Fortune telling is far from my mother-in-law. Is the fortune-teller really accurate?

Fortune-telling away from mother-in-law

As the old saying goes, marry to see your mother-in-law, and marry to see your mother-in-law? ,? Whether the family is happy or not depends on the mother-in-law. Although this sentence is somewhat absolute, it can also spy out the influence of a mother-in-law on a family. Some women may say that after marriage, they live with their husbands instead of their mother-in-law. As long as you keep a certain distance from your mother-in-law, you can live in peace. In fact, what I want to say is that things are often not that simple. It's not that people will cooperate if you want to keep your distance. You know, she is the mother of the person you love the most, and has a far-reaching influence on your future partner, and she is also the person you must face and live with after you get married. It's hard for you to solve it by running away.

So before you get married, you should not only know more about the man you want to marry, but also pay more attention to what kind of person your future mother-in-law is and what kind of family you want to marry. If you meet a reasonable and kind mother-in-law, everything will go smoothly when you get married, and your life happiness index will be high; If you meet a selfish and unreasonable mother-in-law, your future life will be very painful. My friend Lili's mother-in-law belongs to the latter category.

See your mother-in-law before marriage. You'd better stay away from these four kinds of mother-in-law, or you'll lose out when you get married.

Lili and her husband were introduced by friends and met on a blind date. One is practical and progressive, and the other is kind and wise. After getting along for a period of time, both of them felt very compatible, so they got married after half a year. But soon after the marriage, her mother-in-law showed her true colors and began to mix. She is critical and disgusted with Lili everywhere, as if she thinks Lili is not worthy of her son, who is an ordinary office worker. In daily life, she always interferes in the affairs of the young couple. More importantly, the husband is a mother-in-law and listens to his mother. Lili is really suffering from this kind of life.

Sometimes Lili goes out to buy a dish and some fruit. Her mother-in-law will criticize Lili for spending money indiscriminately, and her husband will help with some housework. My mother-in-law will nag for a long time when she sees it, saying that women have children, do housework and take care of their husbands. How can they ask their husbands to help with housework? Even she has no boundaries in front of her son and daughter-in-law, and often breaks into her daughter-in-law's room without knocking.

See your mother-in-law before marriage. You'd better stay away from these four kinds of mother-in-law, or you'll lose out when you get married.

What is even more hateful is that her mother-in-law seems to treat Lili as an outsider and be wary of Lili everywhere. Soon after getting married, Lili returned to her family. As a result, when she came back, her mother-in-law said that one of the quilt covers at home was missing, and she suspected that Lili had given it to her family. So she began to scold Lili in various ways, which was particularly ugly, and asked her son to give her the money to keep in the future. Lili felt particularly wronged and had a big fight with her mother-in-law. As a result, her husband turned to his mother and scolded Lili. Another point is that the mother-in-law loves to sow discord, and often speaks ill of Lili in front of her son, saying that Lili is lazy and disrespectful, which leads the young couple to quarrel and fight every day. Later, this kind of marriage was unbearable, and Lili chose a divorce. As a result, that person has never been found again. Everyone says it's karma. It's all his mother's doing to educate his son into a treasure. See your mother-in-law before marriage. It's best to stay away from these four kinds of mother-in-law, or you will suffer hardships when you get married.

Mother-in-law has a great influence on a family, and her behavior directly affects a woman's happiness index after marriage. From Lili's story, we come to the conclusion that these four kinds of mother-in-law are the most difficult to get along with. A woman can't marry even if she loves again, otherwise she will suffer.

First, an arbitrary and conservative mother-in-law

This mother-in-law is arbitrary, arrogant and conservative, just like Empress Dowager Cixi at home. Everyone must listen to her and everything must be done according to her requirements. There is no room for discussion. Besides, this kind of mother-in-law is often conservative and has double standards for people and things. She believes that women should abide by the feudal principles of men being superior to women, being virtuous and virtuous, caring for their husbands and educating their children. As a woman herself, she can be self-centered and in power, and everyone must obey her.

Getting along with such a mother-in-law can make people feel depressed. If the daughter-in-law has her own opinions on everything and doesn't do what she says, she will criticize her everywhere, and eventually the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will intensify and the marriage will be difficult to be happy. Most of the sons educated by such a mother-in-law are Ma Baonan. See your mother-in-law before marriage. You'd better stay away from these four kinds of mother-in-law, or you'll lose out when you get married.

Mother-in-law who sow dissension and dissension.

I believe that no one will like the kind of person who gossips and sows discord. If we meet such a person, we will try to avoid it, but if this person is a mother-in-law, you really can't avoid it. She always looks at you everywhere.

This kind of mother-in-law always likes to interfere in the affairs between her son and daughter-in-law, gossip, sow discord and hide her son's kindness to her daughter-in-law. She always likes to gossip in front of her son, speak ill of her daughter-in-law, and sow discord between her son and daughter-in-law. In the long run, the marriage between husband and wife will definitely break up. See your mother-in-law before marriage. You'd better stay away from these four kinds of mother-in-law, or you'll lose out when you get married.

Reject daughter-in-law, beware of mother-in-law everywhere.

Although selfishness is human nature, in a family, calculating everywhere and crowding out from time to time will surely become the fuse of family conflicts.

There is a kind of mother-in-law who can't see her daughter-in-law, rejects her everywhere, protects her daughter-in-law everywhere and always treats her daughter-in-law as an outsider. She felt that the arrival of her daughter-in-law affected her position in her son's heart, so she looked at her son everywhere and rejected her daughter-in-law. She always treats her daughter-in-law as an outsider, fearing that she will take money back to her family, so she is wary of her daughter-in-law everywhere. If a woman meets such a mother-in-law, she will suffer for life. See your mother-in-law before marriage. You'd better stay away from these four kinds of mother-in-law, or you'll lose out when you get married.

A mother-in-law who has no respect and proper restrictions.

Some mothers-in-law never know what respect is. In their eyes, there is no sense of boundaries and no proper boundaries. Whether her son has a wife or not, she is in charge of her son's home and affairs, and does not knock on the door or shine into his daughter-in-law's room. Not only does she not reflect on herself? Offside? Ignoring that a daughter-in-law is a person who wants to accompany her son for life, she is the hostess of that small family. On the contrary, she resents her daughter-in-law, feeling that her arrival has lowered her family status.

The daughter-in-law is really crazy to face such a mother-in-law. Not only do they have no privacy in life, but they can't do anything according to their own wishes. See your mother-in-law before marriage. You'd better stay away from these four kinds of mother-in-law, or you'll lose out when you get married.

Marriage is not only about two people, but also about two families. A woman not only marries a man, but more importantly, marries a family, and she wants to get along with the members of this family. Therefore, a woman must pay attention to this family and her future mother-in-law before getting married. If your mother-in-law is one of the above four people, you must carefully consider this marriage, otherwise you will suffer in the past.