Daily reflection: the principle of dream interpretation

The last article talked about the misunderstanding of dream interpretation, and this article continues this part. Yue Xiaodong believes that in the theory of dream interpretation, the eastern and western theories have their own advantages and disadvantages, and people should adopt an inclusive attitude instead of favoring one side over the other.

It seems that predecessors have known something about this and tried all kinds of methods. Worship foreign things and flatter foreign countries, or China's attitude towards the country, are all inappropriate and need to be combined to complement each other.

When I first saw different ideas, I made the mistake of worshipping foreign things and flattering foreign countries. Because the textbooks of sensory psychology are all set by foreigners, it feels more powerful.

But in fact, China's culture, like my arms and legs, is an extension of my own will, which will extend my narcissism to my love for my country.

So I think it is more advanced, more practical, more valuable and more conducive to the future development of Chinese and foreign cultures.

Among them, how to find the most suitable method is the key. In other words, it's not how much you have learned, but whether you have your own style of play.

It can be effectively applied to actual combat and can be constantly revised and improved. In practice, continuous upgrading is indeed a topic worth thinking about.

Others believe that dreaming is the most common spiritual phenomenon of human beings and the expression of one's desire. It can be said that dreams are the continuation of mental activities in a awake state, and the purpose of dream interpretation is to discover the subconscious hidden behind dreams, which, in Freud's words, is to turn the unconscious into conscious.

On this basis, Teacher Yue advocates that the following principles should be followed.

1. Dream interpretation is personalized.

Just like different personalities, dream interpretation should be different. Specifically, the same dream of losing teeth may symbolize some anxiety or loss for A, but it may mean liberation and conquest for B ... depending on the living conditions and projection performance of the parties.

Just like psychological counseling, it is not to see a doctor, but to tailor a solution for your state and individual. Dream interpretation is also a personal tailor's, because everyone's living conditions and projection performance are different.

The world in different people's eyes is different, and the pillars of building different people's worlds are different. Consultants need to customize different solutions according to different personal situations.

2. Dream interpretation is interactive.

The process of dream interpretation should be the process of interaction between counselors and visitors. Psychological counselors should conduct in-depth exploration and consultation on dreams, gradually verify their assumptions in the process, and finally reach an agreement. Dream interpretation should avoid the mode of fortune telling.

Cognitive observations and conclusions can only come from the interactive negotiation between two people. Not from your own imagination. You can't just see what you want to see, just see your narcissism. So dream interpretation must not be fortune telling.

I had a fortune-telling in Baidu. It turned out that fortune-telling was called fortune-telling to calculate the bone age and weight of this person according to the date of birth. The younger the bone age, the worse. Wandering in other places, you can even calculate how this person will die and what his life will be like.

According to the fortune teller, the survival probability in ancient times should be much higher than the current cost of living, because in ancient times, wars, famines and plagues were more difficult than now, and it was even harder to survive.

Has modern people's opinion on bones changed? Will modern people be heavier than ancient people? But the date of birth is the same, no matter how you run, you can't finish running 367 days a year.

It's amazing. I really want to see what the real fortune-telling is like, how the master makes it turn around and win the trust of others. I think there may be some unique methods in it.

There was an opportunity recently, which was related to my major. Of course, it is also possible to go in and just be a salesman. But at present, there are still opportunities in the future, and the market is quite big and has great potential.

At present, there are two options. On the one hand, I will continue to do my present job, but it will be boring and will lose some personal study time.

Another option is to change a job, which is more in line with the lifelong career direction. The step 1 is to expand my options. Do I have any other choice?

Of course, I can continue this job first, see the development of the target company, wait for the price, and see if the other party can give me a higher price to quit.

Very good choice, give me a compliment on this smart brain. Anything else? It is also possible that after I changed my job, the target company closed down in a short time, or because the new job required too many challenges, I couldn't take it anymore.

So back to the beginning, back to the first principle, what is the essence of work? The essence of work is value exchange, which is to exchange my ability, time and resources for money.

I care more about the future growth potential than the money I can earn now. I care more about personal growth than the economic return from work. Am I more profound and valuable in this major? Did you get better growth?

Yes, it seems that the second choice is that I am more inclined and interested. Is there any other choice to answer this question? Or what made me hesitate? I didn't make a second choice directly, but I was stuck here, not so firm.

I'm afraid of losing. I'm afraid that once I resign, my old job in the factory will be gone. Although it doesn't look good in the factory, it is as economical as the food in the canteen.

But the reality is that the factory seems to be infinitely short of people. Even if the workshop is full of people now, it is constantly recruiting people and increasing production lines. In other words, there is a high probability that I will not lose this job. In case my second job doesn't go well, I can change it back in the shortest time.

It seems that my decision will not cost me anything, except some time. If the salary is high, it may still be a good choice.

In this supply-demand relationship, I may not need this company as much as the other party needs me. That is, I have more bargaining power, which sounds good news.

That's it. My choice is clear at a glance

Some ideas come from the basic skills of psychological counseling. Thank you for your appreciation. Welcome to leave a message for consultation.