Mom took it to tell her fortune.

That's nonsense. If you don't say it, it's because your fate hasn't arrived yet. As the saying goes, not a family, don't be together. You should patiently analyze your conditions and look for them in a range that is basically close to your conditions, neither too high nor too low. You should also have some basic conditions (such as a regular job, a certain degree of education, a certain income, and a certain talent).