Lost romance

The most famous flower in the world should be the unique rose of the little prince. The Little Prince was once the second best seller in the world after the Bible.

This rose with thorns is beautiful, vain and proud. However, because she conquered a person, she will stay in his heart forever. In the future, even if he saw more than 5,000 flowers like her, he still felt that she was the only one in the world. Of all the relationships in the world, nothing is luckier than two of a kind.

Rose has always been a symbol of love. Its flower language, different colors and different quantities have different meanings. I prefer the flower language of four roses: never leave.

Yes, I remember the word "never leave" deeply.

A few years ago, when I was a teenager, I read a magazine with an article about rose flowers. Each flower language lists emotional love stories at home and abroad as examples, including Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu. I vaguely remember the author's summary: I shed tears all my life next to the Sansheng stone ... four roses, never leaving.

Since then, I have special respect for four roses. Even though she knew that Cao Xueqin had written the word "Never Leave" to Xue Baochai, and it was engraved on her famous gold collar, she still regarded it as an agreement between Gong Yizi and Xiao ChristianRandPhillips.

Roses are native to China, but because of their prickly stems, they are considered as symbols of assassins and chivalrous men, so there are not many stories related to roses, but the stories of those roses abroad are fascinating:

Avelot Dieter, the ancient Greek god of love and beauty, fell in love with adonis, the god of nature. Adonis was killed by a wild boar, and his blood turned into white flowers with thorns. Aphrodite chased adonis, running in the white flowers, stabbed all over, and the white flowers were dyed red with blood.

In order to avoid crazy pursuers, Roman beauty Rodin took refuge in the Temple of Notre Dame Di Anna. Her suitors didn't stop there. They stayed outside the temple, expecting to meet her. This scene made Diana jealous, and Rodin's beauty was too dazzling. Finally, Di Anna turned Rodin into a rose when the pursuer rushed into the temple, and the pursuer became a thorn.

Although sad, it is undeniable that it is both beautiful and romantic. Sometimes, I think a flower can't be moving without one or two sad love stories.

However, when it comes to sadness and lingering, the entanglement between the crimson pearl fairy and the waiter Shen Ying is better.

Readers have long known the expression "returning tears", knowing that the feelings of Baoyu and Daiyu will only be a tragedy, or they yearn for their feelings: childhood friends, childhood friends, soul mates, and there is no doubt about each other's hearts. This is simple and pure. For the ending, the parties are always more sad than the readers, because they thought they would be together, but they didn't. Although Gao E wrote a little timid about the death of Daiyu, and didn't even ask Baoyu the truth, the paragraph of "burning the manuscript and breaking the infatuation" was so determined, leaving no room for it, which made people feel distressed by her stubbornness.

Fortunately, they didn't have to see each other fighting for their lives until Lin Daiyu died and the building that sheltered them collapsed. What remains in their memory is the most beautiful and best impression.

From Daiyu's entry into Guo Rongfu to her death, there were many wonderful times between them, especially those that were not clearly written.

Under the protection of their elders, ladies and gentlemen who live a rich and idle life usually spend their daily lives in the morning after waking up from their elders, and then get together, sing poetry, eat, drink and have fun, and spend another day. Daiyu and Baoyu, the embodiment of Xiancao and Meiyu, require more quality of life than others. For example, their rouge cream is made by themselves. Baoyu met Daiyu before going to school, reminding her to wait for him to have dinner together, and also asking her to wait for him to make rouge cream together. So Pinger was later beaten by Jia Lian and Xi Feng, and she was so wronged that she shed tears. When she was invited to make up in Yikang Hospital, she saw extraordinary powder and rouge. Baoyu proudly introduced: "This is a good rouge, which is made by taking juice, washing the dregs and steaming with flower dew."

Obviously, Baoyu, Daiyu and Rose have no direct intersection. Later, after reading this passage, I suddenly understood why some people use four roses to describe their feelings. There are many roses in Yihong Garden, and the "flower dew" mentioned above is undoubtedly rose dew. At that time, women were inseparable from rouge gouache for a long time. To be sure, Baoyu and Daiyu spent countless happy times together picking roses to make rouge.

What people can remember again and again is usually not the vigorous love, but the more passionate feelings of quarreling. Jia Lian lost his lust, and in an extraordinary period, he desperately took various charges to rob Second Sister You. Jia Qiang tried his best to please the young drama official and let other drama girls see his jokes. They all have some sincerity, but they can't compare with the sincerity between Baoyu and Daiyu anyway. Of course, because they are not the main characters.

I never believe that red roses and white roses can coexist in a love. In that case, we can only say that it is love at all. Time and people in love are very important. Baochai is better than Daiyu in everything, but she can't win Baoyu's favor, because his heart has long been occupied by Daiyu, and she can't be tolerated.

Daiyu is Baoyu's rose. Even if it stings him from time to time, his mind is full of roses. Some people are pure, love is love, not love is not love, there is no middle way to go. So later, he was "empty, with high rocks and crystal snow in the mountains;" I will never forget the lonely forest in the world. " Years later, he may not remember how he spent it, but he will never forget who he spent it with. For an optimistic person, no matter how happy he was, he can only be shelved in the passage of time, and he will only care about the present and the future; But for those who used to be carefree and then poor, such as Baoyu, are those happiness only for a lifetime, which makes him so hard to forget?

Tragedy is that good things will eventually die. In A Dream of Red Mansions, the endings of Daiyu and Baoyu have been written, and all the tears have begun. From the beginning to the end, the fate is exhausted bit by bit, leaving only memories and regrets.

Those who are still crying, all their tears are gone.

I don't like crying If I had more choices, I would choose to watch the story of happy ending 10 thousand times. Unfortunately, most of the stories handed down in the long years are tragedies. Butterfly lovers, Jiao Zhongqing and Liu Lanzhi, Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu, he loves her and she loves him, but in any case, two of a kind can't be together after all.

Fate is something that everyone has to face. Sometimes, you can change without trying. In those days, parents were above others. How many people have the courage to control their marriage? Zhuo Wenjun, who dares to elope, wins by having a father who really loves her. Otherwise, she and Sima Xiangru can't wait for her to write "Bald Tales". Shen Fu and Yun Niang, abandoned by their parents, were down and out all their lives. Love is beautiful, provided that you don't have to worry about life.

There are many kinds of vows of roses, one is sincerity, two are coexistence of you and me, three are deep love, five are sincere appreciation, nine are together, ten are perfect, and eleven are lifelong. There are too few feelings in my life now, and 357 years of marriage is long. Moreover, we should be glad that we still have the right to choose, and we have forgotten the best of the past.

? Awkward, but? Fortunately, rose is still rose, rose, no matter what people call it, it is still rose.