Noble family: Qian (30 generations since the Millennium)

Qianjia is a thousand-year-old family and the first family in Zhejiang and Guangdong. After thousands of years, talented people come forth in large numbers, which is extremely rare. There is heaven above and Suzhou and Hangzhou below. The Millennium development of the Yangtze River Delta has provided great enlightenment and sublimation of family business philosophy, life realm and wisdom realm. The economy and culture in Jiangsu and Zhejiang are very developed, which developed more than 1000 years ago.

Qian Liu is the king, with 13 states, with its capital in Hangzhou. When planning a city, we should consider whether to fill the West Lake.

Qian Liu believes that the West Lake is the West Lake of Hangzhou people. For generations, people have to rely on its water to live and irrigate farmland. If it is full, it will become a waterless king.

Three measures have been taken to control the undercurrent of the West Lake:

1) Set up a team of 1,000 people to rebuild the West Lake waterway;

2) Policy to protect the environment and people: Stop attacking other countries and concentrate on enriching the people.

3) Speak freely, Corporal Lixian.

2. How long can the influence of family training last? (Refer to Qian Jiaxun: Children and grandchildren should do good for China, and don't waste gifts by changing their surnames. If you meet a god, you should attach something (take the land and return it to Song).

Qian stayed at 6 1 year-old, and specially formulated the "Wu Eight Instructions" for families: individuals, families and society serve the country, love the country and the people, be highly sincere, and be pragmatic and far-reaching.

No family is without talent.

Family inheritance is whether children can become talents. Cultivating children is the key to family inheritance. Every big family can continue because of the emergence of talents. The level of talent determines the prosperity of the family. Talent is the key to inheritance, and whether the children at home become talents is the key to family inheritance.

The Qian family, Toshihiko, has a lot of talents, a high starting point and a high realm. As long as there is only one talent in the family, there will be many talents, which is the real inheritance of the family. In the previous life, family style and ethics were placed in family heirlooms, which was the most important rule. The descendants of the Qian family love reading and want to read good books. They know that reading can not only increase knowledge, but also make it easier for future generations to enter the upper circles of society. Qian said, "I only like reading all my life. I sit reading classics and lie reading novels. Look at the small words when you go to the toilet, but the book has not been opened yet. "

Children's luxury is the fragrance of children's books. The establishment of scholarly family began with the whole family's love for reading.

The difference between people lies in the ideological realm.

The best way for a person to improve his realm is to study. We can meet many people in the book, who have a high standard of living and deep taste and can be our role models. The people in the book are selected from millions of people and have stood the test of time and have been preserved to this day, such as Confucius, who lived more than 2,600 years ago.

Ouyang Xiu reads books in his spare time: on the pillow, in the toilet, right away.

Qian Mu said: Anyone can improve the realm of life, as long as he is willing to learn, which has nothing to do with intelligence.

While studying, money has improved its own level and allowed its descendants to enter the upper class. With the continuous improvement of his level and social status, he also attaches great importance to family education. No wonder money has lived for thousands of years.

Qian Xuesen: You can wear clothes if you can, and you can use them if you can. Life is wise, life is wise, and it contains higher spiritual pursuit.

The choice of life is actually a question of ranking values. Different pursuits of people lead to different lifestyles.

The values of life are: eating and drinking, love and hate, fame and fortune, a healthy and simple life, self-realization, the merits of life, and a friendly spiritual realm.

The mind and the heart are inconsistent. We may not want to do what our minds think we should do, but we will still follow our inner decisions and do something.

The real pursuit of a person's heart is the lifestyle that a person presents outside. We can perceive the real needs in our hearts. The real reason why we can't persist is not laziness, but our inner value order.

You can guess a person's values and spiritual realm by looking at his choices.

Liu Qianqian laid the foundation stone. The order of values of a family determines the life direction and life choice of future generations.

What is power? Consistent appearance. If you want to understand in your heart, then the written family instructions will only act, and people will show their true thoughts and pursuits. If what parents say is different from what they see, children will learn to be inconsistent.

Deliberately seeking things cannot violate the law and justice. Words and deeds should be worthy of the teachings of sages. Don't forget the teachings of Ceng Zi in three provinces a day, and cherish the four proverbs that Cheng Zi used for self-control.

In the face of finance, we can't be cautious and incorruptible, Geng Jie.

You can't do things without courage, and you must be tolerant and kind when you are tempted.

I only know that the situation of going forward will become narrower and narrower, and the knowledge of looking back will become wider and wider.

Where flowers are densely covered and willow branches are lush, you can open up a road and show your skills.

Only when the wind blows hard and it rains heavily can we stand firm and stand firm.

If you can correct your mistakes, heaven and earth will no longer be angry. If you can keep your duty, there is nothing to do.

Only by familiarizing yourself with ancient poetry can you have a profound foundation, and only by understanding history can you talk extraordinary.

Good writing can enrich the virtue of cultivation and have great blessings.

If you want to create a happy and beautiful family, you must establish appropriate rules.

