Killing a wife, flying in the sky, getting married. Are these real?

Boyfriend was born at 2 noon on the eighth day of June in Gregorian calendar 1998. Counting three places, some people say that flying is a mess. Both places say the same thing: "If you fly home, the fruit trees will not bloom for ten thousand years." Now I have been pregnant for more than two months. I was going to get engaged before I got married, but now my family refuses to agree with us anyway, which will hurt the woman's family, not money, but harm. My family is just my brother, mom and dad, and they are indispensable. This is the life of a man. It doesn't matter who you marry. Fate is really unfair. Why do I love someone so much ... the child can only be aborted, and I have to break up with my boyfriend, and everything is gone overnight.