Some people say that there is no need to give a bride price to marry a man in Weihai. Why?

I'm from Weihai, and I haven't heard about the bride price. Why do you have to question this? Sanjin has to buy everywhere, and the delivery date is 1000 1, which is one in a million. According to the actual situation, those who have money give more and those who have no money give less. It doesn't matter whether a man buys a house or not, he has a house. It is normal for a woman to bring a car and household appliances. What's so strange about it? If you have money, you will live a rich life, and if you have no money, you will scrimp and save. What Weihai values most is not the bride price, but whether the two children can live together well. You can interview Weihai's parents at random, not to say what kind of life the other party can bring us, but whether their children are happy together. It is said that Weihai people are not short of money. Weihai's income is very low and its consumption is very high, but not everyone in any place takes money so seriously. It is natural for men to earn money to support their families, and it is good for women to have a job that is not tiring and go to work normally. What do you want?

It is true that Weihai people marry their daughters without a bride price. Many families not only don't want bride price, but also "give money backwards": bring a sum of money with their married daughters. There are three reasons for this:

First, in Weihai, daughters are the treasures of parents, and there is little concept of "son preference". Therefore, parents don't want their daughter to be wronged when she marries the man's house. Weihai people think that holding someone's hand is short and eating someone's mouth is short. Taking the man's bride price, the daughter was wronged and difficult to handle. So don't.

Second, Weihai people think that "bride price money" means "the wool is on the sheep". Taking bride price money will reduce the living standard of the young couple. If children are not rich, their parents will have to help them. Therefore, it is better not to use the money saved for children, and parents are also at ease.

Third, although Weihai people don't accept bride price money, the man can't make do with it. Weihai people believe that people should care about each other; You respect me one foot, I respect you one foot. If you are kind to your daughter, the man can't make peace. For example, getting married now requires the man to be in charge of the house and the woman to be in charge of movable items such as cars and household appliances. These are practices. Of course, this is not necessarily the case.

Weihai people don't want a bride price when they marry their daughters. In fact, we can't simply look at this matter. What Weihai people really want is far more than bride price:

One is to ask the son-in-law to be kind to his daughter. Weihai people have a strong personality and attach importance to morality. If the man bullies his daughter innocently after marriage, it is not allowed. This man must be kind to his daughter. This is also an important condition and standard for Weihai people to choose their son-in-law.

Second, "Daughters are parents' little cotton-padded jackets". A married daughter or her own daughter will never "spill water from a married daughter", regardless. Daughters are good to their parents, and son-in-law has to support them.

The third is "a son-in-law and a half." A son-in-law should treat his father-in-law like his own parents, and his father-in-law will treat his son-in-law like his own son.

I wonder if you are satisfied with this answer?

In fact, I didn't even know who to give the bride price to before!

After my husband and I logged in, he took 1000 1, two red autumn clothes and trousers, two pairs of red underwear and two pairs of red socks, wrapped them in a red bag and sent them to my home. Then a month later, several cars arrived and left with my dowry. It can be said that my husband and I got married 1000 1.

1000 1 means one in a million. This number is usually given in zero year. Of course, if the man's family is particularly rich, he can give more. But you have to add a dollar at the back, which is actually a good meaning, a symbolic figure.

Weihai people don't care how much bride price they give. Even if the man gave a bride price, he got married. There is no such thing as giving parents pension compensation. I really don't understand why we should compensate the parents for custody. Don't they have to support their parents after they get married?

When a man is in his twenties and thirties, it is the time when he needs money to work hard, and most families don't have much savings at this time because of long-term training and education of their children. Many times, the woman's excellent requirements will put a lot of economic pressure on the man's family.

In fact, marriage is a partnership between the two parties, and both parties have to "give some blood." To put it bluntly, do you need to prepare some materials to get married? Marriage is an economic behavior. Talking about marriage without talking about material things is playing hooligans. Therefore, the normal state is that the two sides discuss what they need to form a family, make plans, try their best to prepare, don't be too stingy, and don't exceed their abilities. Enough is enough, and there is still a long way to go. Isn't this a very simple thing?

