won't get married for a long time now. It's better to break up early than to give up what I love! In this way, in the long run, until today, I have made myself mentally miserable. I remembered this story, so I told her, according to&; Uot original &; Uot, I did what I said. In the process, I found that her feelings were strikingly similar to mine. Say that finish, she stood up and shouted, oh, I was miserable by that damn fortune teller! Say that finish, we all laughed. The belief that fate is in my own hands, not someone else's mouth, has almost changed my life. In 2000, I began to talk about success and do success training. At that time, I don't know how many people poured cold water on me, and even directly ridiculed you for being unsuccessful. Why teach others how to succeed? I have really experienced many low tides in my life: I went bankrupt twice. After graduating from college, I have probably done more than a dozen different jobs, such as university teacher, civil servant, busker, small painter, managing food market, going to the countryside, opening restaurants, assembly line workers, engaging in, engaging in and selling ... I came to Shanghai because Zhuhai failed to start a business, and I made five attempts in the first two years when I first came to Shanghai. Really, it's strange that whenever I hold my hand, I can feel my infinite confidence and motivation almost immediately. This belief has helped me to this day. What is so important to me should be equally useful to you. Why don't you try? Now hold your hand and say loudly to your subconscious: your destiny is in your own hands, not others' mouths! 1 1. God helps those who help themselves for life. However, we often don't know what opportunities we want or what opportunities look like. Even though I know that when the opportunity comes, I am often unprepared. Occasionally, I am really lucky to seize an opportunity, but I fail because I can't grasp the next luck. Or because you don't have enough ability and endurance to amplify it, stick to it and never give up until you succeed. The real opportunity is not the opportunity itself, but comes from our definition, understanding, preparation and grasp of the opportunity. Everyone will have good luck, and everyone is equal before the opportunity, but whether they can seize the opportunity is not necessarily equal, because if they want to help others one day, they must help themselves. This is an old saying of China: God helps those who help themselves! The harder you work, the better your luck will be. Opportunities are predictable and luck can be planned. Everyone will have good luck, provided that you make unremitting efforts to create luck and prepare yourself. Because luck always favors those who are prepared. Remember: the harder you work, the better your luck will be. 13, I want to, I can successfully from &; Uot I want to&; uot。 I can if I want to; If I have to, I can. What determines your success is not your ability, but&; Uot, you must succeed &; Uot decided &; Uot, you will be ready for the corresponding abilities &; uot； It is not the existing methods that determine your success, but&; Uot, you must succeed &; Uot decided &; Uot, you will find a way to succeed. uot。 14, the great philosopher Socrates once said a famous saying to a scholar: If you want to learn from me, you must have a strong thirst for knowledge, just as you have a strong desire for survival. So is the pursuit of success. To succeed, we must first have a strong desire for success, just as we have a strong desire for survival. Success comes from what I want, what I want, I can; I'll keep an eye on it. I will It is determination, not environment, that determines our success. Only determination can ultimately determine our success. 15, I'll go if the mountain doesn't come. In the pursuit of success, we will not be smooth sailing, we will definitely encounter difficulties, we will definitely encounter bottlenecks, and there will definitely be&uot hitting your head against the south wall &; Uot was at that time. There is a classic story in ""about a man who has been practicing for decades &; Uot moving mountains uot first he performed moving mountains in public, and then the ending of the story was enough for you to remember for more than three days-there is no such thing as moving mountains, and the only way to move mountains is to cross them if they don't come. There are too many images in the real world &; Uot Mountain uot Similarly, we can't change it, or at least temporarily. & uot Yishan UOT Enlightener: If things cannot be changed, we will change ourselves. If others don't like themselves, it's because they are not liked enough; If you can't convince others, it's because your persuasion ability is not enough; If customers are unwilling to buy our products, it is because we have not produced enough products for customers to buy; If we can't succeed, it's because we haven't found a way to succeed for the time being; If you want things to change, you must first change yourself; Only by changing yourself will you eventually change others; Only by changing yourself can you finally change your world. Shanshan, if you don't come, let's go! 16, make a little progress every day. I used to do push-ups every day for nearly two years. Maybe you dare to imagine that in the end, I will do more at a time, once in the morning and once in the evening! The reason for doing this sport is that I go to Shanghai alone. Uot makes a living & uot knows that I can't collapse and get sick when I have no friends and poor living conditions in all aspects. Comrades started this simplest sport. Under the circumstances at that time, apart from the fact that the body can't collapse, the most important thing is to face the enormous pressure of survival and the will can't collapse. I insist on doing push-ups every day, especially hundreds at a time. This really honed my endurance and will. Sure enough, I kill two birds with one stone. There is a simple way to practice push-ups, and that is: make a little progress every day. On the first day, I made 10 and began to gasp. Starting from 10, I increase 1 every two days, then increase 1 every day, and then increase 2 or 5 every day. Finally, I can increase 10 every day. Success means making a little progress every day! Success comes from the geometric superposition of many elements. Just as a mathematical power only increases 0 and 1 at a time, the product will be multiplied soon. For example: smile a little more than yesterday, act a little more than