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Rural people often say: "A family of three elephants, ghosts dare not hit." What happened?

When I was a child, I often heard my grandfather say, "There are three elephants in a family, and ghosts dare not hit them." I didn't quite understand what grandpa said at that time. I didn't understand the truth until I grew up and got married.

It turned out that grandpa said: if there are three signs at home, the home will be very prosperous, and even ghosts and gods dare not knock on the door to disturb you.

These three images refer to face image, weather image and image respectively. Let me explain something to you.

The so-called facial image-:Literally speaking, it is a superficial sign, that is, family style.

Every family has different housekeeping standards, some are frugal, some are cultivated, some are official and some are moral. ...

The ancients said that moral heirlooms can keep ten generations safe, followed by farming and reading, and thrifty housekeeping. Wealth and official heirlooms can only flourish for three generations (not three generations).

In other words, a good family style is the primary condition for family prosperity.

For example, parents should educate their children to be grateful when they are young. When children grow up, they will report to the country and their parents, and they will never do anything ungrateful.

There will never be descendants like Pai Xin.

Xu Kexin is a hot topic on the Internet. She went abroad to study at public expense, and after only one year in the United States, she called China a pariah. Aren't her parents from China? A typical man who takes up his job to eat meat and puts down his job to scold his mother.

If the family style is not correct, there may be disloyal and unfilial descendants like sending letters, and even criminals who rob their families.

There is a saying that you don't do anything wrong, and you are not afraid of ghosts knocking at the door. In other words, as long as you keep a good family style, ghosts and gods will not break into doors and make trouble.

The so-called weather refers to the internal signs of family members.

If a family member can achieve harmony and calmness, that is, tolerance and patience, then the family will flourish.

Some people say that family is not a reasonable place, and no one is right or wrong, only who can endure it.

There are trivial things at home, and there is no principle of right and wrong. Keep a good upbringing, don't be a bitch, and don't be a love rat, so that you can feel at ease. This family is United as one person.

The so-called image refers to the signs of family behavior.

With a good family style, the main direction of family development is determined. The family is harmonious and harmonious, and each strives for the happiness of the family. At this time, we must be careful to prevent external infringement.

As the saying goes in the countryside, "Fire is prevented every day, and thieves are prevented every night". No matter how good the family is, it can't help but set fire to it, and no matter how good the family is, it can't help thinking about thieves.

With the development of society, especially the popularity of the Internet, I think the words "preventing an affair" should be added after the words "preventing fire and theft".

There are not a few people in rural families who have an affair because of chatting.

You have seen some living cases through the Farmer Channel. Originally a happy family, but because of the derailment, no one took care of the elderly and no one took care of the children. Men and women preparing for divorce make a scene, so why bother?

The network was originally designed to exchange information between people, and it is a tool to help people live a better life.

However, with the increase of communication, men and women in marriage use communication facilities to cheat, which casts a shadow over happy families.

If a family put an end to and avoids these three kinds of violations, erect fences and keep dogs out, the family will be safe and ghosts and gods will not come to you.

There are many old sayings and even some cases about the topic of family happiness. If you have anything to say, let's discuss it together.

Text/candle reading spring and autumn

Which three elephants do these three elephants refer to? When most people first heard this proverb, they thought it was an idol worshipped at home, but in fact these three images refer to our three images, namely weather, image and face. Do you have anything to say about these three images? Today I come to share with you;

First of all, let's talk about the weather;

Weather;

To put it bluntly, this weather is the detail of family life. For example, grandma Lao Li's family of seven and eight in our village has always enjoyed a very good reputation in the village. The older generation likes to help others when they are old. Whoever needs help in the village will go to the scene at once, and the children are influenced by their parents when they are young. They are also famous great men in the village. There is no rich country in the family, but also a good reputation. They have been down-to-earth and calm all their lives, and even ghosts and gods will not bother them.

Image;

Everyone can understand this literally. If a person has been sloppy, his eyes are dull and his spirit is unnatural, he will not be liked anywhere in this society or in the past. Especially in this society, if you can't even take care of yourself, the first impression you give others is that you have accomplished nothing. Don't say that those successful people don't pay much attention to their image. Clothes make the man, and horses depend on horses. Only by dressing neatly can others get closer to you.

Face;

From a scientific point of view, they are all inherited from parents, and it is difficult for us to change anything except plastic surgery. In the past, if a boy looked like his mother, he would be very gentle, but with a hint of hardness and softness. In doing things, there are men's ability and rigidity, as well as women's carefulness and flexibility. If a daughter looks like her father, she usually looks stronger, but she will also be very independent. This statement is also worthy of scrutiny.

Ok, Lao Jia's sharing about "a family of three elephants, ghosts dare not hit" is here. If everyone feels good, give some attention and praise.

I don't know if you've ever heard of the saying, "Three elephants in a family don't dare to bump into each other." In fact, the meaning is very simple, that is, if a family has three characteristics, life will be smoother and there will be no major setbacks and difficulties. In fact, everyone wants to live in peace, not ups and downs. Only people with "three elephants" can achieve peace.

The first image: losing face. The "Losing Face" I said here is not really fierce, but there are some people in the countryside who are five big and three thick. It looks scary on the surface, but it's actually beautiful and warm. However, with this appearance, many people can be fooled. Some dishonest troublemakers are afraid to stay away from such fierce people and make trouble.

The second image: filial piety. From a very early age, many old people said that filial piety is bound to succeed, and unfilial life will not succeed. It's true. Our neighbors, when they were young, were particularly out of step and unfilial to their parents. My parents didn't have the money to treat the disease, so they asked him for some money, but he never borrowed it, or he couldn't. So in my impression, neighbors always have accidents every year. Either the man's leg is broken this year or the woman will be hit next year. I would never lie about it. In a word, the family is having a particularly bad time, and big and small things keep going.

Later, with the growth of age, I had children and grandchildren, understood the importance of filial piety to the elderly, and gradually became better and better to my parents. I don't often send some delicious food to my parents, which is strange to say. Since then, nothing important has happened in his family, and his life is quite satisfactory.

The third image: integrity. People say that a straight body is not afraid of a crooked shadow, and what an honest man does is decent. As far as they can get on the table, such people are respected, especially in the village. Some old people are honest and can handle many things. If there are contradictions at home, they will ask these old people for help in litigation. These decent people are often very smooth and don't encounter some messy things at home.

I don't know if you agree or disagree. In rural areas, it is really these kinds of people who are quiet and comfortable.