Shandong Weihai Rong adult. My wife is from Wendeng, Weihai, Shandong. 20 12 got married and didn't pay the bride price. On the delivery day, I brought a vermicelli's pork and two onions, 1000 1. 1000 1 is the bride price money? What we asked was one in a million, and three gold medals didn't seem to give much at that time. At that time, the demolition of the home required two suites, and one set had to be subsidized. There is not much money at home, only three gold and wedding photos, about 8000. What's more, the wedding is arranged by the wife and father-in-law. We bought the car together, and my wife did the decoration at home. The whole process is also supervised by the wife. I am a fireman. I don't have time, and I don't have a say at home? . My wife is very busy before and after marriage. Now both parents and daughters are taken care of by their wives. Why there is no bride price is really unclear. Never heard of it. Married for almost eight years. I found that I spent more time at my father's house than my wife did at her mother's. My father-in-law has land at home and helps with farm work. I never slept together before I got married. Will you know everything after you get married? . Looking at those who want bride price online, it is estimated that only the parties know how to get married. After all, wool comes from sheep. But seriously. Let me tell you a secret. Weihai people are more afraid of their wives, that is, they are afraid of their wives. All kinds of strictness. All kinds of high skin before marriage, all kinds of parties, all gone after marriage. Will you be beaten when you go out in the future?

Let me share the truth with you: I am the husband of the provincial capital city (Jinan), a native of Weihai and a local. When we got married, my husband's family insisted on asking me how much dowry our family gave me. I was puzzled and puzzled at that time. It was the wife who asked her husband's family how much dowry she had given. How could her husband ask her parents how much dowry she gave? Then I didn't understand, so I asked my mother. (I was working in Weihai at that time) My mother was very angry and said that I had no money. You love to marry or not! I didn't know how my mother felt at that time until later. Then because of this husband's family, I began to ask, how much. My mother gave me a card when we finally got married. Then I won't buy a car at all! Just don't tell me what the balance of my husband's family is! (Later, when I learned about the customs of Weihai, I gave it to 1000 1 and three gold, and then the house, and there was no bride price, and then the woman had to accompany her to decorate or car. I have to say that it is really cheap to marry a daughter in Weihai! ! ! ) My mother said that you married so far away, but I didn't expect your husband's family to ask us how much it would cost to marry you, instead of saying what impact it would have on you in the future. You are an only child, and whether you give it or not will be yours sooner or later. My husband's family didn't mention the bride price, but they came to us to talk about dowry. Alas, the customs in Weihai are a little too ... Later, I became more and more aware of my mother's feelings. Marrying a distant daughter is really ... do you still need to ask how much the dowry is? Let's not mention the bride price! Except for some ethnic minorities in China, it is estimated that marrying a daughter in Weihai is not only a bride price but also an "upside down"! Really speechless! For us to marry our daughter, the bride price is not necessarily a "lion's mouth" but also an important manifestation that the husband-in-law does not attach importance to his wife and children. Now there are so many only children, who hasn't returned the bride price to the small family! For a wife, how can a daughter who has been raised for more than 20 years marry into your family? People's hearts are all meat, just understand each other! However, I still think we should communicate as much as possible in terms of customs and habits, but it is really easy to cause "war." Remember to respect each other! Give it to the new people who are about to enter the marriage hall! Whether it is a bride price or a dowry, it is best to manage a good marriage!

Weihai people have a tradition of frugality. In Weihai, economic income is very low and prices are extremely high, especially in Rongcheng. Accurately speaking, Weihai wedding does not require bride price money, the man buys a building for decoration, and the woman buys a car with home appliances. Loans with poor conditions will be repaid by the three families together. On the day of delivery, the man will give Sanjin and 1000 1 the day of delivery. In recent years, many men's parents will give 38,800 or 28,800 (three together) to directly exchange the three gold for money and let the woman buy it herself. But most women also bring cars and home appliances, which are actually owned by the family, unlike some areas where they are directly owned by the woman's parents. Simple Weihai people don't pay much attention to the quality of life, and have low requirements for food, clothing, housing, transportation and play. As long as the newlyweds are happy together, the three families want it most. Also, when strangers ask for directions in Weihai, there won't be three people pointing in three directions.

