How to calculate Tongziguan?

This problem is very complicated. Excuse me, big brother, what is a boy like in your concept? As far as I know, it's superficial. Boys are minors, teenagers and so on. The clearance of boys should be aimed at psychology and physiology. The so-called psychology is to grow up day by day and stop treating problems like children. I have my own opinion on everything. Physiologically speaking, it is relatively simple, the development and growth of the body. Of course, in a secular way, I am not a boy after marriage (hehe ...) In my understanding, overcoming these two points is the so-called boy pass (I am a little ignorant, dare not say too much, I don't know my brother's understanding of boy pass can only say my own opinion). It's up to you to answer or not.