China's classical proverb says that love is selfless.

1. Classical Chinese about love Li Chi Ngai's Operator

I live in the upper reaches of the Yangtze River and you live in the lower reaches. I miss you every day, but I can't see you, so I drink Yangtze River water. The water of the Yangtze River flows eastward for a long time, and I don't know when it will stop, and neither will their lovesickness and parting hatred. I only hope that your heart is the same as mine, and you will not live up to this mutual yearning.

(1) The rule of naming words is transferred to "fortune teller". Su Shi's ci is the main body in the ci book. Also known as "hundred-foot building", "plum wind wall" and "hanging the moon and thinning trees" Double tone, 44 words, rhyming.

② Yangtze River Head: refers to the upper reaches of the Yangtze River.

③ Yangtze River tail: refers to the lower reaches of the Yangtze River.

(4) The sentence of "only wish" means "exchange my heart for yours, and then we will know each other and miss each other deeply" in Gu Kuiya's "Complaining about Love". D: Between the lines. In addition to the number of words specified in the word, one or two less critical words are appropriately added to better express the meaning. This is the so-called interlining, also called "adding sound"

~ today's translation ~

I live in the upper reaches of the Yangtze River and you live in the lower reaches.

I miss you every day and can't see you.

But * * * drinks the same river.

This river-

When will the water flow stop?

Don't hate this parting. When will it end?

I hope your heart is the same as mine,

You will live up to this lovesickness.

Evil spirit "Han Yuefu"

Evil!

I want to know you,

Live a long life and never give up.

A mountain without a grave,

The river dried up,

Thunder and earthquakes in winter,

Rain and snow in summer,

Heaven and earth,

I dare break up with you!

Oh, my god I am eager to know you and cherish you, and my heart will never fade. Unless the majestic mountains disappear, unless the raging rivers dry up. Unless thunder is rolling in the cold winter, unless it snows heavily in the hot summer, and unless heaven and earth intersect, I dare to abandon my affection for you until all this happens!

Note 1 evil (y)! : oh, my god. Up, pointing to the sky. Evil, modal particle, expressing exclamation. 2 know each other: love each other.

3 life: ancient times are connected with the word "order", making. Decline (Cuι): decline, cut off. These two sentences mean that I am willing to fall in love with you and make our love last forever. ④ Mausoleum (líng): the peak and the top of the mountain. ⑤ Earthquake: It describes thunder. 6 rain and snow: snowfall. Rain and nouns are used flexibly as verbs. ⑦ Heaven and Earth are United: Heaven and Earth are United into one. ⑧ Dare: Only dare, the word "dare" is a euphemism.

2. Is there any ancient prose about love together that you want to know about?

The mountain has no edges, and heaven and earth blend together, but dare to break with you!

I am full of thinking that if I marry a person with a heart, I can love each other and be happy forever. Han; Zhuo Wenjun's Whitehead Ballad

If I can be with you, I will face death bravely.

I would rather be a mandarin duck than a fairy. Tang; Lu Chang 'an's ancient meaning

We can't be like a pair of phoenixes, fly with me.

The mind acts on the mind. Tang; Li Shangyin's Untitled

We hope to fly in heaven, two birds become one and grow on the earth, two branches of a tree. ..

The earth endures, and the sky endures; One day both will end, and this endless sadness will last forever! Tang; Bai Juyi's Song of Eternal Sorrow

It was a long time ago that I met her, but since we separated, the time has become longer, the east wind is blowing and a hundred flowers are blooming.

Silkworms in spring will weave until they die, and candles will drain the wick every night. Tang; Li Shangyin's Untitled

Once I tasted the vast sea, I felt that the water in other places was pale; Once you have experienced the clouds in Wushan, you feel that the clouds elsewhere are eclipsed.

Hurried through the flowers, lazy to look back; This reason is partly because of the ascetic monk, and partly because of who you used to be. Tang; Yuan Zhen's "Thinking of Parting"

Rain in the east, sunrise in the east, said it was not sunny, but it was still sunny. Tang; Liu Yuxi's Zhi Zhu Ci

Love is not a matter of * * *.

Even this bright flame of love will only have ashes? . Tang; Li Shangyin's Untitled

The candle on the table lit the heart, and it also saw the parting; You see, it shed tears for us and flowed to the morning. Tang; Du Mu's Farewell

Red bean shrubs grow in the south and produce many branches in spring.

