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How do unlucky people behave?

What do unlucky people do? Winners often achieve the same goal through different routes, while losers often backfire. People with bad luck are very obvious. I have compiled information about the performance of unlucky people for you. Let's have a look.

What are the performances of unlucky people? 1 1. They are impulsive and lack of calm.

Impatient people can't do things well from beginning to end, because they are easily emotional, lose their basic calm when they encounter unexpected problems, let their emotions spread, and finally get things done in a hurry under the control of their emotions.

Without analysis, there will always be many mistakes, all kinds of details will not be handled in place, and even at key nodes, things may get worse.

Moreover, impulsive people are more likely to offend people when they are in contact with others, and they will also conflict with people when they disagree. Such people have neither the ability to solve problems nor the consciousness of being kind to others, and life is doomed to be bumpy.

Second, everything is haggle over every ounce, lack of pattern.

Some people in life like to haggle over every ounce, and they are uncompromising in their interests. But the strange thing is that they are not living well. There are always many difficulties in life, and few people are willing to help them.

In fact, the reason is very simple. People who haggle over everything are short-sighted, can offend others for a little profit, and are completely unaware of the importance of interpersonal relationships. They are most likely to lose because of small things, and they will quarrel over small problems. Then when they fall, there will be no more people who are in need of help in the snow, but more people will fall when they are in trouble.

How can such a person get good luck in life without a broad pattern and good interpersonal relationship?

Third, I don't know how to sum up mistakes and ignore learning.

There are two kinds of learning, one is the knowledge in books, which can be used to improve one's connotation and skills in work. Another kind of learning is learning in life, that is, summing up past experience and growing up in mistakes.

But many people don't have this kind of consciousness. They don't know how to sum up mistakes and give up learning. The consequence of this is that skills can't keep up with development, and finally they are eliminated in the workplace, and the vision of the pattern is also very narrow, so they can't grasp any opportunities. Because I don't know how to sum up my experience, I always make mistakes on the same problem and always fall in the same place.

Such people, no matter how many things they do and how much they pay, are in vain. They are doomed to be unhappy people all their lives and walk on the bumpy road all their lives.

What do unlucky people do? Firstly, they are noisy;

On the fifth day of September in the first year of Xianfeng, Zeng Guofan wrote a letter to your younger brothers, especially pointing out the fault of Ceng Guohua (Emperor Wen), the sixth brother, and analyzing the reasons for his bad luck, he said:

"Wen Di's talent is based on his younger brother. He only complains too much and is too lazy. There is no one at home to follow, and the brothers can be a little more lenient, and Brother Wen really gave up, and you can't blame fate. "

Wendy's talent is second to none among her younger brothers, but she complains too much and is too lazy. There is no one in my family, so I can't blame my other brothers. Only Wendi Deng can't pass the buck. It's really self-defeating, and we can't blame all the responsibilities on the injustice of fate.

Zeng Guofan continued to analyze the reason why his sixth brother Ceng Guohua was unlucky: "I have met people who complain too much between friends, and then there will be more restrictions, such as Wu Yitai and Ling Yizhou. It is not allowed to complain about heaven for no reason; If you treat others for no reason, others will not accept it. The principle of induction will naturally follow. "

I often see such people among my friends, who complain every day, and as a result, their lives will certainly be ups and downs and setbacks, such as Wu Yitai, Ling Yizhou and others, and there are countless examples. Blaming the sky for no reason, the sky will not allow it; People will not be convinced if they accuse others for no reason. The principle of interaction between man and nature can only be to let nature take its course and not be too demanding.

Ceng Guohua, Zeng Guofan's sixth brother, is the most talented of all brothers, but he likes to make a fuss and is too lazy to work hard on the ground, so it's not surprising that he didn't get into the show, and naturally he feels unlucky.

In fact, life is like this. The more you complain, the more you like to make trouble. The worse things get, the worse your luck will be. On the contrary, as long as you work hard, don't ask about the harvest, keep working hard and constantly improve yourself, good luck will come naturally. The so-called "Heaven rewards diligence" is also true!

Second, complacency;

Xianfeng eight years on the sixth day of March, Zeng Guofan wrote to his ninth brother Ceng Guoquan, talking about the problem of his sixth brother Ceng Guohua (Emperor Wen), and warned everyone to pay attention to it, otherwise bad luck would come, he said:

"In ancient times, there were two sides to the defeat of Meng De: long and arrogant. Wendy's personality is slightly similar to mine, and her speech is particularly sharp. All arrogant things don't necessarily add people with words. Some people are arrogant, others are arrogant. Wendy's air is a little heroic, and her arrogance is the easiest to bully. "

The ancients said that fierce virtue led to ruin, and they talked about two things: pride and talkativeness. Wendy's personality is slightly similar to mine, but her words are particularly sharp. All things that are arrogant and overbearing are not necessarily hurtful words. Some are arrogant and some are ugly. Wendy has a little overbearing air, and sometimes there is an overbearing expression on her face, which is the easiest to be overbearing.

