What is the divorce rate?

Ten reasons for the soaring divorce rate of "post-80s" couples. Why is the post-80s marriage so unstable? What are the reasons for their easy divorce? Someone specifically counted the top ten reasons for the soaring divorce rate of "post-80 s" couples. Too open-minded With the development of society, generations of young people have become more and more open-minded. In the past, people talked about "divorce" and thought it was a shame, a shame, especially for women, who would hold their heads up all their lives! Therefore, even if there are too many misfortunes for each other, we should give in and tolerate in the face of moral constraints and exchange the word "forbearance" for the fate of our lives. But young people nowadays are not like this. Even if you know something about each other's shortcomings and temper before marriage, you choose to turn a blind eye and think that you will get better after marriage. But when they got married, they found things getting worse. What should they do? Divorce! In addition, there are still many divorces initiated by women. If the desire is too strong, the faster the social development, the greater the temptation. If we say that 70 years ago, we struggled, started a business and took root, then 80 years later, it is undoubtedly a generation that enjoys success. People who have not experienced great storms will not know how to recognize temptation and how to refuse it. When they cannot refuse, betrayal will be the only way out. Once people lose themselves, they can't tell who they should cherish the most. As the saying goes, "live in the present", regardless of the outcome. Of course, 80-year-old couples can only enjoy the same happiness, but not * * * is also one of the reasons for the high divorce rate. Her husband's mediocrity made her more jealous of other people's wealth. When material needs are greater than morality, morality becomes worthless, and infidelity is undoubtedly a lifeline. For a long time, the tradition of "marry a chicken and follow a chicken, and marry a dog and follow a dog" seems to be less and less advocated. Only children live up to expectations, especially women, who cry for their own career (work) and are unwilling to be housewives. It is no problem to have an independent job. However, the existence of online and TV blind date leads more and more people to choose blind date in different places and then get married in a hurry (flash marriage is one of the phenomena), thinking that love can overcome everything, including distance and time. It is true that parting is more exciting than getting married, but after a long time, this excitement and novelty will become dull, lonely and suspicious, and then complain and quarrel. When no one is willing to make sacrifices, they have to sacrifice this marriage. Lack of mutual tolerance and forbearance, the only child after 1980s has become a high-risk group for divorce. Many people in this group are self-centered, and their sense of social responsibility and family responsibility is weak, which is directly related to the parents' overindulgence from childhood, helping their children make decisions in everything, and training their children to lack tolerance and forbearance, which leads to the decline of marriage stability. At the same time, with the development of the times, this generation has higher requirements for the quality of marriage feelings. Dissatisfaction with ordinary life makes them unwilling to settle down, and some "marriage deaths" caused by trivial matters of life are also increasing. The post-80s generation is a trend generation, with great economic pressure and sharp contradictions, and all luxuries have to pass. But now most of them are part-time jobs, and their income is not much. Buying those luxuries, plus family expenses, is almost beyond our economic ability. Many times, both sides still need parents' relief. No wonder a survey pointed out that 95% of the post-80s generation were unable to support their parents. If you can't support yourself, it's no wonder you can't support your parents. At this time, the contradiction came again. You said I couldn't make money, and I said you couldn't make money. The contradictions between the two sides have intensified again. Never believe in love at first sight, especially when you get married. Many post-80s couples get married rashly without really knowing clearly, which leads to emotional instability after marriage. Many "flash marriages" of the post-80s generation will almost say: I didn't know him or her before, but I didn't expect him or her to have so many problems, and the premise of "flash marriage" is the seemingly fashionable "flash marriage". Lack of in-depth understanding before marriage, hasty marriage without careful consideration, unstable emotional foundation after marriage, fast pace of urban life, impetuous people, lack of self-adjustment and mutual understanding after contradictions, and lack of social responsibility are all prone to hasty divorce. The simple phenomenon of divorce deserves attention. Most of the parties involved in post-80s divorce cases have no problems of property division and child support, which makes them feel much relieved when divorcing. "Now divorce is too simple. Let's go to dinner to celebrate. " In the hit TV series Struggle, Nanhe, a pair of "double-married people" (college students who got married as soon as they graduated), has been stumbling. Married less than 1 year, divorced with a marriage certificate. It can be seen that divorce is "simple" and "convenient". Mutual suspicion, shopping together or something, when meeting beautiful women, husbands usually 180 tilt their heads and slowly follow the target. When I met a handsome guy, my wife marveled: awesome. Occasionally when chatting on qq, "Hey, there are so many women (men) in your friends, you won't be with your former lover behind my back." At this time, a lot of privacy no longer exists. Women check men's phone records and text messages all the time, while men doubt whether their wives always dress up and go out on dates. The post-80s generation