Can men and women get married?

When the feelings of doctoral/liberal arts men and women develop to a certain extent, they will consider the issue of marriage. So, what can men and women see when they get married? There is a way in ancient and modern China and abroad, and that is marriage. In fact, marriage is a tradition of the Chinese nation. Usually we go to the marriage teacher to get married with the personalities of both parties. If the eight characters are combined, the marriage is successful; If the eight characters do not match, there may be problems, at least they need to be solved. Therefore, usually, the marriage department will give the reasons for the disagreement and report it severely. If both parties insist on getting married, the marriage counselor will also give some ways to avoid misfortune. Whether it is harmonious or not, marriage planners will choose an auspicious day to achieve the goal of seeking good luck and avoiding evil. So why can men and women see each other's suitability through marriage? In fact, Dr. Zheng has said in his previous blog post that there are many ways to get married, and the most important one is the eight-character marriage. The eight characters are the time of birth, that is, year, month, day and hour, which records the five elements of qi at the moment of birth. The Qi of Five Elements is an invisible biological gas field. Everything in the world has an aura, including plants, animals and even an object. For people, the strength and balance of each person's five-element gas field are different. For two people who live together for a long time, the gas fields of both sides will play a role, and the results will be beneficial and harmful, and so on, so their respective fate trajectories will change for better or worse. We can see this from twin brothers or sisters. When two people with the same constellation are unmarried, their luck tends to be similar in many places, such as being lucky in the same year, being fierce in the same year, taking exams in the same year, getting rich in the same year and killing their father. Once married, the difference between good luck and bad luck will be obvious, such as the year of birth may be different, the year of divorce may not be the same, and so on. This is because, although the horoscopes of two people are the same, the horoscopes of their spouses are not exactly the same, and the gas fields are different, which affects each other and leads to different luck. Therefore, it is feasible to adjust people's marriage through eight characters. But we should also comprehensively analyze, judge and treat marriage. Nothing is absolute. Even if the marriage ends badly, as long as two people have a good relationship, there are still many ways to achieve the goal of seeking benefits and exorcising evil spirits. Conversely; Even if the marriage turns out well, if we don't pay attention to each other's communication, the conditioning of the house and the quality of our friends, then our feelings may break down and our marriage may disintegrate. Dr. Zheng believes that it is very important to realize this. According to Dr. Zheng's statistics, there are currently four kinds of eight-character marriages: 1, where the man's parents marry his son and object. This woman's parents are going to marry her daughter and her partner. 3. After marriage, one or both parents do not agree that their children will marry the other half. 4. One or both men and women get married, and the marriage result is not good, which leads to hesitation or breakup. There is a famous saying: never say anything about marriage, it will be wrong to say it. Because marriage is a very complicated thing, ever-changing and changeable. Dr. Zheng believes that marriage can make each other know each other better, which can be described as "knowing ourselves and knowing each other, fighting in every battle." But no matter what the marriage outcome is, it is an important reference factor for emotional marriage between men and women. Attention is not a sufficient and necessary factor. Because everything can be solved through appropriate channels. Therefore, Dr. Zheng suggested that every married man and woman, or friends who are about to get married, must have a correct view of marriage. Marriage is only a means, not an end. The purpose is to let men and women who love each other better discover each other's strengths and weaknesses, so as to learn from each other's strengths and live together better. Of course, after marriage, it is found that both sides are very serious in personality and conflict. It is very complicated to solve. Besides, their feelings are not that deep. Then, Dr. Zheng suggested that it is not too late to calm down for a while before breaking up or making up. Dr. Zheng needs to remind friends that many so-called numerologists or so-called fortune tellers in society simply judge marriage according to the likes and dislikes of the zodiac or the eight characters, which often leads to the wrong marriage, misjudging the illness like a quack, leading to unnecessary tension between men and women, and even the disintegration of emotional marriage. This is not only an immoral behavior of "quack", but also requires the recognition of both men and women. Be sure not to "rush to see a doctor". A friend wrote to me the other day, saying that he asked for a sign, which read: "People in the Dragon House in Fengge face each other, and there is a bright moon and a cool breeze in the courtyard. Mandarin ducks are scattered, and flowers are hard to be red in spring. " She is worried about whether she will face divorce. Dr. Zheng, please explain. Simply put, the meaning of this sign is not divorce, but that two people who really love each other can't be together, so they have to be reluctant to part, and they can't continue their relationship when they meet again. This is what we usually call "fate". However, the emotional petition of men and women is only a reference, and you can't listen to it all or not. Dr. Zheng believes that the key is how confident you are about your feelings and marriage. With confidence, there are ways to resolve unfavorable factors. Without self-confidence, a beautiful marriage will eventually be "clouded." Dr. Zheng Weijian specially reminded: 1, the eight-character marriage is not only about the situation of the five elements in the eight characters of men and women, but also about the relationship between the two sides in using God, avoiding God and restraining support, so as to truly clarify the feelings between men and women and the long-term situation of marriage. The affection between men and women is actually a kind of fate. Marriage means how much fate you have, and whether it can stand the test of time, frustration, money, illness, children, temptation and so on. If it can stand the test and stand firm, then this kind of love between men and women can live happily forever, otherwise it can only be a couple halfway, and even both men and women will suffer great mental and physical torture. 2. It often happens that men and women who are married properly in numerology may be unhappy and disharmonious in real life; And men and women who are not suitable for marriage are more harmonious and happy in life? Why is this happening? The emergence of this situation, Zheng Weijian believes that only one truth is clear: men and women who are mathematically suitable to form a husband and wife must have a suitable environment to cope with if they want to be happy. In other words, if the geomantic omen around the house where you live or the office where you work is not good, it will cause great obstacles to your marriage, leading to constant quarrels and a lot of troubles. On the other hand, although some male and female couples may generally get married, the conditions around the house and office where they live are very good, which is conducive to their advantages and avoiding disadvantages, so that their strengths can be brought into play and their shortcomings can be hidden. Only in this way can we cultivate loving couples. What friends need to pay attention to is that any emotional marriage is influenced by both internal and external factors, which requires the unity of subjectivity and objectivity. Some people may occasionally cheat, or occasionally go to some places they shouldn't go, which will lead to the decline of their own and their spouses' gas field, and ultimately greatly affect the feelings and marriage of both husband and wife. These, Dr. Zheng reminded friends, should arouse the great attention of any of our male and female friends.