Houses facing the street should be neat and clean inside and outside. The order ethics between the old and the young should be cautious and strict.

Be filial to your parents and uncles, and be harmonious and friendly to your sister-in-law.

Although the ancestors are old, they should be pious in offering sacrifices. Children and grandchildren should study even if they are stupid.

When you marry a daughter-in-law, you should find a woman with good character, not covet dowry. To marry a girl, you should choose a son-in-law with outstanding ability and political integrity, and don't envy wealth.

When the family is rich, help the family run free schools and public fields. In times of famine, relatives and friends should get money and food for charity.

Inheriting the family business with loyalty and kindness will last forever.

Make friends with sincerity, beggar your neighbor: help the widowed and cherish the lonely, respect the old and love the young, help the affected people, solve urgent needs, eliminate dangers for people, resolve contradictions and disputes, build bridges and paves the way for people to walk, and build rivers for people to cross the river.

New free schools will be set up for children to receive enlightenment education, and private granaries will be set up to store food for famine relief.

Personal prejudice should be completely eliminated and public interests should be fully advocated. Don't be tempted to seek benefits when you see benefits, and don't be jealous when you see talents.

Although villains should be alienated, they must never become enemies openly. Although a gentleman should be close, he should not blindly follow without losing his principles.

Law enforcement is unshakable, and moral integrity is as white as jade.

Love the people like your own children, and cut off the moths like your own enemies.

The management of subordinates should be strict, and people should be sympathetic. If officials can work hard, the people will gain great benefits. If the king is willing to suffer a little, the people will be loved ten thousand times.

One should not seek benefits. When you are on earth, the people will certainly seek welfare. If it is in the present, of course, it also requires interests. In later generations, it is even more responsive.

People with outstanding talents can make the country strong, but they just gather everyone's wisdom.

People who are extremely ignorant will ruin national affairs simply because they always like to be self-righteous. Even if you are smart and wise, you should treat yourself with stupidity. Even if you succeed, be modest. Even if you are brave, you should be timid. Even if you are the richest man in the world, you should be modest.

In the imperial court, the cultivation of honesty should be the first. The whole world should be based on the cultivation of vitality. Grasping the root of making money and trying to save money will make the country rich. Only by selecting and appointing people with both ability and political integrity can the country be strong. Only by building new schools and cultivating talents can the country prosper. Be good to your neighbors and abide by morality, and the country will be safe.

Qian Weichang primary school didn't go to a formal school in junior high school, and has been studying with Uncle Qian Mu, a master of Chinese studies. Senior high school students get almost full marks in literature and history, physics 15, height 1.49m, all lower than Tsinghua.

Entering the university, I want to abandon Wen Liguo. The dean of the department was moved and said, if you can get 75 points in science after one year, you will transfer to the physics department.

Upon graduation, Qian Weichang was 1.65 meters tall, a famous athlete in Tsinghua, and ranked first in physics. Qian Chuanchang turned from literature to science, studied hard and discovered the secret of the subject: science emphasizes understanding and thinking, and independent thinking is very important.

Students who get up early to study every day, and Hua. Qian Weichang and Hua are both poor students in math and physics. After four years of hard work, they finally became the best students in the department.

Qian Weichang grew up in poor health. When he entered Tsinghua University, his height was only 1.49 meters, one centimeter short of the admission standard in Tsinghua University. His height and physical performance broke the entrance to Tsinghua. Measurement of physical indicators: why can't basketball be thrown out because of insufficient lung capacity? The basket is difficult to start.

Later, Qian Weichang became a member of the Tsinghua University cross-country team, winning five consecutive championships. When I graduated, my height was1.65m, and my height was16cm. His performance is among the best. He is a famous athlete. Is the spokesperson of Tsinghua's motto of self-improvement. After graduating from college, he successfully went abroad and became the top scientist in the United States at that time. Professor von Carmen, the father of American missiles, is a classmate of Qian Xuesen.

Behind the miracle are unknown efforts and struggles. It is the most important challenge for our parents to set up their children's ambition and motivation in life and exercise their willpower. Exercise+housework+frugality. Avoid children's eyes too high: well said, not done.

Teacher Ma, a physical education teacher in Qian Weichang: Physical exercise is not only to exercise physical fitness, but more importantly, to exercise one's willpower, to exercise one's mind, to pay attention to one's own shortcomings, to make continuous efforts, to overcome shortcomings and to overcome oneself, so as to make progress. Everyone has his own characteristics, and giving full play to his strengths can improve his grades. No matter what we do, we must follow this principle. This is self-improvement. Endless is to spend a lifetime to overcome your own shortcomings and persist in overcoming yourself to succeed.

No matter adults or children, no matter what age. No matter what age. As long as you study hard and work hard, everyone is a miracle.

The training of willpower can simply start with doing exercise or doing housework at home. At first, adults can also set an example for their children, not for them. We believe that God will care for those who work hard enough. We can pass this concept on to children, hoping that children will continue to create miracles in their own efforts. As for parents, we should set a good example ourselves. We have great ambitions and ideals in life. Through continuous efforts, the length, width and height of life are different.

