I want to get married, but my husband-in-law says this year is not suitable for marriage. Should I listen to them?

Although it is a society with relatively modern development of science and technology, the elderly at home may wish to have some superstitions. Then superstitious ideas and people's ideas now form a kind of conflict and opposition. Should I respect my husband's absurd statement that this year is not suitable for marriage?

First of all, I think you should know why everyone in his family says this year is not suitable for marriage. If it's because of some superstition, you can communicate with him well and tell her that it's ok to believe these things, and it's a scientific age, so there's no need to dwell too much on them. If it is for other reasons, I think we should start to communicate with other reasons to solve it.

I think if you two are not in a hurry to get married and her parents like you very much, then you should not be in a hurry to get married in time this year. After all, since two people have reached this stage of marriage, they definitely want a love blessed by their parents and a very perfect ending. Actually, that's what his parents said. I think it is possible for you to wait another year, which can better challenge your feelings and further confirm whether you two are suitable for marriage.

Finally, I don't think it's suitable for marriage. For young people, they may want to get married as soon as possible, but for some elderly people, it may be particularly important, because they think marriage is a once-in-a-lifetime event, so they must choose an auspicious day. So I think we should also follow the old people's ideas. After all, after marriage, we are a family. If we are unhappy, it will be very bad for our future life.