yesterday, innovate a little more than yesterday, and be more efficient than yesterday ... As time goes by, our tomorrow will be very different from yesterday. Success is doing simple things repeatedly; Success is to make a person make a little progress every day. If you make a little progress every day, even if it is 1%, just imagine, what can stop his ultimate success? An enterprise, if&; Uot makes a little progress every day&; Uot has become a part of its corporate culture. When everyone can make a little progress every day, just think, what obstacles can stop its ultimate glory? Our competitors are often not defeated by us, but forget to make a little progress every day. The winner is not smarter than us, but he makes a little progress every day. 17, it didn't fail, but it didn't succeed temporarily. When Hollywood superstars Sylvester and Stallone were young, their daily income was only 1 USD. In order to make a living, I went to the boxing gym as a sparring partner, and I was beaten black and blue every time. Later, he was determined to be a movie star, so he sold himself everywhere, but he was rejected several times and still didn't give up. Finally, he played the leading role in the movie Loki. Loki's play was written by Stallone himself, and the protagonist's life prototype is himself. From then on, it became an instant hit and became & Uot strives for self-transcendence, tenacious struggle and personal struggle &; Uot is a symbol of American spirit. In Stallone's eyes, the world has not failed, but it has not succeeded for the time being. The owner of KFC fast food restaurant is Colonel Sanders, who started his business at the age of 65. At first, he sold his secret recipe of fried chicken to people to get some venture capital or to own shares to earn income. Unexpectedly, Bole never went out twice! Finally forced to start their own business. So there is the myth of KFC today. In Colonel Sanders' mind, there is no failure in this world, only temporary failure. There is a feature in the dictionary of successful people that there is no&; Uot failed &; The word uot has only &; Uot I haven't succeeded yet&; uot。 18, failure is not a foregone conclusion as long as you don't give up. Uot cowboy king &; The history of uot Liwei's western development is also full of ups and downs and legends. His victory &; Uot magic weapon uot Yes: Whenever you are frustrated and hit, don't complain, but say to yourself very excitedly: Great! This kind of thing happened to me and gave me another chance to grow up. Everything happens for a reason, and it will help me. There are winners &; Uot spiritual victory method &; Throughout the ages, the more uot becomes a big enterprise, the stronger its spiritual strength. On the journey to success, setbacks are inevitable, and setbacks are inevitable. Successful people are not without low tide, but they will never let themselves be at low tide &; Uot has stayed in uot for too long. In pursuit of success. If we really encounter setbacks, setbacks or even failures, let us be like those who always think positively. Uot cowboy king &; Like Levi's, uot immediately said loudly to his subconscious: Great! This kind of thing happened to me and gave me another chance to grow up. Everything has a cause and effect, which will help me. There is only one step between greatness and mediocrity. The process of their lives is the same. They fell, got up, fell and got up, but the successful man fell less often than he got up, while the mediocre man fell only once more than he got up. People call the person who gets up for the last time &; Uot winner &; uot。 People define people who can't get up for the last time, or people who don't want to get up or dare not get up. Uot loser uot. In the face of failure, please always remember a belief: the essence of failure is that the world has not failed at all, but has not succeeded for the time being; As long as you don't give up, failure will never be a foregone conclusion. Faith is a huge energy supply station in life. I want to repeat here that what kind of faith there is, what kind of life there will be. Life itself is a series of choices. Therefore, for success, happiness and the success of your family, friends, colleagues and team, please choose your beliefs carefully. 19, stick to it and never give up World War II. British Prime Minister Churchill is a very famous speaker. The last speech in his life was at the graduation ceremony of a university. Perhaps because Churchill was too old, the whole speech lasted about 20 minutes, but he only said two words in the whole process, and they were all the same: stick to the end and never give up! This speech became a classic in the history of speech. It's not Churchill's mystique. The students in the audience have long been deeply shocked by the voice of the great man of the century. Churchill used his life's successful experience to tell people that there is no secret to success. If there are, there are only two. The first is to stick to the end and never give up. The second is that when you want to give up, please go back and follow the first secret: stick to it and give up forever! 20. Everyone can succeed. Many people unconsciously think that success is a matter for a few people. You are one of them, do you think so? If you think that success is a matter for a few people, you can't help but classify yourself as&; Uot Most people &; Uot is one of them. If you think success is easier said than done, you may seem to be working hard, but in fact you are right. Uot succeeded &; Uot fear will make you afraid to go all out, dare not expect, and may eventually stop doing it. If you can browse this book, do you need me to explain it again? You have strengthened the belief that everyone can succeed! If so, you have joined those &; Uot several &; Among the uot winners. 2 1. Take immediate action One of the most expensive costs in life is waiting for tomorrow. Tomorrow follows tomorrow, and there are so many tomorrows. I will wait for tomorrow, and everything will be wasted. Tomorrow will never come, because it is already today. Only today is the most important day in our lives; Only today is the only day we can grasp in our life; Only today is the day when we can surpass our opponents and ourselves. Don't pin your hopes on tomorrow, hope is always today, and hope is now. Act now! Only action can make our dreams come true. Act now! Only a large number of actions will allow us to constantly surpass our opponents and surpass ourselves. Act now! Act now! ! Act now! ! !