What should I do if the birthdays of ancient women do not match after their engagement is confirmed?

In ancient feudal society, many things in people's lives were linked with superstition, and the marriage of men and women was also greatly influenced by superstition. After a man and a woman negotiate their engagement, the man's parents will take away the woman's birthday and then find a witch to fix it up. What if it matches? Is it suitable? Marriage comes as promised. What if this couple is? g？ Then there will be two situations. The first one is ruined by the man; The second is that the woman, at the request of the man and under the guidance of the witch, cooperates with the man to carry out some actions to resolve the birth, and then she is engaged after being fooled by the witch.

In ancient times, women's status was relatively low, and women from poor families basically had no more employment opportunities except working as maids in rich families. Therefore, finding a good husband's family as an adult is the guarantee for the rest of your life. Even a woman with a rich family, although she doesn't have to work hard to make a living, can marry a good family with a suitable family, which is also the way out for happiness in the rest of her life. Based on this background, therefore, in the marriage between men and women, except for the special circumstances of the woman's marriage, other general circumstances will give the man the upper hand, and many customs and habits are also inclined to the interests of the man.

Among them, whether the man's birthday to the woman can bring prosperity and happiness to the husband's family has also become an important factor for many men's families to consider. Therefore, after both men and women confirm their engagement, the man's parents will naturally take away the woman's birthdates, and then find a witch to measure it. And these witches are actually magic wands to make money. If you meet someone who is not easy to fool, you will generally give a suitable statement to both men and women and earn some money. However, if the people you meet and measure are overly superstitious and easily fooled, they will make mysterious statements to men and women, or to the woman's husband's family, and then they want to make money by saying that they can help them resolve.

Generally speaking, a reasonable man's family will consider that the engagement is fixed and don't want to damage the faces of both sides, so they will pay the witch to solve this matter, so that the witch can make money, and both men and women will not suffer. However, if you meet a man's family that is overly superstitious and selfish, you may be ruined by him. Even if the man's behavior is immoral, it is a pity that it became a reasonable behavior at that time in ancient times. In modern times, this absurdity was real in ancient times.