As the saying goes in the countryside, men are scholars and women are widows. Is there any allusion to this?

"Men who account for 38 are scholars, and women who account for 38 will be widowed", which means that men born on the 28th of the lunar calendar are fortunate to be scholars, while women born on this day are unfortunately widowed. I don't think it makes sense. It's just superstition

In the past, whether it was birth, marriage or building a house, such an important event could not be separated from finding a fortune teller to tell fortune. The ancients paid great attention to the advantages and disadvantages of auspicious dates, named children according to their birthdays, or predicted their future lives. ? Some birthdays are good, which indicates that this person will be rich and expensive in the future or will be disaster-free. If the birth date is bad, it needs to be remedied, or the child is given a strange name, such as water shortage, then his name will have water or a side is water, and an adoptive mother or michel platini will change the horoscope for the child. These are the manifestations of people who value birthdays.

Ancient people didn't understand science. In the case of natural and man-made disasters, ordinary people can't see real hope, so they pin their hopes on the arrangement of heaven and leave everything to fate. What we can do is to presuppose some hints from heaven in a self-righteous way, such as treating natural disasters as immoral evils of human beings, pinning our good luck on the sun, moon, stars and auspicious dates of birth, handing ourselves over to fate and praying that God will help us avoid bad luck and give us good luck, but the result is often empty. ?

In fact, in our real life, as the old saying goes, is the boy born every eight students a scholar? Every girl born in the eighth grade is either lonely or widowed? Oh, come on. Many boys born on March 38 are also down and out all their lives, while girls born on this day have always been happy.