What is the four-color engagement ceremony in Henan?

Question 1: Is the engagement four-color ceremony the same as the door-to-door four-color ceremony? According to traditional customs, the four-color engagement ceremony is different from the four-color door-to-door ceremony.

The four-color engagement ceremony is a way for the man's family to formally propose to the woman's family through the matchmaker. The matchmaker takes "four-color gifts" (tea, rock sugar, canned food or fruit, cakes, etc. ) formally propose to the woman's house. When the woman's family agrees, she will accept the "farewell ceremony" and agree on the engagement date. Otherwise, refuse the gift. In some places, engagement is called "bride price", that is, the man gives the woman and her immediate family members, uncles and aunts, brothers and sisters a "four-color bride price". Some of them are converted into cash, and the amount ranges from tens to hundreds of yuan. They will also send clothes and mutton to the woman's parents, and the woman's family will hold a banquet to entertain the matchmaker and related relatives.

Door-to-door four-color ceremony, also known as four-box ceremony, also known as four-color ceremony. Gifts with regional characteristics and customs, that is, four kinds of gifts, four colors for the four seasons, represent a year, which contains the meaning of perfection and happiness from beginning to end, and is the blessing of the younger generation to the elders. China has a vast territory, different customs and different contents of gifts, such as vermicelli, meat, wine, chicken or fish in the northeast, which means smooth, auspicious and redundant. Wedding customs in Shaanxi, especially xi's wedding, the man must give the woman four-color gifts, namely pork ribs, wine, cigarettes and lotus seeds. For good luck.

Question 2: What kind of vermicelli is Nanyang four-color wedding (Lalao)? Heart, heart, lungs (heart, heart, heart), meat strips (some people regard this as two colors), pig thighs.

Question 3: What are the four-color gifts when you get married? Only in Henan, will you come back on the wedding day or in three days? Please ask the great god to answer seriously! This question can only be answered by asking your partner. In Henan, there is a rule of ten miles. It's confusing.

Ask your partner to ask his elders for advice. When it comes to marriage, old people are most interested in time.

After greeting, it is the key to everything.

Question 4: What does it mean for a man to send a four-color gift to a woman's home? Four-color gifts refer to: tea, rock sugar, canned food and snacks. Customs vary from place to place. The local four-color gifts are: cigarettes, wine, pork and snacks.

It is a way for the man's family to formally propose to the woman's family through the matchmaker. The matchmaker takes "four-color gifts" (tea, rock sugar, canned food or fruit, cakes, etc. ) formally propose to the woman's house. When the woman's family agrees, she will accept the "farewell ceremony" and agree on the engagement date. Otherwise, refuse the gift. In some places, engagement is called "bride price", that is, the man gives the woman and her immediate family members, uncles and aunts, brothers and sisters a "four-color bride price". Instead of cash, the amount ranges from tens to hundreds of yuan, and clothes and mutton are also sent to the woman's parents, and the woman's family holds a banquet to entertain the matchmaker and related relatives.

Question 5: What does the woman buy for the man when she is engaged? Most customs are the same. As I remember, men bought them for women and women bought them for men. I haven't met them yet.

Question 6: What are the wedding customs in Henan? 1 love: when it comes to this matter, there must be a matchmaker, that is, the person who pulls the red line. He or she will say hello to you two first, and then meet you.

Small meetings-large meetings

Small meeting: just leave you two alone in a room, and your relatives are waiting outside. Let you two have a heart-to-heart talk and feel it, huh?

Big meeting: it is successful to hold a small meeting before the big meeting. When both sides think it's ok, they will hold a meeting. Which means it's over. This man wants to give this woman some money as a gift. In other words, it's settled.

Engagement: Generally, the man proposes to the woman through the media, and the two sides are similar according to their family circumstances. In the old days, with the consent of both parents, they exchanged birthdays with Geng Tie, and the fortune teller predicted good or bad luck by "combining eight characters". If the horoscope matches, you can get engaged. Formal engagement is "too red book", also called "too book". The man talks to the media about the bride price, and after the woman puts forward the amount of the bride price, the man prepares the bride price according to the agreed standard. The amount and quality of bride price depends on the family situation of both parties, and there is no exact regulation. The man's family chooses an auspicious day to "pass the red book". Give the woman's parents ten books first, then invite the matchmaker to Cambodia. On that day, lanterns were hung in the man's house, incense was burned and candles were lit, the deacon wrote down "keepsake", and the matchmaker sent it to the woman's house with a red post and a dowry of "Please make a promise". The lady immediately replied to the green post of "Mu Yu Yun Qing". After "writing a book", you can choose to get married, and the man will invite the woman to drink a "kiss wine" through the media. The two sides will decide the wedding date and prepare for the wedding separately.

