Why do many people say never be a bridesmaid! ! ! Why?

Because in recent years, news of marital troubles has emerged one after another everywhere. The most common thing is that bridesmaids are molested at weddings. As a bridesmaid, compare your relationship with the bride. Investigating the responsibility will affect the feelings of the bride and her husband's family. It's too wronged not to be held accountable. Moreover, the psychological shadow caused is infinite, especially when someone filmed the obscene process on the Internet and spread it widely.

Being a bridesmaid is risky, which is the consensus of more and more girls.

In some areas, the custom of bridesmaids is so fierce that almost everyone agrees with it. If you want to be a bridesmaid, when you appear in this area, you may be pulled out by the men at the scene and scratched for everyone. ...

Even attending a star wedding, being a bridesmaid risks being molested. Even after being molested, people still think that such behavior is just a joke between ordinary good friends. There is no need to make a fuss.

Yes, even when you are a bridesmaid, it is difficult to protect your rights and interests.

The bridesmaid has a good relationship with the bride, and the bride will consider inviting the bridesmaid to her own wedding and let her play such a special role. Those who become bridesmaids also take certain risks to play such a role.

What the hell happened? The hardest thing to do is not only the bridesmaid, but also the bride.

My best friend was molested at the wedding and even raped by the man's relatives (please search related news reports for details). Once this happens, how should the bride handle herself? I just got married to my husband's family, and I'm about to fall out in a few days. But you don't pursue responsibility and ignore years of friendship. ...

This year, a video of "Suspected Bridesmaid Attacking the Chest" was circulated on the Internet, and I saw it myself. In the video, a bridesmaid wears a dress, but is held hostage by two men. Even if the bridesmaid shouted no, she didn't get any sympathy. Her chest was attacked and her underwear was almost torn off, not to mention that someone took a video on the spot and posted it online.

When it caused widespread concern on the internet afterwards, the news came and the bridesmaid stopped pursuing it!

For a moment, many netizens were disgusted. Weibo and news reports can see many comments insulting bridesmaids. ...

Think about it, being a bridesmaid is already an embarrassing thing, and it has been released and exposed on the Internet. While scrambling to condemn the perpetrators on the Internet, many people are talking about the infringed bridesmaids, saying that they are stupid and that bridesmaids are coquettish. ...

Even in order to take care of the bride and groom's face, I wronged myself, but it is not a taste to end up inside and outside. ...

This kind of thing is not a case, but it is often exposed by some news media. Is this maid of honor okay?

Therefore, it is not impossible for bridesmaids to be bridesmaids, but before being bridesmaids, we must have a good understanding of local customs, whether there are any habits of disturbing bridesmaids and whether there are some obscene customs, so we can't just be bridesmaids.