Zeng Guofan knew that Wendi Ceng Guohua was conceited, so he euphemistically said that he had the same problem. Finally, he cited an example: most famous ministers and ministers of past dynasties lost their lives because of pride and rap, but in fact they all advised their younger brothers to give up the bad habit of complacency, otherwise they would be unlucky and bring disaster.

A person's arrogance is exposed, giving people a feeling of arrogance. Who wants to be really close to you? If you lose humanity, you will not lose heaven, and then your luck will get worse and worse.

Those who are smart and exposed are blessed with thin morality and too rich words. If a person is really capable, you don't have to show it. In the end, people think you are complacent and annoying. As the saying goes, "annoying people can't live without an arrogant word"!

There are people behind the scenes, there are people outside, and the road is one foot high and the magic is ten feet high. You think you are awesome, but there are people who are even more awesome than you! The extremes of things must be reversed, so the more conceited you are, the worse your luck will be.

Through Zeng Guofan's analysis of two faults in Liu Di's letters, we can draw a conclusion that people who are getting worse and worse in luck basically have these two characteristics-love to make trouble and be conceited and complacent, so we should also take a warning, encourage them if they are wrong, guard against arrogance and rashness, be modest and prudent, and make further progress! What do you think, friends?

What are the performances of unlucky people? 1. cling to the wrong feelings, and if you are gloomy inside, you will be angry all day.

Dark personality, used to see problems in a negative way of thinking. Such a person is bound to go against everything, because he will make things difficult for himself before others are embarrassed.

Most negative people are narrow-minded, and they are used to thinking narrowly, which may be related to their gloomy personality, so they are always too pessimistic, passive, slack and unconfident. And their feelings are obviously wrong, but they are used to magnifying.

For example, someone inadvertently said a word, he thought it was someone else's intention to target him, so he was very angry, and the more he thought about it, the more angry he became.

Once such behavior becomes an inherent mindset, it will be difficult to change and will make this person's fortune decline all the way. Obviously, his ending will not be good.

A friend of mine is such a person. I remember one year, someone sent him a short message, which was actually a joke. Everyone forwarded it to each other for fun, not for him alone. However, after receiving the message, this friend put himself in the right position with the content of the message and felt that others were mocking him. He was furious. He replied to the text message and gave the man a good scolding. The two broke off diplomatic relations and did not communicate with each other.

Living in a group, one cannot be satisfied with everything. If they are used to thinking negatively, they always think the worst, that is, they can't get along with themselves, and they have exhausted themselves before they encounter real trouble.

Second, stick to the wrong behavior, regret, and make mistakes again and again.

Say too much and regret it. Mr. Yangming said: Repentance is a medicine to cure diseases, but it is more expensive to change it. If you stay in the middle, you will get sick because of drugs. -"Workbook"

Xue Kan, a student of Wang Yangming, usually made some small mistakes, always regretted and blamed himself afterwards, and then there was no more. He still makes mistakes and never changes.

Wang Yangming said that repentance is the prescription to get rid of bad habits, but correcting mistakes is the key. If you just repent and don't correct, and still keep your bad habits, then the negative emotions caused by repeated regrets will lead to new bad consequences.

For example, more and more unconfident, more and more pessimistic and depressed. More and more inferiority, and the negative impact of these mistakes will continue to kill a person's fighting spirit, making this person more decadent and failed.

The reason why we don't correct our mistakes is because we are lazy, cowardly or afraid of trouble, so we stick to the rules and form path dependence. If we make mistakes again and again, we will sink deeper and deeper, just like boiling frogs in warm water, slowly eroding our lives until we can't return to heaven.

It is the beginning of getting rid of one's mistakes and remoulding oneself to realize one's mistakes and feel deeply guilty, but it is useless to just blame oneself and repent. He has to turn over a new leaf and be a brand-new self, starting with correcting all his mistakes.

Third, obsessed with temporary gains and losses, running around and falling behind.

The foundation of all blessings is only kindness; Opening the door to all kinds of goodness, there is nothing better than losing your heart (yǔ s ǔ n)-Cai Gentan)

Interpretation: the cornerstone of building a hundred blessings is only kindness and peace between thoughts; To open the door to all good, we must first be humble.

There is such a person in life. They are always self-centered. They think the earth revolves around themselves. My interests are above everything else. My needs must be met first. If their interests conflict with others, they will regard each other as a scourge and want to get rid of them quickly.

As we all know, a person who makes profits for himself everywhere will certainly harm himself, because if he makes profits for himself by hook or by crook, it is only wishful thinking. You know, the world is a whole, and you and others are not antagonistic. Generally speaking, you are one. If you take the interests and needs of others as the direction of your efforts, you will soon achieve your career.

Laozi said in the Tao Te Ching: "Outside the body, it is the front." This means that if you put your own interests aside and do things objectively and fairly, you can protect your own interests and know how to be modest, but you can lead. Only those who have experienced it will really understand the truth.

It is not terrible to fail for a while, but to be stubborn. People with bad luck generally have the above three characteristics. When a person makes these three mistakes, he often fails to do anything smoothly. If he can wake up and correct in time, it will be the beginning of luck!