is very representative. Economic independence and "less housework" are the "soft spots" in post-80s marriage. In addition, the lack of tolerance and understanding is often the fuse of divorce. According to a survey, among the married "only-generation" families, 30% employ hourly workers to do housework, 20% are cleaned regularly by their parents, 80% spend a long time in their parents' homes, and 30% couples have to take their dirty clothes to their parents' homes for washing. Parents arranged for many "post-80s" to reach marriageable age, but many of them were left behind, and they were introduced by relatives, friends and even family members, so they were strangers to each other, and often such feelings were the weakest. More than 90% of post-80s divorces are arranged by parents. This is because many "post-80s" have been arranged by their parents since childhood, and they are very dependent on their parents' support financially, which also makes their parents more involved in the post-80s divorce issue. List of reasons for post-80s divorce: The most realistic reason is that there is no woman's "birthright" on the real estate certificate No.65438 +0. After 80s, the young couple just got married and left in 2008. According to a website survey, 40.72% of men think that "you must have a house to marry a wife" and 22.63% of women choose "you must have a house to marry me". Mr. Qian Zhongshu said that marriage is a besieged city, and he probably didn't expect the house to be a ticket for the "finalist". Those who bought high-priced tickets and stepped into the besieged city have a new name: house slaves. The most realistic reason NO.2 bride price is 40,000, which has increased by 1 10,000 a year. The groom-to-be said that if the house is a new obstacle in the new era, then the bride price is a "long-standing problem" in China for thousands of years. According to the marriage custom of our country, when a man marries a wife, he must pay a bride price or a bride price to the woman's house. The amount of bride price depends on local conditions, the economic situation of the parties and other factors. As time goes by, the bride price money is also rising. Judging from the trend in recent years, the average annual increase of 10 thousand yuan has gradually become the weight of marriage. In this context, the families of both sides even have conflicts, which further affects the feelings of men and women to be married. The most realistic reason is that the husband who works is going to work in other places, and the countdown to divorce begins. For the post-80s generation, it is difficult to get married, it is even more difficult to find a job, and the job is hard-won, which makes many people cherish the job opportunities. Therefore, when individual rights are violated in the course of career development, many people prefer to tolerate the illegal demands of the career and ignore the fight for legal rights. The subjective thinking reflected by this kind of submission happened to the younger generation in the era of awakening of rights consciousness, which made people feel a sense of cowardice. The most helpless reasonNO. 1 Mother-in-law's mother-in-law doesn't like her son-in-law to persuade her daughter to have an abortion and divorce her only daughter. Every parent is afraid that their children will be wronged. Poor son-in-law in the 1980s hated snobbish mother-in-law. Girls in the 1980s always said, "I can marry a man without a house, but my mother won't do it.". Experts and scholars say that high housing prices are "mother-in-law economy". This group of mothers in the 1950s. The most helpless reason is that the dispute between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has intensified. She had no choice but to be a victim. If the mother-in-law makes men suffer, then the mother-in-law is the "nightmare" of countless women. For thousands of years, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been one of the biggest problems in family life. In the ancient society, which attached great importance to "filial piety" and "three obedience and four virtues", the daughter-in-law was undoubtedly the absolute weak side. But in contemporary times, the traditional shackles have been broken, and the post-80s generation is the "most self-centered" generation in history. The daughter-in-law wants to turn over and be the master, but the mother-in-law doesn't do it, so the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is getting worse. The most helpless reason NO.3 is quite common in ancient and modern novels, movies and TV dramas, but it is rare in the contemporary era, especially for the fearless post-80 s. As long as these "mandarin ducks" don't hit others. But nothing is absolute. Sometimes when you meet the best parents and elders, you have to break up the young "Yuanyang", and you still have to give in after 80. The most shocking reasonNo.1birthdates Post-80s urban youth are superstitious about fortune-telling and divorce only for birthdates because birthdates is not. This truth, like "hitting a mandarin duck", seems to exist only in ancient times. But now many post-80s youths are really addicted to fortune telling. Use the results calculated by the "big fairy" who doesn't know which side, and hastily decide life events such as work, love, marriage and divorce. If "hitting a mandarin duck" is a tragedy, then "fortune-telling divorce" is a complete farce. The most shocking reason NO.2 The bridal chamber woman told her father-in-law to kneel down and pick up her daughter-in-law to annoy the groom: I was not married when I picked up the bride, but it was just a hot picture. "Making trouble in the bridal chamber" was originally a traditional wedding custom, but in the past, at most, it was a coax, a red envelope, and at most, it was hiding in the corner to eavesdrop on "Spring in the bridal chamber". But now there seems to be a trend beyond the fire, blowing flour, changing wedding clothes, barking like a dog, parading the streets, guessing underwear … and even pulling elders in for jokes. If the prank goes too far, the farce will turn into a tragedy.