People I don't know always invite me for dinner or snacks. How can I avoid this embarrassment?

I think this situation should be avoided like this. "Piss me off. Zhang Tiantian, the new comer in our unit, said in the group that he wanted me to invite him to dinner. I know him well, or I want to talk to him. Why should I invite him to dinner? ..... "Sister Xiao Fang began to complain that the new Zhang was always pestering her to invite her to dinner, because she was the oldest and highest-paid sister in Xiao Fang. "Today's young people, don't know how to think, don't feel bold? ! "The source of this time is the outstanding performance of Sister Xiao Fang, who won the year-end outstanding individual award. Then Xiao Zhang called Xiao Fang's sister and invited everyone in the company to dinner.

As I said, Sister Xiao Fang gave us an award again. Invite everyone to dinner. When will Sister Xiao Fang invite me to dinner? Sister Xiao Fang didn't know how to answer: "Please invite me next time. There are still some things at home this month. " Next, my colleagues are very quiet. Maybe they have their own ideas. They were silent for a long time. Sister Xiao Fang was humiliated for a long time and added, "Please have dinner next time." At that time, Xiao Fang's sister was disgusted.

It's not the first time for Xiao Zhang to ask for a meal. He asks for it every now and then. Because Xiao Fang has a good temper, Xiao Zhang often calls Xiao Fang and invites him to have dinner alone. There is only one reason: Xiao Fang earns more. Not only that, she often asks for dinner in front of people at work, so that she doesn't know how to answer.

? Every time you refuse, you seem stingy. Don't refuse. He thinks it's more and more logical for you to invite him to dinner. Sister Xiao Fang said, in fact, it's not a big problem to invite you to dinner, but I think colleagues' contributions should be mutual. If I am old or earn more, I have no obligation to invite you to dinner. Everything is mutual.

If one party insists, the relationship will not last long. There is always a group of people around us. When you share some happiness with him, such as promotion, salary increase and job hopping ... he always says, "then invite everyone to dinner!" " "Before I could share my happiness with you, he kept saying that he would invite me to dinner. In fact, it is not important to invite you to dinner, but it is meaningless to invite you to dinner no matter how many times you can't get a reply from the other party. This will avoid embarrassment.