Is being too honest a good thing or a bad thing?

From an early age, we were taught to be honest and practical. Therefore, it is certainly good for people to be honest, which is more in line with the needs of our current spiritual civilization construction.

However, don't be too blind, be honest and be realistic. It is obvious that someone else is digging a hole with you, so you jump in with your eyes closed. That's not honesty, but stupidity. If you don't respond to someone's behavior, you are conniving at his behavior and teaching him a lesson.

So, I understand this. Honesty is good, but don't be too honest. It depends on what kind of person your partner is. If your friend or your boss is a reliable person, you should get along with others honestly and don't have any other ideas. If the person you are competing with is a man of conscience, then you shouldn't be honest with him.

I am sincere in dealing with people myself. But after honing in my work, I found it necessary to treat it differently. Some of my colleagues can get along, while others can't. For my colleagues who can make friends, I will show my sincerity to get along with others. I can communicate with them and show my true self. However, if I come into contact with scheming colleagues, I will always pay attention to myself and learn to protect myself. Actually, it's no exaggeration to say that I don't work long now, and I'm always in a state of fighting when I talk to people who are scheming, because if I'm not careful, I'll accidentally fall into the pit dug by the other party. I used to be bullied everywhere, but now someone is talking to me. I should be able to feel that I will fight back.

? Even though I have changed a little now, my sincere and filial heart has not changed. With my friends, I'm still the same.

? Therefore, people should learn to be flexible. You can't go all the way to the end, and don't think impassability. This is the rule of the game in this society. Sometimes you are too honest, you will be bullied by others, and sometimes you will suffer. Don't try to impress anyone with your sincerity, which is very realistic in this society. But for our own work, for our true friends, we should be honest.

Besides, sometimes. Everyone is selfish. Think about yourself, no one will be so honest at this time. So, don't take the word honesty too seriously. In today's society, honesty is good, but it is not good to be too honest. And learn to change yourself on different occasions.

Actually, don't think too much. A very simple thing, honesty is our beautiful character, we can't lose it, but when we meet some people and things, we must show our inner justice. ? So, is it good or bad to be too honest? There are good and bad. Just as we can't judge a person simply by good or bad now, we can't simply say whether it is good or bad. You need to measure yourself slowly between good and bad. As long as the original heart remains the same.