Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing (Yu Chengqing and Yi Nengjing who have been in love for 22 years)

/kloc-When she was 0/8 years old, Yi Nengjing met Yu Chengqing who was 7 years older than her.

Handsome eyes, firm eyes, a look will make girls willing to follow him around the world regardless.

Because almost at the same time, I released records and participated in the same activity, so I was arranged to take a car when I came back.

The puffed-up big boy on the stage is very quiet in private, as if his energy has been given to music and he has no time to socialize.

When he got off the bus, he seemed to finally wake up. At least he remembered a greeting: Where do you live?

She was delighted to think that this was the routine for the other party to strike up a conversation. The next second, she should offer to send herself home and quickly give him an address.

I only heard him silently chanting "it's just the opposite direction from my home, so far away" and left without looking back. ......

The tiny heartbeat signal in the air can be easily ignored by him, not to mention the broken girl's heart behind him.

At that time, Yi Nengjing didn't know that he would be the first love of a wooden boy, and he walked hand in hand for more than 20 years.

In the past 20 years, half of it has been an unknown underground love affair, and the other half has been a stormy marriage life.

There is no romance in Pisces' fantasy.

One is a rock genius and the other is an idol singer. They fell in love in a big way before their career took off, and the brokerage company was the first to disagree.

This also coincides with Yu Chengqing's idea.

He came from a prominent family and was brought up with strict family education.

Grandpa founded the Asian Tobacco Company. He is not only a famous industrialist, but also a mayor-level official.

His father, Yu Jialin, went to France to study abroad and later set foot in politics. Mother Zhang Zhengfen is a famous Peking Opera actress.

Yu's former residence is a typical garden in China, known as "Yu Garden", and it is still a key cultural relic protection unit in Yunnan Province.

Yu Chengqing, the only son of three generations, is loved by thousands of people. It's like a template for a noble young master.

But he didn't grow into a man. On the contrary, he leads a regular life, but hides rebellion and sharpness in his music.

After listening to her mother's voice and her amazing appearance, although Yu Chengqing was exposed to the quintessence of Chinese culture since she was a child, she devoted herself to rock music when she was a student.

Maybe I can't get used to my son's "broken gong" roar until now, but seeing his persistence, my family doesn't object to his playing music.

Yu Chengqing later entered the entertainment circle to engage in music. Although he was not playing with tickets, he was backed by his family, so naturally he didn't have to worry about economic problems.

Yi Nengjing and he are two different worlds.

Her father ran away from home in the year when she was born, leaving six daughters and his wife at a loss.

I lived with my adoptive parents since I was a child, lived with my eldest sister in Hong Kong in primary school, and went to Japan with my second married mother in middle school.

Yi Nengjing spent a carefree childhood in exile.

When she was studying in Japan, she was bullied by her classmates because she was beautiful.

Just because the campus male god had a good impression on her, after class, her schoolbag was cut, her skirt was torn and her body was black and blue.

/kloc-when she was 0/6 years old, she was taken in by her big brother Steven Liu, who asked her if she would like to sign up as a singer.

So Yi Nengjing took the money she earned from washing dishes from her mother in exchange for a one-way ticket to Taiwan Province Province.

When Yu Chengqing, who is seven years older than her, is trapped in the creative bottleneck, she only cares about meeting the most basic needs of life.

After his father died, he left a debt of 10 million yuan, and Yi Nengjing gave all the money he earned in the past ten years to his family.

Although she was very popular as soon as she debuted, she didn't dare to float. She always calculated how much money she could earn and how much debt she could pay for each performance.

Steven Liu once said to her, "Annie, when you earn enough money, go and enjoy life."

However, when I was looking for my lost self, I didn't know when I had a Yu Chengqing by my side.

Kind and warm Yu Chengqing is like a harbor, and Yi Nengjing wants to stop there more than once.

After a few years in the business, she has begun to get tired of working day after day and suddenly wants to marry this person around her for life.

At first, I just felt that every unknown day seemed stolen.

Young lovers in love will go shopping hand in hand, and even go out to watch movies only a handful of times. They have to buy tickets separately and enter the market in tandem.

Because of "fear of trouble", Yu Chengqing never spends the night with his girlfriend or takes her to a friend's party. He will definitely go back to his parents' home before 12.

They haven't seen each other for three months because they are all busy with work. Yi Nengjing always feels lost when he returns to his empty home after work.

Yi Nengjing has made great progress in Hongkong and Japan, but she refused to renew her contract just because she didn't want to leave her boyfriend for too long.

Compared with Yi Nengjing's enthusiasm for this relationship, Yu Chengqing's attitude has been unclear.

At first, I didn't mention it in front of the media. It seems that their relationship is still unstable and they don't want the outside world to tell me what to do.

In the medium term, I feel that I can talk moderately, but I still don't want to call the other person's real girlfriend, just an ambiguous good friend.