May you bear more pain as a symbol of our love. Wang Wei's Acacia

Flowers can be folded straight, don't wait until there are no flowers! Don Du Qiuniang's The Lich

A stick of incense and a stick of incense are heartbroken in vain. Li Bai's Qing Ping Diao Er

I don't regret that my belt is getting wider and wider, which makes people haggard for Iraq. Song; Liu Yong's "Fengqitong"

The past is empty, still like a dream. Li Yu's "Midnight Song * How can I avoid the sadness and hatred of life"

Know what I mean, pity you, you must ask for it! Li Yu's The Golden Sparrow

The moon rose to the willow tree, and he met me at dusk. Zhu's Camellia

If you don't see each other when you meet, love will be ruthless. Sima Guang's Xijiang Moon

Ultima Thule is still far from the end, only the mind is infinitely long, and there is no time. Spring In Jade Pavilion；Song of Youth

The sky is not old, and the love is hard to break.

The heart is like a double screen with a Qian Qian knot in it. Zhang Sheng's Chitose

Holding hands and looking at each other, tears swirled in my eyes until there were no words at last, and a thousand words stuck in my throat and I couldn't say it.

Love hurts and leaves since ancient times.

This is a long time, people who love each other are not together, and I even expect to be satisfied with the good weather and scenery in name only.

Even if it is full of emotions, who can enjoy it together? ! Liu Yong's Yu Lin Ling

Flowers bloom and fall, and flowing water gurgles.

One kind of lovesickness, two places of leisure.

There is no way to eliminate this situation, only frown and mind.

Looking around, lonely and sad.

This time, what a sad sentence? A slow voice

There is nothing to say when you go to the west wing alone. The moon is like a hook. Lonely phoenix tree deep courtyard locks clear autumn.

Keep cutting. The reason is still chaos. It's sadness. It's not just the general taste.

How much sadness can you have? Like a river flowing eastward. Young mermaid

A moment that should last forever has come and gone before I know it. Li Shangyin's Jinse

Ten years of life and death are two boundless, disapproving and unforgettable.

Xiao Xuan window, dress up, silently care for each other, only a thousand lines of tears. Su Shi's Jiangchengzi

Looking for him in the crowd, suddenly looking back, the man was there, dimly lit. Xin Qiji's Qingyun Case * Yuanxi

Gentle as water, ritual as a dream.

If two people have a long relationship, they won't go to court. Qinguanque bridge

After birth, there will be no acacia, only acacia, and then acacia. Xu Yuan Jayce's The Moon Song * Chun Qing

Affection has been idle and hateful since ancient times, and good dreams are the easiest to wake up. Clear; Shi Qing's "Yi Xi Ti"

Love is blind. Huang Ming Hangzhou folk poetry anthology

Endless acacia tears cast red beans, endless spring flowers bloom all over the building. Cao Xueqin's Dream of Red Mansions

Acacia says acacia, and Shiro hates Mandy. Republic of China; liang qichao

Think it over several times.

I would rather miss you! Hu Shi's Raw Tea Seeds

Life has been infatuated since ancient times, and this resentment has nothing to do with romance. Song; Ouyang Xiu's "Spring in the Jade House"

3. Classical Chinese expresses love. Ancient classical Chinese expresses love.

Evil! I want to know you and live a long life. There is no mausoleum in the mountains, the river is exhausted, there is Lei Zhen in winter, and there is rain and snow in summer. Only when heaven and earth become one can we break with you.

There is no doubt about love when you are married. Have fun tonight. This is a good time. What is the night when recruiters look into the distance? There are no more participants. Quit your job from now on. On the battlefield, long time no see. Shake hands with a sigh and tears will make a living. Try to love Chunhua, and don't forget when you are happy. Born to return, died for Sauvignon Blanc.

I live in the upper reaches of the Yangtze River and you live in the lower reaches.

I miss you every day, but I can't see you, so I drink Yangtze River water.

The water of the Yangtze River flows eastward for a long time, and I don't know when it will stop, and neither will their lovesickness and parting hatred.

I only hope that your heart is the same as mine, and you will not live up to this mutual yearning.

If my heart were yours, we would know each other and remember each other deeply.

Life and death are generous, and Zi Cheng says. Hand in hand and end with love.

You are in different rooms, and death is the same point. If you don't believe me, it's like a day.

Thin clouds are clever, flying stars spread grievances, and yinhan sneaked into Chen Cang. When the golden wind meets the jade, it will win, and there are countless people in the world. Common complaint against acacia, tender feelings like water, meet each other as if it were a dream, when it is hard to see the bridge. As long as two people love us to the end, why covet my Heron?

Once the sea was difficult for water, except for Wushan, it was not a cloud. Lazy look back at the flowers, half ploughing and half living.

