Nan huaijin's wife told Fortune.

People always have their own pursuits in their life. In just a few decades, some people are dead, but he is still alive. Some people are alive, but he is dead.

What is life like? How to define life? Everyone may have their own answers, but is your definition of life really correct?

There is such a couple who have reached middle age and finally have time to go out to play by themselves. After thinking for a long time, they decided to go to the seaside they had never seen before and wanted to feel the taste of the sea. After preparing for a long time, they decided to start by train.

The husband chose a window seat from the moment he got on the bus. He kept looking out of the window and reveling in it, while his wife kept chatting with people next to him, discussing the spectacular scenery of the sea with passers-by and discussing which swimsuit to wear to the beach. After a long time, my wife became bored.

Seeing her husband looking out of the window, I asked him what he was looking at. The husband smiled without a word, and the wife leaned down. After half an hour, her husband said to her, look, the scenery outside this window, look at the sunset glow and the winding river in the distance. Nature is really beautiful.

Yes, nature is really beautiful. The two different behaviors of husband and wife show this different attitude towards life. One is to blindly pursue one's own goals and forget the beautiful things in the process of pursuit. The other is that the distance is beautiful, but the scenery along the way is equally unpredictable.

Teacher Nan Huai Jin once said, "All the capable people in the world are ruining their lives. No matter which industry, the more talented, the more completely destroyed. "

In our view, life has proved its value, shouldn't it be sublimated? Why do achievements not only prove themselves, but also ruin life?

In fact, what Master Nan Jin Huan said is not to prove his worth, but to prove his worth while not missing the beauty of life.

There is no rehearsal in life, and every day is live broadcast. Maybe the people and things we inadvertently miss in life, once we look back, are the mistakes of our lives.

Tan Sitong (1898) during the Reform Movement of 1898 was one of the "Six Gentlemen of the Reform Movement of 1898", who gave live high a flavor of life. While opposing the Qing government, he never forgot his identity as a poet. Even in prison, even if his life is dying, he still tells the world that death is not terrible, and even if he has to leave, he must have his own pride.

Li Bai, known as a poet, is no stranger to everyone. He lived in the prosperous Tang Dynasty and left countless excellent works in his life. There were many poets in the Tang Dynasty. Why is Li Bai so famous? Why did he say that she dared Yang Guifei to grind ink for him? What a lofty prestige, what a fearless power.

"Go out laughing, are we Artemisia people?" It is his eclecticism. "Looking up, I found that it was moonlight, and it sank back, and I suddenly remembered home" is his real feeling. "Oh, let a spiritual man venture to his favorite place, and don't point his golden cup at the moon!" It's his wild attitude towards life.

Live a high attitude and leave your own good and bad to the world to comment.

Compared with Li Bai, Su Shi's life is very different, and he has been displaced for half his life. Looking back on his life, he can only look and sigh.

"In those days, Jin Ge's iron horse swallowed Wan Li like a tiger" shows that he still remembers the glory of the past in his heart. "The river does not return, and the waves are exhausted" is his unwillingness to his life. "The vast expanse of buildings makes the poor people in the world happy" is his description of his life experience.

Su Shi, who is praised by the world as a poet, should have been a generation of gifted scholars in our view. He should be wild and talented, but how can he live so hard?

Since Su Shi entered the official career, he has been restricted everywhere. Without any background, he was involved in the "Wutai Poetry Case", was jailed and almost died.

After this storm, I thought I could make a comeback, but I'm still in business. Because of poverty, the youngest child in my family died, so I couldn't go to Ruzhou. It's a pity that the family left like this, and a generation of poets fell like this.

Full of talent can no longer be put to use, leaving so many works, so talented people have to end up like this, how can it not be regrettable.

In contrast, Li Bai lived a free life, traveled around the mountains and lived a colorful life without fear of power; On the other hand, Su Shi was pushed out by people everywhere in the officialdom, and his fate was miserable. He faced different attitudes towards life, such as Do not forget your initiative mind, in order to achieve his ultimate goal.

Many times, smart people are often not so happy. In today's society, materialism is rampant and the pace of life is getting faster and faster. In order to make a living, many people often give up their interests and choose jobs they don't like. At work, they should not only try to figure out the boss's mind, but also care about the opinions of colleagues. Gradually, many people have become what they once hated.

I believe that no one's childhood dream is to buy a house and a car. Why do we become what we are now? On the one hand, the reason is that we are too smart. If we were a little "stupid", we might not guess the leader repeatedly, and our colleagues inadvertently began to reflect on whether they had done something wrong.