According to the fact that this woman hates to share her sweet love with the whole world, Yu Chengqing, who holds such a secretive attitude, should have been out long ago.

A relationship that has been unrecognized for so many years, if it breaks up one day, it will only cut off the past years, and this relationship will no longer exist in this world.

But he just won't talk.

The two went to see concert tickets for the first time, and after many years, they still lay quietly in the corner of the drawer. If she hadn't opened it on a whim one day, maybe it would still be a secret.

For a time, she made up her mind to find another lover, only to find that all she could think about was the silent stake. When she turned around, she found that he had never left.

She had to have an operation because she had a tumor. The doctor said that if it was malignant, the uterus would be removed. He said, "Life is more important". I immediately made up my mind to marry her and take care of her for life, no matter what the outcome.

During SARS, he told her not to go home for fear of infecting her children. She was a little sad at the moment, but when she checked into the hotel, she found him sleeping with her.

Having been together for so many years, he certainly understands his girlfriend's desire for birthright. After all, the ancients said, "It is fair to say that a scholar is impulsive." You can't say you're a woman. "

If the relationship is really stable, it is natural to get married, but in the early years, she regarded marriage as an escape from reality, not an inner escape.

So he never agreed when his mind was hot, but refused inhumanely, and then calmly gave his own analysis.

In the 1990s, Jacky Cheung met Yu Chengqing for his cover of Let Me Love Enough, and they became friends for many years.

Song God once said of his old friend: "He is like me to some extent and will not completely open himself up. He is a responsible and manly person. "

It was not until 2000 that Yu Chengqing and Yi Nengjing got married in the United States that this underground love affair, which lasted for more than 10 years, came to a satisfactory end.

There was no grand wedding, no luxurious diamond ring, only the man's family and friends were present to witness the simple swearing-in session and a photo taken at random.

The two years from marriage to childbirth are the happiest days in Yi Nengjing.

Although the wedding news was announced, many people even thought that Yi Nengjing was not worthy of Harlem after the accident.

Harlem's popularity among women in the circle is really good. Xiao S and a group of young sisters are his fans.

Yi Nengjing came to the show, and Xiao S was not afraid to output rainbow fart in front of her: "I think Harlem is really a good man."

Even Cai Kangyong, who has always been well versed in the ways of the world, couldn't help saying, "How can his music style tolerate your style?"

Despite all kinds of gossip, they love each other and are finally not afraid to express it in front of the camera.

Yi Nengjing found a new way to make up for her early love life without video or photos.

In 2002, she published an essay "Last Words of Life and Death", detailing the details of their relationship.

Once on the shelves, it ranked first in the bestseller list for half a year in a row, showing the curiosity of thousands of readers.

She said: "In my lifetime, in my lifetime, I must live one more day than you. I will help you bury it, so that you can feel at ease and not suffer, and then I will accompany you. "

How surging and passionate this love is.

In 2003, Yu Chengqing released his new album Harlem Paradise, focusing on the tiny happiness around him.

The lyricist of the title song "Spring Mud" is his wife Yi Nengjing.

"In fact, she wrote several songs on my album before, but they all used her real name Wu Jingyi. Now she can finally write lyrics with Yi Nengjing."

Finally, the excitement of opening up and the joy of dust settling are full of words and notes.

I just didn't expect that after more than 20 years of entanglement, Yu Chengqing and Yi Nengjing ended in divorce.

Most rumors believe that Zhang Zhengfen, the mother-in-law, is the chief culprit in the breakdown of this marriage.

It is said that being allowed to marry the Yu family has one condition, that is, she must live with her mother-in-law.

However, mother-in-law often makes things difficult for her daughter-in-law everywhere because of family prejudice and unprincipled love for her son, so that she can't find a sense of belonging.

Maybe it's true that she can't enter family life, but Yi Nengjing never said her mother-in-law's fault in front of the media.

In 2008, a "hand-holding door" detonated the theory of extramarital love.

There have been rumors that Huang Weide and Yi Nengjing are suspected to be in love, but now they are photographed holding hands outside the play, so it will be difficult to distance themselves from each other.

Huang Weide has a girlfriend who has been dating for nearly 20 years. In order to appease each other, he held a press conference and said that Yi Nengjing took the initiative to hold his hand, and he was also a victim.

Since then, Yu Chengqing has always avoided talking about Yi Nengjing and devoted himself to the work that he can still control.

Yi Nengjing has repeatedly stressed that the divorce is not due to the intervention of a third party, but because he has not recovered from family of origin's pain and rushed to get married.

She regards Harlem as a life-saving driftwood, and even thinks that marrying him can cure all the pain and find her own happiness.

But after marriage, she first became Harlem's wife, then Harry's mother, but forgot who she should be.

It's not easy to end a 22-year relationship. It took Yi Nengjing five years to sort himself out.

Fortunately, time is good for them. When they set off again, they all found new homes.

I hope everyone can be happy for the rest of their lives.