Marriage: When men get older, so do women. In the old society, men and women usually got married at the age of 18 or above. Choose two dates for the wedding for good luck. After the wedding date is set, the woman buys a dowry, which is called "dowry"; Gifts from relatives and friends are called "adding boxes". The man built a new house, made furniture, made a new bed and held a party. On the morning of the wedding, the sedan chair was issued, and a rooster was placed on the pole of the sedan chair, which was a four-color gift. When she came back, the woman named a hen "Chicken with a sedan chair", which showed that both of them were right. When she comes back, she won't go the same way and set off firecrackers all the way. It is usually the bride's uncle, brother and uncle who see her off. Those who see her off are called "guests" and "big guests". The western suburbs returned to the man's house, and the bride and groom were supported by guests. Both of them worshipped the ancestors of heaven and earth first, then their parents, and finally the bride and groom. After the worship, the family sent sacks to the ground for the last time, which was called "Dai", paving the way for the bride to enter the bridal chamber. In addition, the cashier picked up the laundry basket containing grains, dates and copper coins, sang the song of cashier's check, and sprinkled the contents of the basket on the heads of the bride and groom until they entered the bridal chamber. Then unveil the bride's veil with peaches to show satisfaction. After the ceremony, the bride stood on the edge of the bed and "dressed up", and then the trouble began. Sing noisy songs when you are noisy. The lyrics are "Look at the bride and He Xinlang, as soon as they enter the bridal chamber, the son is born with his left foot and the phoenix is born with his right foot"; "Light a candle, see the bride's dowry, high cabinets and low boxes, ivory beds that are neither high nor short, and mandarin ducks, mandarin ducks in pairs, and phoenixes in pairs." The new house is full of joy and humor. There is also the custom of "listening to the room" at night. On the first day after marriage, the bride and groom greet their elders in turn and pay homage to their ancestors. In three days, both husband and wife went back to their parents' homes and came back the same day. Six days, the bride's family came to visit her, and twelve days later, the bride was taken back. This is called "returning to the door".

Question 7: What exactly is a four-color wedding gift? Pork, wine, cigarettes, lotus seeds.

Question 8: What is the so-called four-color engagement ceremony in Qingxu County? Hello, I'm glad to answer your question.

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Question 9: What are the four-color bride price in Shandong? Four-color gifts refer to: tea, rock sugar, canned food, snacks, and customs vary from place to place. The local four-color gifts are: cigarettes, wine, pork and snacks.

It is a way for the man's family to formally propose to the woman's family through the matchmaker. The matchmaker takes "four-color gifts" (tea, rock sugar, canned food or fruit, cakes, etc. ) formally propose to the woman's house. When the woman's family agrees, she will accept the "farewell ceremony" and agree on the engagement date. Otherwise, refuse the gift. In some places, engagement is called "bride price", that is, the man gives the woman and her immediate family members, uncles and aunts, brothers and sisters a "four-color bride price". Some of them are converted into cash, and the amount ranges from tens to hundreds of yuan. They will also send clothes and mutton to the woman's parents, and the woman's family will hold a banquet to entertain the matchmaker and related relatives.

Question 10: What is the four-color engagement ceremony in Lintong? It is a gift-giving method that reflects the characteristics of local customs in some parts of China, that is, the four-color gift, which means four seasons and represents a year. It contains the meaning of perfection and happiness from beginning to end and is the blessing of the younger generation to the elders.

(1) Shandong customs include vermicelli, meat, wine, chicken or fish, which means smooth, auspicious and surplus.

(2) Shaanxi wedding customs, especially xi 'an, the man must give the woman four-color gifts, namely pork ribs, wine, cigarettes and lotus seeds. For good luck!