Why do some children come to "repay kindness" and some children come to "revenge"?

The first is the result of words and deeds. Many people think that children come to repay their kindness because their behavior has always been filial. It is also a good behavior for children to learn after seeing it. There is a child in our village who has been filial to his parents since childhood. Some children come for revenge, which is also the reason. Because of the parents' practice, the children learned. There is a family in our neighboring village, which has been three generations, pointing at the old man's nose and scolding him. Now the fourth generation has followed suit.

The second is the result of children's own efforts. Some children come to repay their kindness, mainly by knowing their own efforts and putting them into action. As a result, their grades are very good and their children are more obedient. Some children will retaliate, mainly because they don't work hard, but focus on other places, such as playing games or playing games. Is this the child's fault? I don't know! What I see is that my children are working hard under my supervision. Only about half of the students in their class are studying hard, and the other students are just having fun! As for their future, I can't say, and I can't say! However, it is true that they broke their parents' hearts. They often see their parents apologize collectively!

The third is the influence of religious propaganda (history and culture). Some people think that children repay kindness because of past life practice; Is the child coming for revenge because he spent too much money in his last life? This is also the influence of Buddhist propaganda in the past, which makes people endure the suffering of this world in order to look forward to the good results in the next life. Isn't there a causal cycle in Buddhism? Every reason has its consequences! The fruit of a child is a career planted by parents. Of course, we now think that this kind of propaganda is feudal superstition and unreliable. Do not believe!

Whether children repay kindness or revenge will not be known until adulthood, so we should try our best to be ourselves and make our children better through our words and deeds, don't you think?