"Marry a wife without cheekbones and a Han without eyebrows", is it really reasonable or nonsense?

As the saying goes, "wealth is written on the face." The ancients were very concerned about the quality of facial expressions. They think that a person's personality can be seen from his facial expression, and his future destiny can be seen from his personality.

The ancients also had a face view of marriage. In the ancient marriage system, only the wife's status was recognized, so choosing a wife was very important. "Marry a wife without high cheekbones and a Han without eyebrows." I don't think it makes sense.

Why is there a saying that "if you marry a wife, you don't marry your cheekbones, and if you marry a Han Chinese, you don't marry your eyebrows"? First, marry a wife without high cheekbones.

Mainly because the ancients thought that women with high cheekbones were stronger, possessive and controlling, and liked to dominate others.

The cheekbones represent "strength". In ancient times, women had no status. Women are required to observe three virtues and four virtues. A woman who is too strong will oppress her husband and not listen to him, while others will discriminate against this man and think that he is too incompetent for his wife to discipline him.

As the old saying goes, a woman without talent is virtue. At that time, there was no room for a strong woman. These strong women may be ugly, but they are full of wisdom and talent.

There is also a saying that life is hard to come back. As long as it is related to overcoming, let the ancients who believe in life be afraid, it is related to the life of men and the continuation of incense. No matter how good a woman with high cheekbones is, her final fate is very tragic, and she may die alone.

So think about how such a strong woman could be favored by men in this patriarchal environment in ancient times.

Second, marrying Han is not the eyebrows.

What are eyebrows? It's two eyebrows connected together, and two eyebrows are combined into one.

Many post-70s and post-80s people should have seen Ching-Ying Lam's "One Eyebrow Length", and he will be called one Eyebrow Length, because his whole eyebrows are connected.

In the ancient face, it was explained that eyebrows were connected and eyebrows invaded Tang Yin. Tang Yin's face is particularly important. The official road represented by Tang Yin is occupied by eyebrows, which means that this person's career is very bumpy or hopeless.

There is also a saying that such people are narrow-minded and haggle over every ounce. It is often easy to lose big because of small things, so it can't be a big deal, and there will be a tendency to domestic violence. Therefore, in the eyes of the ancients, such people could not marry, and life after marriage would be very bitter.

As the saying goes, people know their faces, but they don't know their hearts. People's hearts are separated. Although it is said that it is born from the heart, many people have high foreheads, which are brought out from the womb and cannot represent anything.

People are all kinds, some are honest, some are negative Nuo Nuo, some are narrow-minded, some are decisive, some are brave, some are honest, some are cunning and some are vulgar. ...

You can't judge a person by his appearance, and the sea can't be measured. You can't judge a book by its cover. A person's personality is determined by many factors, influenced by internal and external environment, and the result of the interaction of many factors.

In the face of all kinds of people, it is the most important thing to examine him carefully and distinguish him. We often like to judge a book by its cover. Many people are not handsome and handsome, and their skin is not good-looking, but this does not mean that this person is not good. That man is noble and helpful, so we will get along well with him.

Now many people don't believe in physiognomy. After all, there is no scientific basis.

Marriage is the meeting of two souls. Marriage should not be decided by appearance. Good-looking skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a million. Marriage is just the collision and combination of two souls.

Many people like to pick beautiful and handsome people when they get married. To tell the truth, as a layman, I like it, too. I believe that most people can't avoid facing beautiful women and handsome men all day.

Many men love beautiful women, but when choosing a marriage, they should consider it comprehensively. Appearance is not the first criterion of marriage. ?

Different marriage life and personality values will affect everyone's choice of marriage partner. The most important thing in marriage is whether two people can get along, and marriage will eventually fall into a stereotype.

In marriage, it is easier to love than to get along. For such a long life, you must always find someone who will hold hands with you until you are old. Her appearance is not important.

If the appearance of cheekbones and eyebrows brought out from the womb can determine a person's fate, then it denies a person's growth, environment, education and other factors. ? Family, education, culture, social factors of contact, etc. These will change a person's personality, but it has nothing to do with our own looks.

Know a person by his face, but not by his heart. To understand a person, you must be more careful and more rational.

Therefore, "marry a wife without high cheekbones and marry a Han Chinese without eyebrows" is unreasonable and has no scientific basis.