What does your brother-in-law think of your makeup?

My brother-in-law is a square and straight man, because my sister doesn't wear makeup, and then every time I go home, he will criticize my makeup and interfere with me with words and actions. Makes me super speechless.

In the brother-in-law's eyes, as long as the lipstick with a relatively red color is applied, it is called "heavy makeup", and the makeup that is not applied except liquid foundation is called "light makeup". The key point is that all colors are too red for him except the red bean paste lipstick which is close to the lip color, just like "maw". After several arguments, I was tired and compromised, so I painted my lightest mirror lip glaze. Because the mirror lip glaze is shiny, he began to feel that my mouth was "scarlet" and "like a layer of lard" ...

Every time I go home, he will criticize my cosmetics. "The beauty of a person lies in her connotation rather than her appearance. Don't pay too much attention to appearance. Brother-in-law and your parents think you look best without makeup! " "The best makeup is that others can't see that you are wearing makeup." "Besides performing on the stage, women with heavy makeup are not doing serious work." "Going out with heavy makeup will be looked down upon!" When there was a fierce dispute, the brother-in-law said: "Most of the people who were hurt were people with heavy makeup!" "

I froze for an instant, no matter how obscure his words were, this naked humiliation stuck in my heart like a needle. Grievance, anger and incomprehension are three emotions. But I think it's normal for a girl like me who is in the prime of her life to love beauty. However, some parents and even elders just heard about a girl with makeup, and immediately thought that this girl was a crazy girl and might not say anything about anyone. May I say that this is a very annoying idea?

Does makeup mean that you are not good at studying? Does make-up mean bad conduct? Does makeup mean you want to fall in love? Then why don't these parents say that boys are selling taste and pretending to be cool and want to fall in love? I think for a girl, reading and making up is the only way to make herself better and more beautiful.

Reading is to cultivate and improve one's inner temperament. The so-called poetry book with a full belly is like this. Reading cultivates temperament from the heart. Just standing there seems to have a charm that can be seen from a distance, and it can't be used for recreation. Make-up is to dress up your external beauty, at the same time enhance your self-confidence and make your temperament play better. Wouldn't it be better to study both inside and outside?