Learn from Jane Eyre's love eloquence to win true love

Anyone who has seen Jane Eyre will almost be moved by the heroine's tortuous and bizarre love story. Jane Eyre has no outstanding appearanc

Learn from Jane Eyre's love eloquence to win true love

Anyone who has seen Jane Eyre will almost be moved by the heroine's tortuous and bizarre love story. Jane Eyre has no outstanding appearance and prominent position, but she has a pure and noble heart, persistence in pursuing true love and courage to express herself. Her love is ordinary and great, and the way she opens the door to love is also unique. "It is better to retreat than to cast a net." Let's apply what we have learned, draw inferences from others, practice eloquence, and let eloquence help us win true love!

"We are equal"-open your mind and show your attitude.

One day, while Jane Eyre was enjoying the beautiful midsummer night in the orchard, Mr. Rochester suddenly came to see her and told her that he would marry Jane Eyre soon. Jane Eyre thought he was going to marry Miss Ingram, so she said goodbye to Rochester in pain, and Rochester naturally forbade her to leave. In the face of Rochester's insistence, Jane Eyre said a little angrily:

"Don't you think I'll stay and be a nobody to you? You think I'm a machine? -An emotionless machine? Can I tolerate others taking a bite of bread from my mouth and spilling a drop of water of life from my cup? Is it because I am poor, obscure, plain and thin, so I have no soul and no heart? You think wrong! My soul is the same as yours, my heart is the same as yours! If God gives me a little beauty and a little wealth, I will make it as hard for you to leave me as it is for me to leave you now. I am talking to you now, not through customs, conventions, or even through mortal bodies-but my soul is talking to your soul; It's like the two of us walked through the grave and stood at God's feet, equal to each other-that's it! "

"That's it!" Rochester repeated. Hold Jane Eyre in your arms ...

Jane Eyre mistakenly thinks that Rochester wants to marry Miss Ingram, but she also keeps herself with him. She couldn't help being angry, so she used a series of rhetorical questions to express her true feelings, indicating that she was not a "poor wretch" begging for love. Then, she used rhetorical questions to show her attitude. Although she is "poor, unknown, plain and thin", "my soul is just like yours". These words not only reveal Jane Eyre's "love view" frankly-love must be based on equality, and both sides must maintain their own personality independence, which should not be influenced by money, family status and power, but also contain great spiritual strength, showing her pursuit of independent personality. No wonder it will infect and impress Rochester.

When some friends are in love, in order to please each other, they do not hesitate to lose their principles and cater to each other. Don't you know that such words are often "antagonistic" and are easily regarded as "pleasing" by the other party? How can you get good results? We should learn from Jane Eyre, be neither humble nor supercilious, and keep our personality independent. Only in this way can we win the sincere respect of the other party.

"You deserve my attachment"-throwing stones to ask for directions and hiding the truth.

An eccentric gypsy witch came to thornfield manor. "She" told the fortunes of the ladies one by one, predicting that Mr. Rochester would soon go bankrupt. This "prediction" caused quite a shock. When "she" calculated Jane Eyre's life, she took off her disguise and revealed her true colors-it turned out that "she" was Rochester;

"What would you do if they crowded together and spat at me?"

"Get them out, sir, if I can."

"If I go to them, they just look at me coldly, whisper sarcastically and then leave me one by one, will you go with them?"

"I don't think so, sir. It's more pleasant to stay here with you. "

"Comfort me?"

"Yes, sir, I tried my best to comfort you."

"What if they forbid you to follow me?"

"I probably don't know anything about their ban, even though I know I don't care."

"So, don't you pay attention to the blame of others?"

"For any friend worthy of my attachment, I can face the blame; You deserve my attachment, I'm sure. "

At this time, Jane Eyre has fallen in love with Rochester, but she didn't express herself directly, but threw stones to ask for directions, hiding her true feelings. In the face of Rochester's tentative questions, her answer not only shows her sincerity to her friends, but also hides the girl's heart. The sentence "You deserve my attachment" is not only the temptation to Rochester, but also the truth of deep love. If Rochester is interested, he can further develop the relationship; Even if he doesn't mean it, he can "muddle through" without hurting his self-esteem. It's ingenious to "advance and attack, retreat and defend"!

In real life, many friends "confess" their true feelings in a hurry before they "understand" each other's intentions, which is not only reckless, but also very easy to hurt each other's self-esteem and frustrate love. Let's learn Jane Eyre's speaking skills. Try to find out each other's true attitude before making further plans.

"I will be your partner"-never give up, full of love.

A fire took the life of Rochester's crazy wife, and Rochester lost his eyes and was seriously injured because of saving her crazy wife. The situation is very tragic. At this time, Jane Eyre inherited her uncle's legacy and became a rich man. She listened to her inner call and returned to Thornfield to find her love. Rochester was surprised and a little depressed when she told him that she had inherited the inheritance:

"Since you have money, Jane, you must have some friends now. They will take care of you and won't let you dedicate yourself to a blind and heartbroken person like me, will they? "

"I told you, Sir, I am not only rich, but also independent. I can make my own decisions. "

Do you want to be with me?

"Of course-unless you object. I want to be your neighbor, your nurse and housekeeper. I find you lonely. I will be your companion-read to you, walk with you, sit with you, wait on you, be your eyes and hands. Dear master, don't frown; As long as I am alive, I will not leave you alone. "

In the case of Rochester's loss of property, blindness and serious injury, Jane Eyre not only did not abandon him, but also sent him an ardent and firm love confession at his most painful time: to be his neighbor, nanny and housekeeper to take care of him, but also to be his companion to keep him from being lonely. Although her confession did not use a word with "love", all this revealed her deep love for Rochester. Her noble character, kind heart, her enthusiasm and her determination touched and infected Rochester and rekindled their love lamp.

Love needs to be expressed, but it needs to be expressed from the heart. You don't have to say "I love you" naked, but you must let the other person feel that your love is sincere, pure and without regrets. Like pure and kind Jane Eyre, who can not be tempted?

Jane Eyre's sincere expression helped her win sweet love. "It is better to retreat than to cast a net." Let's apply what we have learned, draw inferences from others, practice eloquence, and let eloquence help us win true love!