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My sister-in-law always misses me and spends money on her children. What should I do?

Measures to deal with this situation are as follows:

1, frank communication: talk frankly with my sister-in-law, express my position and thoughts, and explain that it is my personal responsibility to be responsible for the financial expenses of my children, and thank her for her concern.

2. Set boundaries: clearly tell Xiao Yan that she can raise her children independently. This is a family matter and you should be responsible for it yourself. Ask her to respect other people's private space and avoid unnecessary disputes.