On the 60th anniversary of Qian Liu's birthday1/kloc-0 in 2065438, Qian's family held a public sacrifice in Lin 'an, and more than 500 descendants of Qian's family participated in it, inheriting their family knowledge and abiding by the precepts forever.

Family precepts are teaching materials for family children, so that family children have a good spiritual pursuit and realm.

The Qian brothers are harmonious, and the husband and wife are harmonious.

1) You must choose a portal when you get married, and you must strive for a happy object in getting married and having children.

Birds of a feather flock together. It's really no accident that people are together. People need to have three feelings when they are together: familiarity, belonging and belonging. As long as these three meet together, it will be natural.

In the process of children's growth, children's psychological needs and spiritual orientation are hidden in it.

To parents: attachment, never clings. What kind of family will raise what kind of children? What kind of children are there? What kind of family he will naturally form. Righteousness leads to righteousness, extravagance leads to wealth, anger leads to wealth, and of course anger leads to wealth.

Female speech, female virtue, female merit and female appearance are the four norms that women abide by, which are referred to as four virtues for short.

Women's work refers to the way women manage their families: hardworking, thrifty, friendly, clean, not extravagant and not stingy. Good conduct of women is the best education. Women in the family should pay attention to their words and deeds and pay attention to their words and deeds.

The ability to think independently, if you understand it, you will not forget it. The characteristics of studying science: don't learn by rote, but learn to think independently. Westinghouse Science and Technology Award is specially designed for high school students, focusing on tapping their thinking ability.

When the child doesn't understand the problem, it is just this time to see if the child has the ability to deal with the problem and think independently. Therefore, as long as children encounter problems that they don't understand, in fact, parents should be happy, because this is an opportunity to cultivate their thinking ability. Leave some time for children to think. It's best not to give an answer at once, but to give a hint at most. Can let children think, try to give children the opportunity to think, let children think at this time, parents should not interfere or even leave. If the child is still thinking, it shows that the thinking ability is growing, so the more he thinks, the more he thinks, and the results are slowly coming up. Today's departure is also for the independence of children. As long as we give guidance and encouragement, patience and self-confidence, children can solve learning problems with their own efforts and abilities, which will not only help children's learning, but also directly affect her attitude and ability in the future. Growing up at home is greater than studying. Family education determines the growth of personality, school education determines the growth of talents, and children's learning is used to grow their personality.

Lifelong learning is actually lifelong self-study, self-study.

Qian Weichang's lifelong learning habit, that is, lifelong learning system, has become a great cosmologist.

Cultivate children's lifelong learning, thinking and enterprising spirit. The cultivation of these excellent qualities in a child can affect his life. Keep a healthy attitude towards life, take care of yourself, learn from Qian Weichang and see what miracles there are in life.

Qian Sanqiang's name reveals three key points of family education. Qian Sanqiang's father is money, and his wife is He.

Three very important training points in family education:

1) physical fitness is the strongest; 2) Excellent academic performance; 3) Good moral character.

When talking about the Qian family, Lin mentioned how to train the heir to the throne after the royal family chose the prince. Please ask the prince to invite three teachers: Taibao, Taifu and Taishi.

Taibao: He is a life teacher who teaches children a healthy attitude towards life and how to maintain their health. (Zeng Guofan was once a Prince Taibao)

Teacher: Teach children ethics. This is a teacher who teaches people to be human.

Taishi: Teach children cultural knowledge, how to govern the country, etc. This is a teacher who imparts knowledge and talent.

Nowadays, schools have paid enough attention to the study of cultural classes, healthy attitude towards life and healthy ability. Moral education should be family education and the focus, which is irreplaceable for school education. Strengthen the linkage between the top three schools and share the next generation.

Private school: decorate the family into a school to form a family-school integration. It is very scientific to integrate environmental education, example teaching and writing teaching. There is a certain order between private schools and learning schools.

Children first know the square characters: the words written on the square, and knowing 1000 words is the first stage of learning.

The second stage is reading. Read the Mongolian books "Saint Amethyst", "Hundred Family Names", "Thousand Characters", "Child prodigy Poetry" and "Disciples Rules".

Three-character classics, hundreds of surnames and thousands of characters are literacy textbooks.

Reading Mongolian books is a transition from centralized literacy to formal reading. After reading Mongolian books, students should read four books, University, The Doctrine of the Mean, The Analects of Confucius and Mencius. After the four books, there are five classics: poetry, calligraphy, ceremony, Yi, Spring and Autumn.

The third stage after the Five Classics: composition.

Writing ancient prose and reading ancient prose are synchronized. China's ancient literature includes Selected Works of Zhaoming, Donglai Games, China's View on Ancient Literature, Hundreds of Classics and Miscellaneous Notes, Zhi Yi Ji, Historical Records, Zi Tongzhi Jian, and Yu Fang's Notes on Reading History.

Take part in the imperial examination and read the course papers.