I think my character is flawed. What should I do?

The phenomenon of unsociable is obvious among children, so parents need to help correct it and cultivate children's ability of foreign communication. However, is being unsociable necessarily a character defect? Actually, it's not. Being unsociable has both advantages and disadvantages. Everything has two sides, both advantages and disadvantages. Introversion is not a character defect, and introversion is not the fault of children.

Whether from the perspective of criminal psychology or numerology, there seems to be an eternal topic-personality defects can not be avoided.

Extreme personality defects will inevitably lead to extreme behaviors and events. Wu is a perfect talent in the eyes of others. As mentioned in some articles, he is "strong and self-disciplined, sensible and polite", he is "gifted" and he is "rational and calm, strong and mature". Such praise, no matter where it is placed, will bring its own aura, dazzling design, which can be said to trigger infinite "envy and hatred." But when he tried the perfect crime on his mother with precise logic. When he can be unusually calm after killing his mother in the most cruel way, the powerful ironic shock wave may have hit those dazzling auras beyond recognition. How many people are happy and how many people are sad in the face of this profound difference in three views and implanted into our solidified thinking and consciousness mode?

In writing this topic, my position is not limited to narrow and extreme crimes, but I want to illustrate the complexity of human nature through the crime of this high IQ talent. Narrow personality defects will become hot spots because of emergencies, and narrow personality defects will inevitably lead to extreme problems. However, in my eyes, the generalized personality defect is the topic that deserves more attention. Through observation, I found that most people think they are normal in our lives. In fact, in my opinion, most people have personality defects. But some stubborn defects are hidden in the depths of the subconscious and are not easy to detect. Once there is some variation in life form, these personality defects will be exposed through various psychological diseases. Mental health problems are far more complicated than physical health problems. Sometimes they are not directly reflected in front of people, but once magnified by the magnifying glass of life, they will show all kinds of ferocious appearance. Perhaps, this is a general statement, but if we put pride, contempt, arrogance, anger, hatred, complaints, desires, longings, greed, fear, anxiety, retreat, sadness, disappointment, pessimism, indifference, despair, self-abandonment and guilt, self-blame. If these problems are regarded as an equation with personality defects, who will say that it is absolutely normal?