As a person who has lived in Weihai for 15 years, I still know Weihai better. We are westerners as Weihai people say. I heard that it has been much better in recent years. It is true that there is no heavy bride price in Weihai. The man buys a house for decoration, and the woman brings a car. If you already have a car, the woman will bring about 65438+ 10,000 yuan. . There is almost no father-son relationship here. Many families here have only one daughter. In recent years, the second child has been released, and the number of second-child families has gradually increased. Here, sons and daughters are treated equally. Many people in their thirties are only children. In recent years, more and more people from other places have settled in Weihai, which can reach about 60%. Because Weihai is a seaside town that makes people linger, especially in summer. Weihai has developed vigorously in recent years and has now become a tourist city. In recent years, there are many people who hesitate to stay in Weihai, and the urban traffic has not kept up, resulting in congestion in many places. Recently, Weihai municipal government is also vigorously building roads, tunnels and light rail. Weihai will become more and more beautiful in the future. After talking for a long time, I am a seller in Weihai and have settled down. Watch this city. . . . .

I'm from Weihai. Just got married this year, and gave it to his wife 1000 1. Give me back the three gold I bought. My mother-in-law also gave a lot. Weihai's parents just want their children to live well. Parents will support their children after marriage. Have a daughter-in-law as a daughter. Have a son-in-law as a son. This is the present situation of Weihai. They are all one child. It's all for the children. Parents will be happy when their children are well. And all my friends around me are like this. Either 1000 1 or 3 1800. And the final gift is for the children. I don't know if I'm right.

Explain first. Not all Weihai is a bride price 1000 1. . . At least it's 36 thousand or 39 thousand here I forgot, but basically the bride price will be brought back to my daughter's house. Don't say the bride price.

Is it really too cheap to marry a daughter to look down on yourself? It is best for both men and women to be evenly matched. In Weihai, there is really no laziness as westerners say. Just like selling a daughter, how much bride price does it take to get married? Weihai people are very practical and aim at the well-being of their children. If the man can afford a house, he will buy a car for his daughter to take away. The house will be decorated and the bride price will be brought back to his daughter, which will not make her marital status obviously unequal, and she does not want to take advantage of the man's family. If the man can't afford a house, the two families will help each other. As long as the man has a good character, this is negotiable.

Moreover, buying a house in Weihai is quite expensive now, and marrying a car and decorating it may be only half as expensive as a house. In this case, the bride price is just a fluke, and it is possible. What's the need to ask bridesmaids as many as possible? Both sides will understand and life will be more comfortable.

Finally, life belongs to two people, and the situation of each family may be different. Only by understanding each other can we live smoothly. When two people live together, the most important thing is neither family conditions nor external conditions. The most important thing is three views, that's all.

I marry a wife, and my husband gives me 10 thousand. After deducting 8888 at that time, he only spent112 to trick me into giving him an annual autumn harvest for 20 years. . . . . .

In Weihai, not only men buy houses, but also qualified girls buy houses. .

My wife and I are going to register on August 1. As a result, one of my sisters was anxious when she was a child, and asked her mother to come to my house and say, marry her daughter, choose Weihai, and buy a car on the first floor for 200 thousand. That was twenty years ago! ! Finally, I chose love, but to be honest, my wife is more filial to my parents than I am! !

Weihai, not only has no bride price. . In many wealthy villages, if you have a wedding banquet, please invite friends and relatives, and you can go alone, without bringing gifts. There is a local saying that you don't have to dig out the duck nest from the chicken nest. .

Marriage is run by two people. Life comes from hard work. Don't dabble in drugs and gambling.

I'm going to marry my daughter in the future. I'll pay 1 million yuan, plus the first floor. Is that enough? Make sure there is no land. .