If we are "stupid", we won't care too much about other people's eyes, get upset about what others say, or concentrate on getting ahead, and forget how long we haven't looked in the mirror or really laughed.

The author has two friends around him. One goes to the company early every day and works overtime voluntarily. He is also the front line of any job in the company and can get it every month. Every holiday, he never forgets to prepare precious tea for the leader, and he just wants to be promoted.

Another friend finishes his work every day, rarely works overtime, and participates in the group activities of the company. Every day after work, he invites a few friends to play basketball and games, and never tries his best to please the leader.

Did either of these two friends do anything wrong? Of course not, friends are for a better life, to get ahead and prove themselves; Another friend is enjoying his present life and spending every day happily.

But in contrast, I prefer the life with a second friend, because we should remember that each of us is unique and can't just live for others.

When it comes to master nan huaijin's life, we have to mention his view of love. Nan had two wives in his life, one was his cousin, who was entrusted by his parents as a matchmaker, and the other was Yang, a Changchun woman he met in Taiwan Province.

Wang Cuifeng was originally a childhood friend of Nan, but although she grew up together, Nan did not have a splendid peak. In his mind, Wang Cuifeng has always been his sister, but at the instigation of his parents and the words of a matchmaker, Nanhe finally entered the marriage hall hand in hand.

After they got married, they got along well and lived happily every day.

However, the good times did not last long. Shortly after their marriage, War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression broke out. He resolutely went to the front line to give full play to his expertise.

Every day, he goes to various places to give speeches and publicize the spirit of the war of resistance. For several years, he never stopped and had no time to go back to take care of his wife and children. Wang Cuifeng also knows the importance of his lover's speech, so he takes care of his youngest son at home alone.

Yang is an enthusiastic girl that Nan met when she gave a speech in Taiwan Province. After that, they met, fell in love and knew each other.

While speaking, Nan saw the girl from Jilin at a glance and was deeply attracted by her kindness and generosity. Although he knew he was married, the love in his heart prompted him to confess to Yang and finally tied the knot. After they got married, they had four children in succession.

The sum of the two men was 4 1 year. When he appeared in front of him, even though he had fantasized about this scene for countless times, Nan Huanjin was full of apologies and traveled all over Taiwan with him, trying to make up for it.

I believe Wang Cuifeng knew in her heart that he was apologizing for leaving her alone at home in 4 1 year, but she chose to accept it. Of course she loves nan huaijin, but maybe it's fate or fate, and nan huaijin no longer belongs to her.

Two weeks later, Wang Cuifeng refused his invitation, unwilling to retire in this place, and finally decided to return to his hometown and spend the rest of his life alone. At this time, she was 76 years old.

The significance of 4 1 year to a woman is self-evident, but she didn't forcibly declare it with fate, but decided to let it all turn into dust and clouds.

After this incident, nan huaijin told the students that it is ok to love someone, but don't love too much. Love for a person will eventually change, and vigorous love will be dull, which can stand the polishing of time to complete.

People can't live without love, but they can't just love. Life sustained by love alone is fragile. Once there is no love, it will collapse and it will be difficult to regroup.

Looking back at history, it is really difficult to make a positive result in a vigorous love at first, because once the feelings are dull, the gap between them is often unbearable, and people finally choose to leave.

Everyone will die, either lighter than a feather or heavier than Mount Tai.

Man's life is short. We shouldn't keep our troubles and sorrows to ourselves every day, complain about others every day, and just want to earn more money and buy a bigger house. We should learn to enjoy life, learn to do what we like and meet some people we want to meet.

Sometimes life is like climbing a mountain. Many people's goal is to climb to the top of the mountain, but we should not concentrate on climbing the mountain and speed up as much as possible. We are tired, so we should stop to see the scenery, breathe the air and see the beautiful scenery of the mountain.

Our life should never be born and alive. We should try our best to make our life full of color. Let's stop after several years and look back on the past. There are not only sweat and bitterness, but also good memories.

Imagine lying in a rocking chair a few decades later, and the grandson around you asked you what was interesting when you were a child? What should you say?

We can't just tell children that life is not easy, and they will be eliminated by society if they don't work hard. We should also tell our children that our world is very big, and there are always some places you should go, because there are people you like and beautiful places there.

If you are willing to give up, you will get what you want. When we meet something we like in the pursuit of fame and fortune, but we still can't get it by hook or by crook, don't hesitate to give up. You know, there must be something in life, and there is no need to force it in life.

Don't forget your childhood dreams, do what you like, have your own time, put aside all other thoughts and say to yourself, "You are great, take your time."

Cherish the hard-won of every day and cherish everything in front of you.