After marriage, the old man's family are not at home. Can a daughter-in-law go to the grave?

After marriage, the old man's family is not at home, and the daughter-in-law can go to the grave.

When you go to the grave, you should bring food, wine, fruit, paper money and other items to the cemetery, offer food to the graves of your loved ones, then burn the paper money, cultivate new soil for the grave, repair the grave, fold some fresh green branches and insert them in the grave, press some paper money on it, and put bricks on it to let others know that there are descendants in the grave, and then kowtow to worship. Women and children will also fold some Yang Liuzhi nearby and put on steamed food with wicker. Others put wicker into reeds and put them on their heads, saying, "If you don't wear willow in Qingming Festival, you will become a yellow dog in the afterlife."

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Matters needing attention when getting married and going to the grave:

1, Shangxi grave is generally for all men in the family.

2. Peer sisters accompany them to the cemetery, and other female elders cook at home.

3. Red paper should be wrapped in red cloth.

It is best to go to the grave from 9: 00 to 3: 00 pm, and no later than 3: 00 pm at the latest. During this period, the yang is relatively strong.

5. Pay attention to wearing when going to the grave, and it is best to wear red clothes. It can also be red shoes, red trousers and red socks.