Beauty shines in old age, but first frost disappears in autumn. When I get older, I forget a lot, but I can't forget my lovesickness.

Love is a selfless argument. Love is a broad thing, including emotion and body. Love her soul and body. . Waiting for everything, who wants to share their lover with others? Love is waiting, love is desire, love is loving her bit by bit.

Because I love someone, I think that person is good at everything.

Even if he did something very wrong, he thought it was no big deal!

Love him, and you will tolerate his many shortcomings.

Selfish people think he is the best.

Love in real life is very selfish. If you become selfless, it is not called love, it can only be a kind of promiscuous love!

Hehe, at least I think so!

There are many kinds of love. Love is just a kind of love. In real life, love is of course selfish. Because in the ocean of love, it is not easy to love someone, but one in ten thousand. I finally found someone I love and love. Would you like to share it with others? If you will, it is love divorced from reality. If you are willing to share your she (he) with others, then your love with her (he) is not enough to sublimate into love.

See how many people fight for love and jealousy. Regardless of love, people are selfish ~ who says he is selfless? Let me see your hands!

I don't believe in love that only seeks the process without seeking the result. I don't think it is true love if you really love someone and don't expect to get along with him day and night. (Of course, because of work and livelihood, it is another matter to want to get along with him day and night. )

Love is a kind of concern, a kind of worry, a kind of unfounded wild guess, a kind of selfishness that doesn't want anyone to get close.

Love is selfish. Love is the privacy of two people. This is a very selfish feeling. It is different from affection and friendship. Love only belongs to two people. Selfishness means that two people care about each other very much and want each other to belong to themselves!

Some people say that love is selfless, so please ask: "Why do you love someone?" The answer "want to be with each other" is to let the other person live with you for a lifetime. Although he is happy, he is possessed in one way. Possession is for oneself, and for oneself is selfishness. Self-preservation is the first law of nature.

Who dares to say that living is for others? You tell me what you are doing for others. You can't answer. It's just that you are saving your face and your happiness, .........................................................................................................................................................! !

Whether love is selfless, selfish or selfless depends on everyone's mentality and personal level.

Dare to ask yourself: Are you selfish or selfless in life?

If you say it's selfless, think about it. Have you counted others in your life? Have you ever been jealous? Have you ever calculated others for trivial matters?

If it is selfish, have you sincerely and silently dedicated yourself to your family, friends and brothers? Have you ever made a sacrifice for someone? Everyone is selfish and everyone has a selfless side. This is man.

In love, there are selfishness and selflessness.

Couples who have been fighting for decades occasionally or often bicker, indicating that there are contradictions, and contradictions indicate that there is a selfish side. Although they can still live together for decades, it shows that both of them have spent decades of youth. This is selfless enough!

Therefore, love is contradictory. Extreme selfishness and extreme selflessness are both undesirable.

6. It's the most difficult to endure love with each other. How to say it in classical Chinese is "forbearing love is the hardest". First of all, you need to look at how the words in the sentence are said in classical Chinese. The word "mutual" in classical Chinese can be used as "phase". "Enduring love" means suffering from love, and the classical Chinese word can be "suffering from love". The word "yes" in classical Chinese can be "nai". "most" can be translated as "first" here. The word "difficult" in classical Chinese can be "fried". "Love is the hardest" can be said in classical Chinese: the pain of the same love is fried for the first time.

7. Love is selfless. What needs urgent attention is the definition of love and selflessness: it also says that love is pure and single-minded.

(If the other party mentions extramarital affairs, it can be said that extramarital affairs have exceeded the moral boundaries, are impure and do not belong to the category of love. ) Selflessness is not selfishness, or it can be said that it is not self-care and disregard for others. (So, even if the final result is good for you, the starting point is for the other side. For example, Lei Feng is selfless. He also washes other people's quilts himself, but if he has to wash them himself, why not wash what others have instead of his own? Here are some information found on the Internet. Love is a kind of dedication. Bing Xin's love has paid everything, but it is still rich. Fabry △ love is not taking, but giving △ love exists in the desire to give, and regards the happiness of the lover as your own happiness. Swedenburg's love is giving. Even if his life is not good, you want to help him and make him live well. He has a good life, and you want to share his troubles with him and make him live a better life. A stingy person will not be stingy with his lover. \ He has a bad life, and you want to help him and make him live a better life; He has a good life, and you want to share his troubles with him and make him live a better life. Love you.

So I will think of you in everything I do. I miss you at dinner.

I miss you when you sleep. I want to buy something for you, and I'm still guessing the cute and happy expression when you receive something.

