What should I do if I am obsessed with my ex-husband? Why do women cling to their ex-husbands?

Many women can't go out for a long time after divorce. After a long time, they will still miss their ex-husbands. In fact, it is a bad psychology for themselves. So, what if you always miss your ex-husband?

What should I do if I am obsessed with my ex-husband

First of all, the parties to this case should understand that the two sides have divorced, which is a reality that must be faced. Because, from the day of divorce, the two sides belong to two unrelated people.

Secondly, sometimes, it is normal for people after divorce to feel uncomfortable. They can take the following measures to adjust their emotions:

1. Adjust your living condition or living environment, and bring out what you use when you are together to prevent others from thinking about things.

2. Take an active part in social entertainment activities, give yourself a complete holiday and let yourself forget everything in front of you.

Every divorced person has the right to find a new spouse, so the parties should actively make friends with the opposite sex and put themselves in their shoes.

Why do women cling to their ex-husbands?

1. Still have feelings for your ex-husband.

Once a woman marries a man, she will always be loyal to her husband. Because marriage is a big deal for women, no matter how hard or tired you are, you must follow this man. If there is a rift in the relationship, most women will try their best to make it up. Until the end, they will not divorce. Women value marriage more than men, and usually put all their feelings into the family because they love this man. Once divorced, they will try their best to beg for reconciliation. If not, after the divorce, their feelings for their ex-husband will be different. They still have love for their ex-husbands, and they don't want to let go easily or start a new life. If her ex-husband comes back to find her, she will stay with him again because she loves him.

I think my ex-husband owes me too much.

It is said that there is hate when there is love, and two people who once loved each other will hate each other after divorce. Women's resentment will be deeper. Women still can't forget their ex-husband after divorce, and feel very wronged. They feel that their ex-husbands owe them too much and always feel sorry for themselves. This is the same reason. After a woman gets married, she finally feels that her happy life is about to begin. As a result, the man asked for divorce. How cruel it was to her. Her happiness was ruined by him. She must be very sad and think that she has been greatly wronged. Her ex-husband is too sorry for himself and owes him too much. Women will hate this man so much that they may never be able to go out and start their lives again after many years.

I still have a relationship with my ex-husband because of the children.

It is easy for two people to divorce, and the problem of not having children is also easy to solve. If two people have common children, then this problem is a bit tricky. Parents who care about their children are unwilling to let their children live a single-parent life without fatherly love or maternal love. Therefore, if two people can tolerate each other for the sake of their children, they will not divorce easily. If it is time to leave, they will also consider the growth of their children. As a mother, it must be very sad for her children to live a single-parent life. When a woman raises a child, she will blame herself and resent her ex-husband. If the man raises the child, the woman will definitely visit the child all the time in order to contact her ex-husband, and the child will become a bridge between them.

How can I forget my ex-husband?

1. Keep yourself busy, not just at home.

Men are most attractive when they work hard, and this sentence also applies to women. Men are most attracted to hard-working women. When your life becomes full and busy, you will no longer feel sad and lost about why your husband divorced himself. Women have their own goals and always go all out to do their best. Sometimes, the tense atmosphere at work, the mutual help among colleagues and the time for joking leave you little time to think.

Don't pester each other and stay away from him.

After more than ten years of marriage, it is always men who suddenly part ways and are not used to it. Go out without talking, go home without steaming food, and go home without a light on at night. All this makes men at a loss. However, if you insist on pestering, hoping to make the other party change their minds, that is the best policy. They will not only avoid each other, but also be trapped in the shadow of divorce. You can't forget each other and pursue your own better life.

Can't a woman forget her ex-husband after divorce?

1. Ms. Yang:

Some women still miss their ex-husbands after divorce, but I don't think so at all. After the divorce, I felt that I had been granted Amnesty. My ex-husband is behind my previous actions. He secretly borrowed a lot of money from me. After three years of marriage, he has never cooked for me. There are no warm memories between us. There is only hatred between us. I hate him very much. He has caused me endless harm. After the divorce, I was very happy.

If a woman remembers her ex-husband after divorce, it proves that her ex-husband was kind to her. Although she is divorced, there will still be kindness, but my ex-husband has no kindness to me, so he has no obsession at all.

2. Ms. Chen:

After my divorce, I still can't forget my ex-husband. My ex-husband and I have been married for four years. In the past four years, my ex-husband has spoiled me very much. He treats me like a father and daughter. Unfortunately, I am a blessed person. In this doting, I gradually forget that I am actually an adult and should be responsible for my actions. In this doting, I became a smug person. Always angry with her ex-husband, always unreasonable.

I am like a bad-tempered child. I think my ex-husband will always tolerate me and he will never leave me. However, my ex-husband was completely disappointed in me in my insolence again and again, and our marriage ended like this.

Everyone is like this. Only when it is lost can he know how to cherish the value. It was not until I lost it that I realized what a ridiculous woman I had become. How much I want to get my ex-husband back, but my ex-husband broke my heart, was extremely disappointed with me, and would never pay attention to me again.

How I wish I could start over. If you give me another chance, I will definitely understand that my ex-husband is good to me and I will be good to him. So I don't have to put up with this kind of missing after losing him.

3. Ms. Ling:

I divorced my ex-husband because he not only likes smoking and drinking, but also likes to play blogs. I didn't know my ex-husband well enough when I first fell in love with him. I didn't know he was such a person until I got married.

Although I was deeply disappointed to find out that he was such a person after marriage, I didn't immediately think of divorce. I want to change him, so I try to convince him again and again, hoping that he can change himself, that he can smoke less and drink less, and that he can quit gambling addiction.

But my ex-husband is just tired of my advice. Not only did he turn a deaf ear to what I said, but he kept yelling at me. I feel very disappointed. After my repeated persuasion failed, I finally gave up on him completely and decided to divorce him. After the divorce, I totally want to draw a line with him and start a new life.