What level is the bride price of 60,000 yuan in Chaozhou?

In Chaoshan, I really don't take the bride price seriously. As long as her daughter gets married, she will be happy. Parents don't want a lot of dowry, but Chaoshan people value happiness! There is also the idea of cultural inheritance, stressing filial piety to parents, respecting the old and loving the young. Daughter's happiness is not money, but comforting parents. It is the greatest happiness for a son-in-law to be kind to his daughter!

There is a saying in Chaoshan that "marry a man instead of a field", which means that you must choose the right person (someone who has the ability and responsibility) to marry your daughter, not the wealth of his family. Choosing a son-in-law in the eyes of Chaoshan people: people are more important than money, regardless of the amount of dowry.

The bride price here is generally given by the man according to his family situation, which is generally 1 10,000 to 30,000 yuan (the family is relatively rich, except local tyrants). Generally speaking, the woman will not ask for a bride price, even if the woman's economy is good, and she will give the man a generous dowry.

There may be some differences in Chaoshan, but the overall difference is not big, at least on our side. I remember my cousin got married last year. At that time, the gift was 9900, and the woman's family received part of it and the rest came back. Because the woman's parents are also saving face here, conditional will certainly return more and better.

Then there is a return. After receiving the bride price from the man, the woman will also get a gift in return. This gift is to buy home appliances and furniture with the gift money given by the man. This can be discussed by both parties. Some women with good conditions will post cars!

In terms of houses, Chaoshan men's families generally have self-built houses, and women will not ask for what kind of houses and cars they want as long as they are willing to marry.

Basically, women give money to their daughters when they get married in Chaoshan area, and the pressure on men is small. The divorce rate in Chaoshan area is the lowest in the country! The happiness index is high! In Chaozhou, the bride price of 60 thousand yuan is also a high level. In fact, the bride price is just a custom and ceremony. Don't attach too much importance to money (marrying a daughter is not measured by money). "People" is the most important.