Why can't men be dogs and women be chickens?

If the chicken and dog don't reach the end, the white horse will produce a green cow. When the sheep and rats take a breath, the snake and tiger are twisted like knives, and the Qinglong sees the rabbit's tears.

Some things are believed, but some are not. Bernard Shaw put it well:

At this moment, there are about 20 thousand people on the earth who are suitable to be your life partner, depending on which one you meet first. If you have developed a deep relationship of mutual understanding and trust with the former person before the second ideal partner appears, the latter person will become your good friend. However, if you haven't cultivated deep feelings with the previous person, your feelings will be easily shaken and changed until you have a strong feeling with one of these ideal partner candidates.

It doesn't take effort to fall in love with someone, it's just an accident, it's God's arrangement, and it takes effort to love someone continuously. In the management of love, the elements of smooth operation are communication, understanding, tolerance and self-control (self-control in the face of temptation). There are many people who are always confused and distressed by opportunities. They are addicted to their own thoughts and desires, and they forget that the ability to manage their feelings is the key to happiness.