Guiguzi: A truly capable person will never say these three words. It is useless and will offend people.

Guiguzi: A truly capable person will never say these three words. It is useless and will offend people.

Guiguzi was a famous strategist and the ancestor of strategists during the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period in China, and was honored as the ancestor of fortune telling. He is proficient in the study of a hundred schools of thought, with 500 famous disciples, among whom Su Qin, Zhang Yi, Sun Bin, Pang Juan, Shang Yang and Li Mu are outstanding figures in China history. So Guiguzi has a great educator who can be called "the best teacher in the world". Guiguzi's theory has also been widely used in commercial warfare, workplace, public relations and other fields in later generations. Guiguzi said: A truly capable person would never say these three sentences, which are both useless and guilty.

First: if you poke people's pain points.

If you hurt them with sad words, you will also suffer the corresponding consequences. I often hear people say that "bad words hurt people in June", which means that you have poked people's pain points, even if others are strong inside, they will feel a little uncomfortable. For example, you talk about the sweetness of your love in front of a lovelorn person, and you talk about your extravagant consumption in front of a poor person. Slowly, everyone around you will leave you.

If a person often says this, it will attract criticism and distract your popularity. Only those who are truly capable and promising can care about everyone's feelings and appease everyone's hearts. If you are such a person, you must get rid of this bad habit.

Second: Don't lie.

Maybe life has deceived you, but don't try to get back at life in the same way. Because you can't fool life, and you can't fool yourself. Don't cheat others, because the people you can cheat are those who believe in you. A truly capable person won't talk big. Some people will really say yes, whether they can do it or not. Things can't be done then. This is the performance of breaking promises, and people will no longer trust such people. Over time, people will stay away from such people.

Third: intrigue.

Be honest in dealing with people. Some people say one thing in front of others and one thing behind others' backs. I once followed a boss who had such a secretary by his side. He always thought he was the boss's secretary, and often played tricks with his colleagues to see which one went wrong and then framed which one. Finally, the boss saw what kind of person he was and resigned him.