Why is the fate of some people so slow, and why is the first love of some people so long?

First love for a long time must be a minority, and fate really depends on fate. For example, my daughter came late because of fate. When my daughter was in her twenties, one of her colleagues claimed to be a fortune teller. I don't believe it. At that time, he said that she was late because of fate. Sure enough, she reached the age of 30, and neither the one on the left nor the one on the right. I thought at that time if she didn't want to do it, but at the age of 30, this is fate. That is to say, the young man has a crush on my daughter, and he is chasing her so hard that now these two people are very sweet, and my heart is finally put down!