What does Phoenix Man Peacock Man mean?

Phoenix man refers to those men who were born in poverty (especially in rural areas), gathered the strength of the whole family, studied hard for more than ten years, and finally became "golden phoenix flying out of the mountain nest", thus bringing hope to a family transformation. Peacock men refer to men who love dressing up and beauty more than women. They cherish their feathers like peacocks, so they are named Peacock People.

Phoenix man always shows better than his peers. When their wives argue with their parents, they often take their side. There are always relatives and friends who are willing to help them. They are often or sometimes disturbed by brothers and sisters who are too arrogant to refuse (it seems a bit indecisive, but it also reflects the simplicity, gratitude and humanity of rural boys).

Peacock man not only does a good job of daily cleaning such as washing face, using skin care products and making masks, but also spends a long time putting on makeup before going out, carrying a small mirror with him and often taking a milk bath. They use more cosmetics than their girlfriends, and some even like to wear their girlfriends' nightdresses at home.

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The ridicule of Phoenix men is not only a social prejudice, but also a demonization of them. There is no need to avoid it. Phoenix man has his natural personality defects, sensitivity, inferiority, arrogance and small-scale peasant consciousness. However, in the criticism of online public opinion on Phoenix Men, these defects are constantly magnified and become the original sin of Phoenix Men, while their diligence, filial piety and frugality are deliberately ignored.

Under the suggestion of public opinion, the image of Phoenix Man, who is smart and snobbish, loves to take advantage of others and is selfish and exclusive, has been constantly strengthened, so that it has become a consumer product of social culture. Some people even fabricated many stories to make Phoenix Man the target of public opinion. At this point, the birth of Phoenix Man became their original sin.

Phoenix men lack the right to speak, coupled with their sensitive personality, few people can stand up and respond to their questions. At this time, they can only passively accept social prejudice.

Instead of criticizing Phoenix Men, we should give them a more tolerant environment. After all, misunderstanding stems from information asymmetry. Don't kill Phoenix Man with a stick. What age is it now? You still regard their origins as original sins. For Phoenix man, there is no need to have too much burden, let alone self-imprisonment. In front of happiness, love is love.

References:

Baidu Encyclopedia-Phoenix Man