Are some people a disaster for themselves?

Whether it is a disaster or not depends on your own opinion. If you insist that you are a disaster, there is no way to change it; If you have doubts, I advise you not to think about it. Maybe your life is a little bumpy, but think about it in reverse: if everyone is happy, what's the point of life? Try to take setbacks as challenges, don't believe these things, and your life may have another scenery. I especially remind you to give full play to your strengths and learn from each other! Everything must master a "degree"! Moderate! ! !