If there is something bad, you will always think about what harm it will do to you. The most insignificant but subtle thing is that when I hang up the phone or end the date, no matter who says "bye-bye" first, I will always be the last person to put it down and turn around.

Before you do something, think about whether you will like it or not. Try not to do anything that will make you angry.

Even if I really want to do it, I will try my best to resist it. The first scene: (Love is selfish vs. Love is selfless) mainly focuses on making a positive argument: the statement debate should be a debate of facts, rather than discussing what we should do.

The first point is based on the basic argument that human beings seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, that is, human beings have selfish nature, starting from love. The yearning for love is originally to satisfy personal desires. People can't fall in love with others. Perfect love exists only in novels.

Second, from the maintenance of love. Love is possessive and exclusive, and being kind to each other means keeping each other around.

(Take jealousy as an example) Third, from the end of love. It is selfish to abandon others, and it is even more selfish to hate from love (time is up). The opposite argument is that love includes commitment, intimacy and affection.

Selflessness means that the starting point of doing things and thinking about problems is not yourself, but the other side. Love is selfless, that is, in the process of love, the first thing to consider is the feelings of the other party.

First of all, from the essence of love, love itself is a kind of dedication. Secondly, from the expression of love, we can see that all kinds of love, whether vigorous or plain, start from each other, and selfless love does not need to be noble.

(Take Yu Ji and Liang Zhu as examples) Third, from the perspective of selflessness itself. Selflessness doesn't mean it's not good for you. The essence of selflessness lies in the starting point of the other party.

Whether the result is good for you or not cannot be used as a criterion for judging selflessness or selfishness. Debate stage: At first, I asked if it was a reward and whether knitting a sweater for my boyfriend would make her feel satisfied. The counter-reaction of knitting sweaters can really make you feel satisfied, but the starting point is for the good of the other party, so it is still selfless.

Zheng Fang said that knitting sweaters is mainly for their own satisfaction and shows selfishness; The opponent asks, is it selfish to consider yourself as long as the result is? Time for diamonds is up. There is no answer. The opponent finally explained, "He is happy, so I am happy."

Positive arguments: First, analyze the example of "Liang Zhu" to show that the love between life and death is still selfish. Then take Duan Yu's pursuit of Wang Yuyan as an example to further illustrate that any love has a purpose.

Explain that selfishness and noble selfishness can achieve a win-win situation. Finally, it is concluded that love is selfish in both development and form.

The opponent retorted that it was unreasonable to criticize "noble selfishness" first. Then point out that the other party said that the debate was a factual judgment but could not give an example.

Then it attacks the definition of the other party's selfishness, pointing out that it is biased for the other party to use the theory of human selfishness as a demonstration method to judge selflessness and selfishness, indicating that if it is selfish as long as it is beneficial to itself, what is selflessness? In the process of refuting, it is also emphasized that Zheng Fang's example of an affair is no longer love. Free debate: the opposing side once again asks the other side to give an example, and the pros and cons ask the pros to give an example in turn. The positive side cited the example of Yang Guo and Little Dragon Girl, while the opposing side thought that this example reflected selfishness, and the two sides launched a confrontation on this issue.

Then the two sides confronted the concepts of selflessness and selfishness, and repeatedly asked whether it was beneficial or selfish for them. What about selflessness? While waiting for a question, the three arguments of the positive side resolutely responded "so selflessness does not exist first", and the differences were huge, and the two sides were deadlocked. (Time is up) The two sides argue that they are still fighting in the concept of selflessness and selfishness. The opposing side has been asking, is it selfish to benefit themselves? The key should be the starting point, who is the first; Continue to adhere to the positive side, and the ultimate goal is yourself, even if it is dedication.

(The performance of the opposing yelvlv in two rounds of debates reminds everyone of her statement that "marriage is not the grave of love" in 2004.

Counterparty argument: criticizing the love defined by the other party is actually superficial love for hardware; Focus on attacking the view that "being good to yourself is selfish", indicating that being good to yourself is an objective result, not a subjective starting point, with special emphasis on the absurdity of the view that "selflessness does not exist".

When love begets hatred, it is not love. Positive argument: First of all, it shows that the argument is not about what love itself should look like (such as perfection), but this is exactly the starting point of opposition.

We should consider this problem from a realistic perspective, and once again show that the so-called selfless example is only a manifestation of selfishness. The starting point of attacking the opponent is determinism, which holds that what should be considered is the result or what the result is.

Love is selfless. Selfless is not love. When you really love someone, I hope she (he) is happy, no matter where she belongs now.