My mother is disabled and can't move her left hand and left foot. At first, I only told my boyfriend that my mother was in poor health and didn't go to work. Now my boyfriend is going to my house.

I can understand your concern:

Worrying that he can't accept it will change your feelings.

But you know, the basis of love is being honest with each other.

Hiding is sometimes misunderstood as cheating.

If you love him, please tell the truth.

If he loves you, he won't leave you for this reason.