What if there are relatives at home?

Family members are the most reliable. If they are bullied outside, they will always protect us and help us. But what if your family set you up? Still always calculating everywhere, making you fidgety, what should I do?

The people in your family are nothing more than two words: interests. When being calculated, more than N ugly faces of family members came out: selfish, selfish at the expense of others, haggle over every ounce of money, clear interests, always saying that they helped you a lot. Remember to thank them all the time. They don't say anything about what you helped them, or they don't admit it.

Most of such family members are their own relatives. If you have such relatives at home, you should either learn to protect yourself or stay as far away from them as possible.

If this happens, generally speaking, you will be miserable, and the neighbors have already laid hands on them. What can you say? If I were you, I would definitely leave this house, because my parents never let go of themselves, which means I have no position at home. In other words, they don't treat you like family at all.

This situation is very common in China. Some families attach great importance to mixed children, while those mixed children are excluded. This is also a bad result of this era. It is the psychology of the general public to be too poor and love the rich, but it should not exist in a family. So what you can do is to improve your ability and make yourself better off. Only when you have made achievements will people look at you with new eyes. What you can do now is to hurry up. Get out of this house! Come back when you earn money!

Your family is calculating everywhere. I will try to escape from such a family. I don't get along well with them. My family is my last harbor. If this harbor can't bring me warmth, I'd better abandon it and do my duty and responsibility. There is no need to talk about feelings. After all, I don't consider myself a family.

Isn't it full of calculation and utilization that people live in the world? Especially between relatives, some relatives are reasonable and knowledgeable, and some relatives are good at calculating and calculating. Do you know the easiest way to break the fortress? Is to break through from within. The calculation between relatives is even more deadly, because you are psychologically unprepared for them! ! !

For example, our family just trusts these brothers and sisters too much. In winter, my uncle's family goes home in the middle of the night and comes to my house at 2-3 o'clock, so that our family can get together and make the bed in advance. My sister-in-law always beat him a few years before she got married. She couldn't help it, so she ran back to her mother's house and cried. My dad found out and went there overnight to drag her brother-in-law out and beat him up. He cried for his mother and never dared to hit my sister-in-law again. But when it was my family's turn to have difficulties and needed their brothers and sisters to help the top leaders, my uncle directly said what university to study, and now many college students come out to clean the toilet. When my sister-in-law transferred the shop to my house, even the broken cotton wool on the bed was 300 yuan. This is the so-called closest relative. On the contrary, the uncle in the distance knew about it and offered to send money. Children must not delay their studies. Let me know if the money is not enough!

In the face of the calculation and use of relatives, there is no need to give them a good face In today's society, money is paramount, and the family you care about and value may be their chips. If you let them take advantage of you today, they will think you are a fool, they will not appreciate you, but will intensify their efforts to gain benefits. People respect me by one foot, and I respect them by ten feet. Whoever is good to you is good to him. The bad guys will only be bullied to the point where there is no way out.