People should believe in fate, but don't accept it.

Fate is so mysterious, some people believe it, and some people sneer at it. Successful people will say that "fate is in their own hands", but those who often encounter ups and downs can better understand the power of fate. Therefore, some people say that they should believe in fate, some believe in themselves, some accept their fate, and some refuse to accept it. The world has different opinions, but often with the change of age and circumstances, the understanding of the word fate will gradually change. So how should we treat fate? Teacher Yang's view is "believe in fate but don't accept it".

How to understand this sentence? We know that our ancestors have been exploring the relationship between man and nature. Geomantic omen, birth, physiognomy, Wei Zi and other methods are all studying and calculating the development track or law of man and the cultural precipitation of thousands of years, and summing up a set of relatively perfect numerology prediction methods, which is what we often call "magic numbers". So we can use these methods to measure the trajectory of human development, that is, "fate."

Is fate fixed? If we don't make any interference and let nature take its course in the journey of life, then the wealth, ups and downs of this person's life are based on fate. Confucius said: if you don't know your own life, you don't think you are a gentleman. Know your own destiny. Only when you truly believe, can you understand and grasp your own destiny development track, and know when to rise and fall, when to be smooth sailing, when to speed up, when to slow down, when to hide your strength and when to go all out. This is what we call following the trend.

After we understand the development track of fate, we will find that people always have ups and downs, and it is inevitable that there will be disasters and bumps. So what should we do? Accept your fate? If fate develops to a certain time, what should we do to change it consciously? Will it work? The answer is-it is possible.

Give two simple examples. First, when some friends go to fortune telling, they will meet some people in the Jianghu. They will say: When did you get divorced, or how many times have you been married? Some people will accept their fate, divorce and remarry, but in fact? Most of the so-called "divorce" is actually just a marriage crisis. As long as we can predict in advance, take measures, change ourselves or change the environment to deal with it, we can basically get through it, provided, of course, that we can't wait until things get out of control. Secondly, a friend once consulted me and asked if he could invest in a logistics base. I told him that in recent years, the circulation of time has been unfavorable and it is bound to lose money. As a result, he did not resist the temptation of his friends, but invested. As a result, he lost a lot, lost a lot. And if he believes in his destiny and doesn't struggle unnecessarily, he will use the money to buy real estate or a house. After this low tide, the fortune rises, which is benefit, which is fate.

In addition to the above examples, changing yourself can also change your destiny. Each of us has our own temperament and aura. But some friends do have some defects that hinder success or affect happiness in these aspects. If we can understand and face them squarely, and have the courage to improve or change ourselves, or improve ourselves through the power of faith, geomantic environment and learning knowledge, we can often change the unfavorable situation. This is quite difficult. As the saying goes, a leopard cannot change his spots. This is a fact. Only by making up your mind, finding the right direction and using the right methods can we achieve results.