My boyfriend and sister saw my tattoo and said I was not a good girl. Should we break up?

We should not break up. But you need to change her mind. Although the tattoo culture in China has gradually developed, tattooing is still a thing that may change the trajectory of your life in China.

If you are a girl living in a third-tier city, about 20 years old, and want to get a tattoo, you go to your friends for consultation without telling your parents. Everyone around you tells you not to give up what you like because of external influences, and then you get a tattoo under the instigation of these friends.

You think you are cool. You think you've suddenly become an anti-bone person. It seems that tattoos have brought you great changes. You know that most people have opinions about tattoos, which has become a reason for you to be proud. Your opinion is that "tattoos are a kind of culture, and people should not have other opinions just because they have tattoos". You think you are right. You think you are unique.

Gradually, you find that some jobs in the system don't want you, and some jobs with face don't want you. The older generation will judge you when they see your tattoo. What about peers? Except those friends who know you because of tattoos can understand you, other peers will think you are not serious. If you are more attractive, there will be many men with low quality who want to chase you. Most of these men just think you are easy to hit on.

You began to feel unfair, and you began to doubt whether your original choice was correct. You came to Zhihu and asked, "Do girls tattoo fall in price?" You see a large group of people supporting you. "Life is to live a little higher for decades", "Don't care so much about other people's opinions" and "The girl's falling price has nothing to do with tattoos", so you start to regain your confidence and stick to your idea of living a little higher, but these troubles in life will still not be solved.

Do you know what happened? When you can't accept the possible consequences of your actions, you should think carefully and be prepared to protect yourself. Let's not talk about an example. How many people in ordinary life don't think much when they see tattoos on girls? Not that tattoos are not allowed. It's not a question of whether a girl should get a tattoo, but a question of under what circumstances a girl should stick to her hobby.

You can get tattoos. Unless people, family and friends around you know that your future direction will not conflict with tattoos, then you won't get tattoos in "Sky-high Falling". The above remarks are not directed at any woman with tattoos, because I also have tattoos, and I don't think tattoos will have any influence on girls.