Behind Bo Huang's efforts: When people are weak, there are the worst people.

Recently, an interview video of Bo Huang in Tik Tok suddenly became popular again.

When talking about the feelings before and after becoming famous in the video, he said, "I used to meet all kinds of people, all kinds of careful machines and all kinds of things. After you leave, you can't pay the bill. Who cares about you? But now, I am surrounded by good people, and everyone is smiling. Miss Huang, are you tired? Take a break. Miss Huang, what would you like to eat and drink? What can I get you? Teacher Huang, you have worked hard. "

Yes, no one thought about it. He looks average and has no background. He sings in bars, teaches dance, forms a band and even runs a factory. At the age of 27, he decided to switch to acting, and then stumbled for three years. Until he was 30, he was admitted to the Film Academy, where a large number of outstanding students graduated every year, and Bo Huang seemed to be the least famous one.

Others rest directly in the car after the performance, while Bo Huang can only rest in the car after the meal is delivered. But even if Bo Huang won the prize, he was not recognized. Others think that "people like Bo Huang can be admitted to the Film Academy".

Until he continued to prove himself with performances, until he became a billion-dollar film emperor, until he was called "double height",

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As long as someone bullies you, it means you are not good!

Gao once told a story in Strange Tales from a Lonely Studio.

One year, when Gao was still studying, he went to Baiyangdian to shoot wild ducks with a friend. When they got on the boat, they asked Gao: How much is it? The boatman said, two thousand.

Gao and his friends got on the boat and came back from the battle. When they were about to land, the boatman didn't leave. The boatman said, "One thousand each, that's two thousand in all. Don't leave until the account is settled." . Gao wanted to fight him at that time, when he rowed several boats from the reeds. My friend pinned it down and gave him the money.

When I left, my friend said: As long as someone bullies you, it means that you are not awesome. As long as you are bullied, you just want one thing to make yourself stronger!

There used to be an expression pack about Ma's father on the Internet, which was a smash hit.

On September 7th, 20 12, "Xing Wei Gong Pai" posted a photo of the reception in Weibo. A movie star took a selfie with a group of people next to him, but our father Ma was left out in the cold and a pink T-shirt lit up.

So there is the phrase "Today you ignore my love, tomorrow I will make you unattainable." "

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It is human nature to "pick up soft persimmons and pinch them".

Before the video of Bo Huang caught fire, I saw another news in Tik Tok. Some people broadcast the daily life of "Big Brother" live and earn 600,000 yuan a year.

Zhu Ziwen is the representative of grassroots stars. When I participated in the Avenue of Stars, with a rich voice, a song "Rolling the Yangtze River to the East" made countless China audiences remember this peasant brother who likes to wear a military coat. After becoming famous, he did not leave the countryside to become a star, but returned to his hometown to continue to be a farmer.

By rights, he is famous and rich, so he should be the talk of the village.

However, more than 654.38+0 million yuan was lent, but no one paid back the money. He built a road for the village, but because he didn't go to some villagers' doors, he was gossiped behind his back.

Even when I learned that Zhu Ziwen made money by live broadcast, the old man who had never used a smart phone bought one and squatted in front of Zhu Ziwen every day.

"Why did Zhu Zhiwen go out? Why did he stay at home? What will he do tomorrow? What are you going to do the day after tomorrow?"

Netizen commented: "The only famous one didn't drift, and as a result, the whole village drifted."

In fact, it is not because of Zhu Ziwen's kindness, honesty and kindness that the whole village floats.

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In a cold state, wealth exceeds poverty.

As the saying goes, the poor don't ask in downtown, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains.

The meaning of the words is simple. When you are weak, no one will care about you even if you are in the busy street. And when you are strong, even if you are in the mountains, people will visit from afar. This sentence is true, but we ignore those real friends, those who were still with you when you were poor and weak.

Ang Lee, a famous director, has been living at home since graduation, relying on his wife who is still at school to earn money to support his family. Six years later, he finished the script "Pushing Hands", so he became famous in World War I and won the first bucket of gold. Two years later, his script was made into a movie, and he was nominated for eight awards for this work. After that, his career went very smoothly. Almost every year, a work appeared, and he got a good evaluation every time. And he did not forget his wife's support, and the two have always loved each other.

Hong Yingming once said in Caigen Tan that "in a cold state, wealth is more than poverty".

Human feelings are warm and cold, and the rich are worse than the poor. On the surface, when you are strong, many people cheer for you and treat you as a friend, but few people really accompany you. They often value your resources, your ability and your influence. Therefore, when we are strong, it is often difficult to make intimate friends.

And often when we are poor, the people who accompany us are more precious.

When you are weak, please be brave and strong and never put out the fire of hope; And when you are strong, please remember those weak times and always be grateful.