How to be a talented person!

Walking in the society, you can't live without talent and ingenuity, otherwise you will run into a wall everywhere, which will not only affect your relationship with others, but also affect the development of your career. It should be pointed out that neither shrewd nor scheming is a trick, nor is it to deceive people and harm others, but a kind of wisdom and strategy of being a man and a means of self-protection. Therefore, we say to be a man with heart!

Specifically, people who are smart enough often have the following nine kinds of "scheming" and will succeed sooner or later! Remember these nine points and teach you to be a smart man!

First, properly expose small defects to make others more competitive. Everyone has a competitive heart. If others' competitiveness can be satisfied and then they have a good impression on you, what's the harm in exposing some small shortcomings that have nothing to do with the overall situation and are harmless? Although this is only a small "scheming", it has a great effect and will make others like you more and get good interpersonal relationships.

Second, it is easy to get into trouble and try not to offend people. People who enter right and wrong are right and wrong people. Don't stir up trouble easily, there are many troubles behind right and wrong, and you are likely to offend people. To be a man, you still have to have this basic talent and scheming.

Third, with softness, mice and cats can also become good friends. It seems impossible for mice and cats to make friends, but it is possible on the premise of common interests. Sometimes the mouse's "scheming" really makes the cat admire. In other words, when you are in a weak position, you must have talent and ingenuity to be mainly convinced.

Fourth, white lies make people feel grateful. Lies are naturally shameful, but white lies are sometimes better and more acceptable than telling the truth. At some point in life, we are likely to tell some "white lies". At this time, our starting point is goodness and beauty, and we are thinking of others. It is as pleasant as being honest and trustworthy. On the contrary, if you choose to tell the truth at this time, it is heartless.

It's a blessing to suffer, and it's okay to eat a little loss. We must strive for some benefits that we should strive for, but sometimes it is ok to eat a small loss and let others take advantage. Remember, sometimes there must be something in life, there is no need to force it in life. If you insist on everything and don't want to suffer a little loss, then you may not get what you want, but it will be disgusting.

Sixth, good medicine doesn't have to be bitter. Needless to say, it is very thankless to criticize and suggest others directly, especially when facing leaders. Since ancient times, people with advice, guidance, opposition and tempering have always put criticism and unpleasant words in a pleasant place. Then, no matter how they interact with leaders or ordinary people, they can be liked, express their views and be easily accepted.

Seven, exquisite in all directions, all parties are good. If you want to be in an invincible position in life and gain popularity, you'd better have such a shrewd and scheming attitude, that is, don't rely on which side obviously, lest you watch the other side suffer bad luck when you are proud, or get hit hard when the other side is in power.

Eight, don't offend the villain, don't draw a line with it. As the saying goes, "little people are hard to raise." Although we don't have to make him like it, we should never offend him easily, at least on the surface. If we treat the villain with hatred and draw a clear line with the villain, we will become the target of the villain's attack if we don't do well.

Nine, people under the eaves, it is best to keep your head down. Nine times out of ten, there are unpleasant things in life. In life, we will inevitably encounter difficulties and live by the eyes of others. At this time, you must be tolerant, lower your head and don't be impulsive. This is the smart performance.