Fate holds something. Can you believe it?

Those who have never experienced absolute coincidence will never believe in fate, and those who have never felt retribution will never believe in cause and effect. The disappearance of the sun, the depletion of minerals and the outbreak of war are all obvious. The smaller the event, the more complicated and unpredictable the related factors are, and there are too many factors that can affect a person. If we know all the current state of the world, then any future events can be predicted, such as what a person will encounter, his environment, his mood at that time … plus his past, then we can predict all the behaviors of this person in the face of this event, including what he will do after being affected by this event … and so on to the next event. Since we can predict his future, fate is born. This is the dialectical view of philosophy. If you ask me, I don't know that the purpose of discussing this question is not to find an answer, but to clarify one thing. The less you know about fate, the better. The more you know, the more subconsciously you will be influenced by it and be led by fate. At this time, everything you do will seem a little overwhelmed. I don't know if you have had such an experience. When someone tells you a bad thing, do you have a knot in your heart, especially when life is not going well in the future? Is this really providence or fate? In fact, I am a little catching the wind, or I use this as an excuse to excuse myself. Maybe everyone has had this experience more or less, because people's curiosity is at work, and there is always an idea of trying some fortune telling. I tried, and I regret it very much, because I tried. You have to admire that people are well informed now, and all the friends around you seem to be fortune tellers. When I saw you, I enthusiastically took your hand and read your palm. Originally, I insisted that it was nothing at all, but subconsciously, I was so thirsty that I let them see it. Therefore, from the "career line" to the "marriage line" and then to the "lifeline", it is okay to say it well, but it is a bit uncomfortable to say it badly. To make matters worse, everyone said almost the same thing, and at this time, the knot in my heart became bigger and bigger. It was like this, but I felt a little unwilling. I always want to verify it more, maybe it's not that. So the next time I meet them, I still can't help showing them. Almost. Now you can't believe it. Didn't you say that the minority is subordinate to the majority? This is sometimes a truth or a weakness of human nature. It's always scary to walk alone. Even if many people leave, it doesn't matter in hell. Anyway, with company, they wouldn't be on the road alone. What annoys me most is meeting a mysterious friend, telling you half, leaving the other half for you to guess, setting suspense and deliberately keeping your appetite. No matter how you ask, silence is golden. Of course, it is also possible that the other party is afraid of influencing you too much, so enough is enough. It's nothing. I even went to the temple and asked for a sign or something. In short, I couldn't help but be curious for a while and tried more than once. The same psychology. The result is almost the same, and I can't help thinking, is this my destiny takes a hand? No matter how hard I try, I won't change. No matter what I do in the future, I will subconsciously have such an idea at work, which will have a certain impact on my life pursuit to some extent. Anyway, I regret it now. If I could start over, I would never do such a childish and boring thing again. Now, walking in the streets or parks outside, you can see the "masters" who are telling fortune by setting up stalls. They will greet them warmly, just throw a contemptuous smile and walk briskly. When it comes to why others can speak so accurately, in fact, you will know the trick if you think about it carefully. Generally speaking, people who are interested in this aspect must be people who encounter difficulties in life or have insufficient confidence to doubt life. The other party just grasps your psychology and uses this to convince you. Speaking of this "not smooth", there are only a few aspects, work, life and feelings. As long as others "exaggerate" it a little, it will be similar to what you have experienced. Since you are eager for success at the moment, you will follow others' words, and you can continue to dig your heart and dig your pain. Step by step for "opportunity" and follow "temptation", it's hard not to fall into the trap of others. In this way, others really become "superior" in your mind. In fact, this "title" is only worn by you for others' wishful thinking, and others will enjoy such "goodwill" with peace of mind. Fate is a mysterious thing. You said it didn't seem like it. Some things in life can't be explained clearly even with science. The so-called "fate" should be the best answer. Fate does not mean that there is nothing you don't believe, but that if there is fate, why should you know too much in advance? What if I know? If you are good, you may get into the bad habit of not making progress and waiting for food. Anyway, life is beautiful, and it's okay if you don't work hard; If it is not good, it will form a compromise and resigned attitude. Anyway, life is not good, and that's what hard work is like. If you can't change it, just leave it to fate. Even if you work hard, once you are hit by a little setback in your life, it is easy to be associated with the word "fate" and become the best reason for yourself to give up. Both of them are negative effects. In short, whether you know everything about fate intentionally or unintentionally, it will have a certain impact on your life to a certain extent. No matter how determined you are, subconsciously, you can't deny that you will be influenced by a subtle influence, even without realizing it. It's a terrible thing, just like there is an unspeakable power that leads you in your direction. This just proves that "fate" is unknown to everyone, but once you carry it out, what others call "fate" really exists. If everyone is like this, it will be strange. "Fate" cannot be "fate". I also admire people now. When a child is born, he or she will be given a birthday, so he or she can "calculate" what his or her future life will be like and arrange everything for him or her in advance. In fact, what a stupid thing it is. It is best to leave the child's fate in your own hands, and it is best to let him know nothing. If you know, or how much you know, it will have an intangible impact on your later life. At this time, it seems a bit insufficient to talk about "where there is a will, there is a way" and "destiny is in our own hands". You defined "destiny" in advance with a fixed thing. How do you effectively and artificially enrich its content and give it new meaning? Is a very difficult thing. In addition, there are people around us who use fortune telling to decide what to do and what not to do. For example, to name a child, we have to think hard and even find an expert to give a suitable name; For example, when is the best time to go out, you should also ask Mr. Feng Shui. For example, if you are sick, don't go to the doctor, and go to the fortune-teller "ghost woman" to pretend to be crazy and sell silly ... These are the most common in rural areas with relatively slow development, especially the elderly. In addition, this kind of marriage "grows up with each other" or "restricts each other" depending on each other's birth date. I don't know if anyone will do this, and I don't know if it will really happen. I just think that if everyone does this before getting married, probably few couples can finally get married. In other words, if the watcher said that you were contradictory to each other, would you still walk together? Even if you do, I think it will cast a shadow over the other person's heart more or less. Maybe something really happened one day, so you will be associated with it, and you don't know what will happen in the future, so that two people can live in peace? I still remember watching a TV program about a father and son. He has a fortune-telling friend. He is familiar with astronomy, geography and all the mysteries in the world, but he usually doesn't explain them to others easily. I just told him that it would be bad for him if he was around his son. His son was sent abroad when he was very young and came back from abroad more than 20 years later. Father and son are strangers. Later, his son suffered misfortune. The father tried to commit suicide in order to protect the child's life and change his son's fate. Fortunately, it didn't come true. Later, the father and son cleared up all misunderstandings and doubts, got back together and lived happily together. It can be seen that "fate" has a great influence on people. If you believe in the truth and are willing to be led by it, it may really be this kind of "fate". On the contrary, if you firmly believe in your own path, "fate" may change in an instant. You know, human strength is enormous. We often say that "man can conquer nature", as long as you have patience, perseverance and perseverance. In other words, if there is such a thing as fate, then no matter what we do, we can't change it. Why should we know? Knowing it won't help. It is best to know nothing and go according to your own wishes, but ask for a clear conscience. I remember a TV line that said, "I don't want to know too much about the world. The more you know, the more disappointed you are with the world. " Yes, there are some things you'd better not know The more you know, the more disappointed you will be. Sometimes it is wise to be confused. "There are some things you don't have to ask now." Some questions will never be answered. Wouldn't it be better to be confused and enjoy the ups and downs? But just because you look innocent doesn't mean you don't understand, as long as you do. Again, go your own way and let fate go. We just need to grasp our "destiny". I hope everyone can go their own way in life.