After thirty, smart women began to save money. What is the reason?

After thirty, smart women began to save money. What is the reason? If you look closely, you will find that many women are in two completely different situations after 30 and before 30. Before I was ten years old, I was full of longing for love and addicted to it. I often say that "you don't have to bake bread if you want feelings", and I always feel that I am full of love and water. But after the age of 30, some women began to see through everything and gradually realized that their feelings were unreliable. Only the money in their hands is the most tangible thing. They gradually understand that sometimes, amorous feelings can't make people drink enough, but lead to drought, and die of thirst before they starve to death. So they gradually save money, firmly believing that the money in their hands is more important than their feelings, and firmly believing that the only thing that will not leave them in this life is money.

Rousseau once said that the money in everyone's hand is the only special tool to safeguard a person's free will. To tell the truth, money is really important for people's survival in this world, so at any time, women should try to save money instead of putting their expectations on others. Before the age of 30, you can be arrogant, because you also have plenty of time to try and make mistakes. Once you are over 30, you need to plan for the rest of your life. Don't think that everything will be fine by marrying a rich man. After all, this is someone else's money. Of course, he is willing to pay for your novelty, but when she is not interested in you, you are nothing, let alone spend money for you.

Chatting with several readers, they told me that there are three main reasons for gradually saving money after the age of 30: Du, a 32-year-old English teacher, said that women's self-confidence comes from separate economic development. I think I used to be stupid, infatuated with love and love, and it is very important to look at feelings, but now I am still optimistic, and women have confidence in wealth and freedom. My husband graduated from junior college, and I have an advantage over this in diploma, but my brain is very flexible. After several years of hard work, his net worth gradually came up. So their relatives and friends all think that I can't compete with him, and I have nothing to brag about except an establishment management.

Before, I felt that as long as my husband still loves me and has feelings for me, then I am not afraid of anything. But gradually, I feel that my ideas are really naive, and I don't have that feeling that will never fade. Men can love you enough to do the most vicious things to hurt you. From the time I found out that my husband was having an affair with a woman on my mobile phone, I deeply doubted my feelings, and I was tired of fortune telling. Are you going to abandon me? Then I don't think so, but I certainly don't love me as much as before. Of course, if you can't get the oldest feelings, then try to figure out something else. It's always good to leave yourself a way out. Whether I earn money myself or my husband gives me pocket money, I will save some. This is the source of my confidence. Whether dealing with others or my husband, this is my confidence. To tell the truth, even if I divorce him, I will have a life-saving money, and I will not be so poor.