Everything in the world is predestined.

As a doctor, I have been in the middle of my life. I have seen too much life and death and found that people's fate is doomed. Everyone carries their parents' genes from the womb, and these genetic materials determine what diseases a person gets at what age. Modern medicine has solved some diseases, so the life span of human beings is obviously prolonged than before, but so far, it has not been heard that anyone can live to be over 200 years old, which means that the life span of human beings is doomed to not exceed 2000 years.

People are conceived in the universe, and the genes at the beginning of gestation determine a person's life. The so-called "life and death are fixed, wealth is in the sky" and "life and death are inevitable", which naturally occurs in people's bodies, so there used to be fortune tellers who read their faces and palms. Zeng Guofan is particularly good at judging people's faces. He read countless people, identified a large number of talents with his keen eyes, and boldly used them to save the crumbling late Qing government and realize ZTE's rule in the late Qing Dynasty.

"If you have a high amount, you will succeed." It is reasonable to look at intelligence and early development in terms of frontal angle. In the process of human evolution, the brain capacity is gradually increasing, while the oral capacity is gradually decreasing, because the more evolved human beings need to solve problems with wisdom, instead of opening their mouths like lions and tigers and biting other animals with hacksaws as sharp teeth as rations.

So the human brain is more and more developed, the forehead is more and more convex, and the "hairline" is getting higher and higher. I used to feel inferior for my shiny forehead, which became the highlight of every photo. But I comfort myself that this is actually the light of wisdom. From the perspective of physiognomy, I am extremely clever. This makes me feel much better, although I am actually stupid.

However, some numerology actually does not need to be calculated, but this is the law. For example, when the water is full, it will overflow, when the moon is full, it will lose money, when the vegetation is prosperous, it will be yellow, and when the characters are prosperous, it will be depressed. This is a natural truth.

In our life, the greatest achievement is that our parents got life, which is the beginning of everything; The biggest loss is death, because we have to give up everything we get. For this biggest gain and loss-life and death, we all have no say. What is there to care about? As long as you understand life and death, everything else will naturally understand, and there is nothing you can't let go of.

Sometimes there must be something in life, and there is no need to force it in life. The prince wants to die in the middle of the night, and no one can drag him to the fifth watch. Man's life is a part of heaven. How can the Tao be changed easily? Those lost things don't belong to you, and those you have are destined to follow you. What belongs to you will always be there, and no matter how hard others try, they can't win it. On the contrary, what doesn't belong to you, no matter how hard you try, how hard you try, and how unscrupulous you are, doesn't belong to you. Even if you get it, it is only temporary and will eventually be lost.

God is fair. When you get something, you will lose a lot. For example, when you grow up, you gain knowledge and wealth, but you lose some relatives and friends. If it's not yours, you can't fight for it, and you can't keep it. Just let nature take its course and accept it indifferently. Life is too short, so why bother? Life is impermanent, so why be persistent.

People, rich or poor, have the same weight. The poor also have peace, satisfaction and happiness in a poor environment. Those who are powerful, rich or talented seem to be proud, but in fact they also have fear, emptiness and pain. Why else do rich and prestigious doctors in the United States have a high suicide rate? Otherwise, why are those enviable literary and art workers suicidal and heading for the point of no return? So don't complain about your life, and don't try to change your life. These are meaningless. And it is best to tell less fortune, there is no need to calculate, which makes people panic.

Fortune telling is like taking drugs. It was hard to quit in the first place. If the fortune teller says that your life is good, you will always find someone else to tell you and further verify it; If the fortune teller says your life is bad, you will definitely find someone else to do the math. I hope he says your life is good, and you can feel at ease by overturning the judgment of the previous person. So I can't stop on the journey of fortune telling.

Of course, fortune tellers can sometimes drive your life, because people who ask fortune tellers have weak confidence, and as a result, a few words of fortune telling are likely to affect your life.

I remember twenty-one years ago, I studied obstetrics and gynecology in Zhongnan Hospital of Wuhan University. At that time, my boyfriend in my hometown also moved on, and we broke up. I am very uneasy and can't see the future. Accompanied by a friend miner, I found a fortune teller in front of Guiyuan Temple to do the math for me. After many years, Min learned that what the fortune teller said that day was still vivid. She remembers it better than I do. The fortune teller said, "According to your date of birth, you will not only fall in love and get married next year, but also thank me with a little doll at this time."

At that time, both Min and I thought the fortune teller was talking nonsense, because I just broke up with my ex-boyfriend and my new boyfriend didn't know where he was. How can I get married and have children in a year? However, something incredible happened. This year, my blind date, love, marriage and having children with my current husband were all mysteriously realized as the fortune teller said. It's incredible. This made Min talk about it every time he saw me, and he was amazed at the fortune teller's divination and was deeply impressed.

When I am old, in retrospect, I am surprised to find that when to work, when to choose a person to fall in love, and when to get married, in fact, fate has already been arranged. It is precisely because I believe that everything is arranged in the dark, so I cherish my love for fate more and more, and I am more and more humble and humble to fate.

I have calculated my life in that kind of hesitation and helplessness. Since then, I haven't counted my life for so many years. Now that fate has come into being, it doesn't matter much whether it counts or not, and there is nothing we can do to change it. Since it is predestined, we will accept it calmly. Chen Guo, a teacher at Fudan University, also said: "When you can't change your destiny, accepting it humbly is a noble, obedient and atmospheric gesture."

Life is actually a journey of death. Everything in the world seems to be accidental. In fact, everything has been arranged, there is no need to force it, so calm and calm. As long as you have the power to take your time, this kind of life is beautiful.